Question Posted Thursday December 23 2004, 8:23 pm
I have these two friends... they shall remain nameless... but i have these two friends who really dont like eachother.. they dont get along at all.. they like despise eachother... one is my brothers girlfriend who ive known for like 2-3 months.. and she a really good friend of mine.. we became really close.. and the other is my best friend of 4 years... they dont get a long.. i recently moved... and my friend of 4 years is coming to see me... well my mother invited my other fried to stay with me for that same week... UGh... they have to drive 4 hours in a car together.. with my brother.. and stay together for a week and hang out... well my question is how do i get them to get along... i dont want to hang out with one at a time because i dont want one to feel left out.. and i dont want to deal with them fighting the whole week.. they already said they werent going to start anything with eachother out of respect for me and my mom.. but i know they will at some point... how do i get it so all three of us can chill and no one argues or feels left out?
lyDia_LoU answered Friday December 24 2004, 2:01 pm: I think you should just let them deal with it, and enjoy their company while they are there. Try to ignore the tension between them for that one week. Bc you're right, you can't hang out with one and leave the other at home. Maybe go to a movie- but don't ask what they want to see.you choose. Good luck! Oh and make sure your mom knows that for the future invite them separately! [ lyDia_LoU's advice column | Ask lyDia_LoU A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Friday December 24 2004, 10:14 am: I think you should get them together and see what they have in common. For instance, they both like you, lol. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
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tish answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:30 pm: hey there,i think you should let them both find out what they both have in common and see where it goes from there.hope i helped!!!!.-tish [ tish's advice column | Ask tish A Question ]
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