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Hey there! I'm Carey. I'd love to hear from you so don't hesitate to ask me anything! I'll reply to you the best way I can. Feel free to even send me an email!xo
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I normally don't mind having scars. They heal and fade on their own for me after a couple years. I'm a total klutz, so having scars on my legs isn't a big deal to me. Problem? I recently burned my face with a curling iron, and I really don't want a mark that big on my chin for the next two years.
My dermatologist told me that Mederma is a waste of money and time. Are there any other treatments I can do, and has anyone had any luck with Mederma? Absolutely anything is very much appreciated! =]
Sometimes you just have to live with it.
haha. I burnt myself with my curling iron two a few years ago and I still have a light scar from it on my jaw line.
If it is still in the stage where the skin comes off then dont pick at it. Dirt on your hands may cause it to scar more.
Good luck.
There is this one guy, who i liked for a while over the summer
and then all of the sudden we stopped talking for a while, and now we are back to talking..
but like i dont know if i still like him, im just confused but the only thing is, i cant figure him out!!
they say guys are confusing and i agree this kid is so mysterious
apparently he likes it when i i.m him first
because we took that long break because none of us would i.m eachother
but then on ocasion he i.ms me
also he doesnt wave in the halls
maybe he's shy idk
but then on occasion he stops me and says hi
im just confuseddd
helppp =(
Friends are a huge influence. If hes around his that may be why he doesnt talk much to you in the halls. Same if your friends are with you.
Guys are weird.
haha.
Next weekend I'm seeing my boyfriend! and we're going to be riding around in his car, and we've already talked about going further and going to a certain point. I'm going to let him finger me, but thats all, but I just wanted to know, there's nothing bad to it..right? Just make sure he goes slow since this is my first time, and make sure he has no cuts on his finger. Yeah, his nails are cut short, and they look perfect, also, his hands are medium-ish, they look perfect to me! =]
I'm just wondering about this cause I read a question on here and a girl was having side pains..and yeah just making sure. If anything bad can happen, then I'm not going to do it. I hope it's okay that I'm making sure of this. I love my boyfriend so much..but he's had sex before, and what if I let him "eat me out" sorry if thats bad, but I mean, lets just say I did, is it ok? do I make sure he didn't get a disease from the last relationship he had? What if he did, then don't do it? Or what if he didn't?
Please answer this, thanks!
It should be fine but I think that if your this unsure about all these safety precautions you should wait.
idk, it may be out of the subject but it just sounds like your going to let him do these things to you so he would stay in a relationship with you. A relationship isn't just based on sex -regardless of the "type". Just so you know.
im a good person, and usually a really good girlfriend. i have never cheated on anybody before, i don't even flirt with other guys if i'm taken! but my emotions have gotten me into a position that i just feel really lost and confused. i have two boyfriends, and i don't know which one to choose? oh man that sounds horrible.
it's just, me and "bob" broke up after 9 months of being together because he didn't treat me right. he lied constantly, snuck around with girls behind my back, and let his friends treat me like dirt. but after all that, he really is the only one who is always there. he is uaually really sweet and i love to be in his arms. he lives near me and i see him everyday at school so it's been hard not being "with" him, especially because he follows me around. he never even looked at another girl since our breakup, and i do love him so much and he does love me, but i keep thinking he's hurt me too much to get back with him so i moved on and got another boyfriend.
fred, he's everything i could ever have wanted in a boyfriend. he treats me right and is sooooooo hilarious. he can make me laugh no matter what, and he's so sweet. i don't know if i love him, but i know over time i will, you don't just fall in love after only a month. but he is really loyl and i keep thinking, he deserves a chance more than bob. plus all of my friends and family absolutely love fred! and all my friends and family absolutely hate bob... but the one negtive about fred is i never get to see him! he goes to a differant school and we never have time on the weekends. it's been weeks since i have seen him last and that bothers me alot because it feels like he can't be there for me, and i feel like i don't have a boyfriend.
i would just keep goin with fred but something happened last night. i was hanging out with bob and we kissed, and i missed him soooooo much i got butterflies and everything. when he asked for me back i said yes and i was happy until i was walking home and realized i already have a boyfriend! and i have to break it off with one of them, but i have no clue which one. =[
It is a tough decision but I think you should go with Fred.
See you've already tried it with Bob once, and he hurt you. Who's to say he won't do it again? You've had your experiences with him so why not try and date someone else for a change?
Idk
it tough but i'd go with Fred.
Good luck :)
15/f. About a week ago, my friend [A] told me that she was going to set me up with the guy that I like. I knew this wasn't a good idea, because we're not the BEST of friends. I was VERY reluctant, but since she was all "Oh, don't worry...It'll work out ;)" I couldn't help but wonder and let her go on with it. So, I didn't mention anything to her about him. We only see him in one class. The thing is, this guy doesn't even know me and we never talk. Now, here comes the problem. My friend A told her other friend B that I like him. SInce I'm friends with B, I thought nothing of it. I just moved on and ignored it, because I knew it wasn't going to work out and didn't think she was serious about setting me up with the guy. So, two days later, I find out that A told ANOTHER one of her friends, this time, someone who I don't even know : C. So, you know what C does (she's a girl)? C goes up to the guy, and tells him that "some girl named [me] likes you." When A told me this, I was dumbfounded and extremely pissed. I felt so betrayed. A knife has been placed in my back. I trusted A. I let her do this for me because she said it was her pleasure, I shouldn't worry about it and that she wanted to do it and that "you guys BELONG TOGETHER :D" But why the fuck would you tell someone I don't even KNOW then!? Who gave you the right to do that?
I'm so confused, guys...*sigh*..The guy knows that I like him, and now he won't even look at me.
Do you think they did this on purpose to fuck me over?
The thing is, I shrugged it off nicely, while still hurting inside. :(
I know EXACTLY how you feel. My "Best friend" does that to me. She goes around telling random people who I like. I don't do that to her so why should she do that to me?
Just tell that chick to stop. You trusted her and now she has given you a reason to NOT trust her. I mean she can't control what "C" does but like you said, why should she tell someone who you like when you don't even know the person?
It'll be tough and even though you shouldn't have to just keep things about this boy to yourself and don't share it with your 'friends' because if they are going to do stuff like that to you, then why bother sharing stuff with them?
Good luck.
since i was 13 and got my period, i've been exactly on schedule every month when getting my period. i usually play school soccer in the fall, exercising every day at practice after school.. however this year i am not playing soccer and so my exercising activity has decreased dramatically this fall. can this affect my period schedule? because i'm a week late for the first time ever! however i've also been sexually active since june, (always use protection).. and never have had the experience of a condom ripping.. but since i'm a week late for the first time ever, i'm scared about what it might mean. is it just the sudden change of exercise level?
Depending on how old you are now I guess. ...
You shouldn't worry. Your body is still changing and sometimes your period may be perfect schedule and some months it wont.
I've been like you. I've had it on time every month, but give or take a few times it came a few weeks early or a few weeks late.
You shouldn't stress about it. If you're stressing its not going to "flow"
hey i'm 15/f.
i've recently had extremely bad skin, and my periods already gone so that's def. not it. anyways, theres this ONE zit that will not go away.
it has been there for about a month, and it looks like 2 zits combined, honestly.
i've been drying it out, putting REALLY hot water on it to try and get it to come to a head for popping.
for some reason, it won't. school starts in a week and a half, and i really don't want to have this HUGE red peely bubble on the side of my chin that wasn't there when school ended.
PLEASE help, guys! what should i do?
Even though it feels like pimple it might actually be a bug bite or something. Just continue what your doing.
Try this homemade remedy for pimples.
works for me :)
http://www.lifeslyrics.org/you/reads/homemadeacne.php
Okay I liked this boy. I knew he didn't like me so we just flirted and stuff.
Well I got a lot of stuff done to me over the summer. I got basicly a make-over. New hair, I lost 20pounds!!!!!, and got new glasses. Well I was hanging out with a couple friends when they brought him up. There like doi u still like him???and thats a yes. Ohh well you look stunning Katie, dont worry theres not way he wont gawk at you. It was a fun night but I got worried. What if he doesn't like my new hair? I usto have an afro.. hardcore afro! Now its layered and straight.And I got those emo glasses.
His name is Eric. and he's the sweetest guy you'd ever meet. He's not like guys, but hes not gay lol.. He puts up with soo much shit.. all me and Danieles gossip:) Ahhhh wbat if he hates it and stops talking to me because he cant stand to look at me??Okay that would never happen... err.
Can you please give me some confidence. Because I know I look good. But I want him to love it to..
As long as you walk with confidence and YOU love it then he will too.
I think guys are more attracted to girls who are confident in their appearance rather than girls who arent.
If you think you look hot then flaunt it and he'll love it :)
Is there anyway to make your period stop faster?
I dont mean forever, but i just got it (not the first time) and it usually lasts for 2 weeks and im going back to school and i dont want it at first when i go back. So is there anyway to make it stop faster? PLEASE TELL ME :]. Thx.
To be honest, unless your taking a pill or something I don't think you can stop your period faster.
The only thing I can think of is exersice to get the flow going and get it out faster.
Sorry thats not much help.
ive been hanging out with this guy.. and like we've been getting close.. and like.. now hes in mexico for a week.. and i REALLY miss him cause i cant even talk to him..and like its driving me crazy! please give me ideas on how i can make the time go faster.. PLEASE! and dont say hang out with friends cause ive been doing that but like when im by myself its really bad.. like i miss him a lot! so any ideas?!
Find an art project or rent a bunch of movies and watch them with your best friends and have a huge slumber party haha.
If you feel like talking to him really badly just write a letter to get it off your chest ;)
Keep in mind its only a week, it'll go by fast :)
When someone is opening up to you, and you have no idea what their going through because you have never been there before, what can you say to them ?
Well it depends on the situation to begin with.
If its a friend/family member that is sick or has passed on then you would want to say something that would comfort them like "they're in a better place." or "I'll always be here if you want to talk"
I think the whole "i'll always be there" line can be used in any situation.
Honestly, there isn't always the right thing to say at all. Its different with every person and situation. Just follow your heart.
Sorry, thats tough.
How do you learn not to care? Like..I try not to..yet in the end I care about things I really don't want to. How do I let go friends I don't want anymore and make my life hell....I'm really confused. Can someone help me?!
Unfortunatly its really impossible not to care because the more you try not to you end up caring more than you ever should. All I can tell you is be honest with yourself and if you care about something/someone then don't try and shove it away. Embrace it, because if you really want to stop caring about it realizing you DO in the first place is kinda like the first step.
As for the friend thing, you just have to figure out if they're actually worth having around. You don't have to be with them 24/7 just gradually move away from them. Join a club and meet new people.
Don't be scare to change things.
Change isn't always bad.
:)
Good luck.
k so theres this guy that i see like everywhere
and hes so good looking and when i look at him he is sometimes looking at me but most of the time he is . he also seems like an amazing guy and i really want to get to know him.
were friends on myspace and i am debating if i should message him that hes beautiful cause im a funny person and so is he so yeah. or if you have anything for me to say. please help me out
drop a few hints like, when you comment him be like: "HEY CUTIEE WHATS UP"
or something along those lines.
Keep it subtle to see his reactions and if they are good reactions then go for it :)
My boyfriendsgonna say the three big wordss to me!
I'm pretty sure that I love him, but what are some things that you could say back? Like if he says "I love you," and then I say "I love you too" he'd think I was just saying that cuz he did.
Or what if someone said I love you and you didn't love them back what would you say in that situation!?
You can answer only one if you don't feel like doing both I won't rate down =]
Well if you love him back you could say like:
"I love you too. I'm so happy to be with you."
But don't say I love you if you don't love him, cause in the end if he finds out you don't, he'll just be really hurt.
If you didn't love him, I'd say something like:
"Aww *hugs* I really like you, but I think I just need to be with you more to love you"
Just be honest I guess.
I don't know. That one is tough. I guess if I didn't love im I wouldn't be with him.
my friends grandfather died this morning. hes really hurt. but i dont know what to say to him. im scared ill say something wrong. what should i tell him?
ugh. that really sucks and it is super hard.
No matter how many times you tell your friend "he's in a better place" and stuff like that, its not going to erase that empty place in his heart. Just let him know that you're there for him for whenever he wants to talk.
Maybe take him out to a movie to help distract him.
13/F
I always avoid guys I like. I'm either really intimidated by him or I want to seem more confident by not talking to him or I'm embarrassed of liking a guy.
I'm quite an introvert. I'm really embarrassed that a guy might know I like him and I try to hide the fact that I like him by never to talking to him much, or avoiding him, never making eye contact, etc.
I'm too shy about this and I need some advice. (Books, tips, exercises? Anything.)
Thanks. :)
I know exactly what you mean.
Like during the last day of school I saw my crush in the halls and I literally ran to avoid him. I always have that feeling that if I ignore or avoid him he'd end up wanting me more? Like you know how you see it in the movies...
Really and truely its about how comfortable you are with yourself. You should be able to like yourself first and mostly before you should like anyone else.
There isn't really a way to change that whole avoiding thing, its something that comes with time and the confidence you build as you grow up.
idk if it would work but keep a daily diary or some sort of memory thing and document the good things about your days and your accomplishments so whenever you feel like you don't like yourself you can look back and see "well I did this really good thing, im a good person" yaddayaddayadda. haveing strong friendships will help too. Always have that support system when you feel down.
Don't expect to change overnight. I still feel how you feel every day aswell but it'll take time and a whole lot of effort to change (but in the end its worth it)
Hope I could help.
Feel free to add me on msn if you want to talk.
-CARI
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15/f. i use proactiv for my skin and it really helps. my skin normally looks really good except for maybe one zit. but now i'm on my period and i'm breaking out like crazy!
what can i do? i look horrible. my face is all red and blotchy from the zits.
so just what can i do in addititon to my proactiv to make them go away?
Egg White.
Crack and egg and spoon out the yolk (yellow stuff) and throw it away or cook it or whatever. Then stir up the left over stuff till its frothy (bubbly and watery -not so gooey).
Then open your pores using a hot face cloth or sticking your head over a pot of boiling water.
Plaster the Egg White all over your face and use it as a mask. leave it on for 10-20 minutes (depending on how long it'll dry). If its itching and you can feel the tightness then its working!
have fun with it. Its free and simple.
The egg has proteins that are needed in your skin so by applying it to your face your putting that protein back and making your skin healthier.
what are good mbs i can visit? (forums) i go to Snark Forums: dubious.nu/forum and DMB: http://dodosmb.com/
I go on Gravity MB
http://gravitymb.com
I get really bad razor burn on my legs. I use shaving cream and lotion and everything, but I still get it...
Anyone have any suggestions?
Try buying a new brand of razor, or it could be the lotions and stuff you use too.
my mom's extremely strict and stubborn. i can't hang out with guys, can't date them, and i can't do a bunch of other stuff that every other 13 year old girl CAN. i can't have sleepovers with friends. and it drives me NUTS. i've had one in my life with a friend because my parents had a wedding, and thats IT. my friend jenna and me are staying home all summer and we wanna hang out..a lot. (were best friends) and she was like "lets have a sleepover on friday with ana" (ana is my other friend) and im scared my mom wont let me. im not sure if shes okay with it or not, because its summer and she knows i have nothing to do. im just so scared. i know jenna is going to have SO many sleepovers like she always does. and i always feel like im a weirdo and im always outside of my circle of friends. they have millions of sleepovers with each other, and i havent had any. i just really need some VERY convincing reasons why i should be able to have sleepovers over the summer. please, i dont want to be left out all summer to..:-\
My mom use to be really really strict to. Sit her down and tell ask her why you really can't. Try and make your mom feel comfortable with the situation, tell her you can talk to your friends parents so that she knows your in a safe environment. Or how about asking if you can host a sleepover so your mom can see what'll go on during one and not feel so threatened.
Good luck.