Next weekend I'm seeing my boyfriend! and we're going to be riding around in his car, and we've already talked about going further and going to a certain point. I'm going to let him finger me, but thats all, but I just wanted to know, there's nothing bad to it..right? Just make sure he goes slow since this is my first time, and make sure he has no cuts on his finger. Yeah, his nails are cut short, and they look perfect, also, his hands are medium-ish, they look perfect to me! =]
I'm just wondering about this cause I read a question on here and a girl was having side pains..and yeah just making sure. If anything bad can happen, then I'm not going to do it. I hope it's okay that I'm making sure of this. I love my boyfriend so much..but he's had sex before, and what if I let him "eat me out" sorry if thats bad, but I mean, lets just say I did, is it ok? do I make sure he didn't get a disease from the last relationship he had? What if he did, then don't do it? Or what if he didn't?
EXTREMERACERX02 answered Monday October 8 2007, 7:47 pm: I think it sounds like you are having second thoughts about it. I wouldnt blame you since he has had sex before he could have got a disease without knowing it. I think you should find out before you take a huge step like that one that could change your life or kill you. [ EXTREMERACERX02's advice column | Ask EXTREMERACERX02 A Question ]
carayotie answered Monday October 8 2007, 7:44 pm: It should be fine but I think that if your this unsure about all these safety precautions you should wait.
idk, it may be out of the subject but it just sounds like your going to let him do these things to you so he would stay in a relationship with you. A relationship isn't just based on sex -regardless of the "type". Just so you know. [ carayotie's advice column | Ask carayotie A Question ]
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