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I like this girl and I'm 99% sure she doesn't like me back what do I do? Do I tell her? It's hard to give up (link)
dont do what they other person said that will creep the girl out like alot hangout with her more and try to have private convos with her dont tell her u like her until after u hook up


i'm trying out for a volleyball club team in november.. what skills should i practice now and how should i practice for it? and should I like run and stuff? How can i get in shape for it? btw I'm 13 and i've done summer volleyball once, volleyball in school (like gym), a 5 day volleyball camp in the summer (preparing us for highschool vball), 2 clinics (they were 5 week clinics.. like you came once a week) and yeah.. thats about it. i really want to make the team.. so yeah, haha i love vball. and thanks for the help! :) (link)
ive been playing volleyball for like 4 years now and u definately need to be in shape. You need to get a ball and some else who is good at vball to practice because practicing with someone worse than you is not helpful just fun. Also when you go to the tryouts the best thing to do is talk alot like call the ball and stuff to that effect. But be loud its very important


Next weekend I'm seeing my boyfriend! and we're going to be riding around in his car, and we've already talked about going further and going to a certain point. I'm going to let him finger me, but thats all, but I just wanted to know, there's nothing bad to it..right? Just make sure he goes slow since this is my first time, and make sure he has no cuts on his finger. Yeah, his nails are cut short, and they look perfect, also, his hands are medium-ish, they look perfect to me! =]

I'm just wondering about this cause I read a question on here and a girl was having side pains..and yeah just making sure. If anything bad can happen, then I'm not going to do it. I hope it's okay that I'm making sure of this. I love my boyfriend so much..but he's had sex before, and what if I let him "eat me out" sorry if thats bad, but I mean, lets just say I did, is it ok? do I make sure he didn't get a disease from the last relationship he had? What if he did, then don't do it? Or what if he didn't?

Please answer this, thanks! (link)
You cnt get a disease from either one of those things


I really like this guy and dont know if he likes me back but it seems as if he is giving me all the signs what do I do. I LOVE him real LOVE. HELP ME PLEASE (link)
you dont know if you love him. you dont even know if he likes you i think you should talk to him and flirt with him and maybe hell give you some signs


Ok, so i cheat. I cheat alot, i cheat at almost anything i do and i try and get away with alot of things i do. This has to do with all schoolwork. I get average grades. But i just wanted to know if this is ok. So we have these vocab books in english, well i took the books the teachers were holding onto from last year and use all the answers. so i never have to fill out the book. But when the test comes i learn the words because i feel stupid if i look off somones paper. But i just like things to be alot easier in school. Like i havent done homework in 2 yrs. Yet i still get average grades and i know everything on the subjects i just think it's very pointless most of the work they make you do. I just wanted to know if im depriving myself at all from learning that well. Im also worried if i start cheating later on in life like with taxes and money and checks and all that and i dont want to end up like that but right now im really good at it and i have never gotten caught. So im just wondering when i should stop, or if im hurting myself in anyway?? Thanks (link)
i think u should stop cheating just do your homework that you get that day in lunch or on a free period this way you dont have so much at
home


15/f. at my school there is this group of people that most people call "goth", "emo", or "punk". but i hate labels and most people are afraid of them and don't talk to most of them. i guess you can call me "preppy" or a "girlie-girl" but again i hate labels and i wear and dress how i want to. okay so to get back on topic this is a guy at my school who is bi so a lot of peple to talk to him. especially the guys, they make fun of him and are like afraid to sit near him or talk to him.

well this kid is in my chorus class and like the second day of class we started talking and i realized that he is REALLY NICE. so we always sit next to each other in chorus and talk all the time. i would consider us friends, but not like best friends or anything because we only talk in school and chorus is my only class with him. people, and a lot of my friends, think that it is weird that i talk to him and that i'm friends with him. i think that people are just so rude and it really disgusts me the things they say about him.

then last chorus class we had like 10 min. before the end of class so my teacher just let us talk and he moved away from the class and sat by himself and asked me to sit with him. so i did and we just talked the whole time, but i felt like everyone was just watching us. them my one friend came up to me and asked "are you two like best friends?" and i just said "well we're friends, but we only really talk in school". and then she said "well it looks like you are best friends".

so basically it just really bothers me how people act towards him and a lot of people think it is weird that i talk/am friends with him. what can i do to make people realize he is nice? and also people think it is weird that we are friends because he is "punk" and dresses in black/band shirts, black skinny jeans, black converses, wear eyeliner and had color his hair. and i wear like regular jeans, shirts from hollister/delias, ballet flats and i don't wear heavy eyeliner. but them sometimes i wear skinny jeans and my vans. but basically i'm kinda girly.

also people make fun of him because sometimes he wears like pink headbands to school, or clips, or striped/hearts ballet flats. then on halloween he was a girl and wore a mini skirt, leggings, a regular shirt, and stuffed a bra. i thought that it was cute and funny but other people didnt. then for the winter formal he told me that he is going to wear a dress and i loved it and we had this fun little arguement about whose dress was going to be better. that is why i love this guy and am his friend because he is just so easy to talk to.

wow i'm so sorry this was so long. but i just need advice on what to do about my friends thinking it is weird that i am friends with him and the people who make fun of him.

thank you so much to whoever answers! (link)
i think you should invite your friends and him to your house an let them get to know him better then maybe they will realize he is a pretty kool kid


Ok so a lot of people tell me i am too thin. I've done those online calculators and they say i am, but you can't really trust those things because they don't take in to consideration a lot of important factors, you know. So, I thought if people could look at my pic site and give me their honest opinion? Thanks. http://www.picturetrail.com/photos/blondina75 (link)
you need to talk to a relative and then maybe the doctor




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