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Ok so last year i loved this guy and i say love because he is everything to me. Well after i told him i liked him he sent me a letter( because he goes to college across the country) and it didn't say he liked me and it didn't say that he hated me so idk. And now he's home for break and it seems like he's ok w/ everything cause we can talk and i've even caught him looking at me in THAT way am i halucinating again? or does he maybe have something towards me? what should i do? (link)
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well, sometimes it's difficult to convey a message through a letter so maybe there's a reason he didn't say he liked you or disliked you in his letter. or he might not have been interested in you in that way at the time. If he's looking at you differnt now, the only thing you can do is just come out and ask him. Theres no way to read his mind or be able to tell what he's thinking. If you want the truth just ask him if he has more than friendly feelings for you. Now if he puts a move on you before you talk to him, than it's kinda obvious that he's feeling more than brotherly love for ya so maybe then you wouldn't have to ask him at all. But if all he does is make conversation than be brave and find out whats goin on in his head.
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Hi I have a very red pimple, is there anything I can use besides toothpaste that would help reduce the redness? (link)
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well honestly there's no way to reduce the redness of a pimple, it just has to go away on it own. What i usually do is use cover up. It's really simple: just put a little bit of cover up over the zit then rub it in. make sure it's not a different shade than your skin or you'll have a big brown splotch on your face and it'll look stupider than the pimple.
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15/f. at my school there is this group of people that most people call "goth", "emo", or "punk". but i hate labels and most people are afraid of them and don't talk to most of them. i guess you can call me "preppy" or a "girlie-girl" but again i hate labels and i wear and dress how i want to. okay so to get back on topic this is a guy at my school who is bi so a lot of peple to talk to him. especially the guys, they make fun of him and are like afraid to sit near him or talk to him.
well this kid is in my chorus class and like the second day of class we started talking and i realized that he is REALLY NICE. so we always sit next to each other in chorus and talk all the time. i would consider us friends, but not like best friends or anything because we only talk in school and chorus is my only class with him. people, and a lot of my friends, think that it is weird that i talk to him and that i'm friends with him. i think that people are just so rude and it really disgusts me the things they say about him.
then last chorus class we had like 10 min. before the end of class so my teacher just let us talk and he moved away from the class and sat by himself and asked me to sit with him. so i did and we just talked the whole time, but i felt like everyone was just watching us. them my one friend came up to me and asked "are you two like best friends?" and i just said "well we're friends, but we only really talk in school". and then she said "well it looks like you are best friends".
so basically it just really bothers me how people act towards him and a lot of people think it is weird that i talk/am friends with him. what can i do to make people realize he is nice? and also people think it is weird that we are friends because he is "punk" and dresses in black/band shirts, black skinny jeans, black converses, wear eyeliner and had color his hair. and i wear like regular jeans, shirts from hollister/delias, ballet flats and i don't wear heavy eyeliner. but them sometimes i wear skinny jeans and my vans. but basically i'm kinda girly.
also people make fun of him because sometimes he wears like pink headbands to school, or clips, or striped/hearts ballet flats. then on halloween he was a girl and wore a mini skirt, leggings, a regular shirt, and stuffed a bra. i thought that it was cute and funny but other people didnt. then for the winter formal he told me that he is going to wear a dress and i loved it and we had this fun little arguement about whose dress was going to be better. that is why i love this guy and am his friend because he is just so easy to talk to.
wow i'm so sorry this was so long. but i just need advice on what to do about my friends thinking it is weird that i am friends with him and the people who make fun of him.
thank you so much to whoever answers! (link)
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I want to give you major props for being friends with who you want to and not letting other people define all of the relationships you have at your school. You can't change what people think about this guy, it's their issue. you think he's cool and he seems really cool so you shouldn't worry about it. If your friends are really your friends they shouldn't diss you and your friendship with this guy. they should be happy that you have someone besides them to talk to. They're probly just intimidated by his lifestyle and what he looks like and stuff like that. if they talked to him every once in a while, then they'd probly see the same things about him that you do. encourage them to give him a chance. don't push them to though, just let them do it on their own and in their own time. continue to be happy with the friendship you have with this guy and don't let anyone pressure you to stop talking to him.be happy
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ohkay well ive havde my period for a year now. and i dont get it every month why?
ive never had sex nothing at all with a guy.
why arnt my periods coming? (link)
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CHILL!!! it's really not that big of a deal. lots of girls have irregular periods especially when they haven't been having them for a long time. I do to sometimes i go for a coupla days and then sometimes i go for over a week. It's noting to worry about.
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16/female.
Let me just start out by saying that I am a STRONG believer of gay marriage, and I have absolutely NO problem with homosexuals in the slightest.
One of my friends is a lesbian, and I love her because she's amazing, she really is. But, lately she's been really touchy feely. She writes me notes saying, "I know you're in denial, I know you're conservative & straight, but you should atleast experiment & give it a try." I AM straight, I was born it, so I can't just change and be a lesbian, that's what I think & feel. I'm not attracted to her at all.
She'll like come up to me in the halls at school, and hug me and kiss my neck and shove me up against a locker, and it seriously is beginning to look like I'm a lesbian.
When she does this, I just say, "Nooo! STOP IT" Like, I don't know if she takes it seriously or not, but when I say stop she does. So, today on AIM, we were talking, and this was our conversation:
Her: I'm going to look hot tomorrow in school.
Me: Ahah, Whyy??
Her: I got new clothes.
Her: Kiss me?
Her: :)
Me: Ahh, that's nice! :)
Me: lol, No thanks.
Her: No thanks, what the fuck?
Her: Why did you say that?
Me: To the whole "kiss me" thing.
Her: Whatever.
Me: HEY! don't!!
Her: Don't what?
Me: Be mean. :(
Her: You did this yourself.
Her: It's your fault.
* BLOCKS ME *
Ahhh, so. I just would like to know if this is any of my fault at all. I'm not LEADING her on, I wouldn't even know how to do that. I'm dating a guy & I'm really attracted to him & she knows that. But she'll always say that I need to experiment with her & stuff, and it's just really weird for me.
Thanks in advance. :]
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Soooo, maybe you need to talk to your friend about this. If she's really your friend she won't try to push you into something you don't want to do. If you don't want to experiment, tell her so. and don't laugh it off and try to play around when you tell her or she'll think you're joking and not really serious. you need to set her straight and let her know that you ARE completely straight and want to stay that way. She should respect you're honesty and your decision and let it go. You're happily dating someone of the male persuasion, so why rock the boat??
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From my question: what are the deadly sins, I commited 6/7. Does that mean I'm a very bad person and will go to hell? I'm only a teen and I try so hard not to commit those sins but it seems every day I'm envious and jealous and angry but I never yell I only keep them in my head but I have head aches all the time from keeping it all in. And does anyone know the words to Hail Mary? I beleive it's a prayer to ask god to forgive me.. (link)
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ok, just let me tell you that every teen, every person actually, gets envious, jealous, and angry almost everyday of their lives. We're only human and everyone makes mistakes. NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!No you're not a bad person and you won't go to hell. You don't have to say any Hail Marys to be forgiven. All you have to do is ask God to forgive you and mean it. He'll forgive you and there's no reason for you to worry about those sins again. God forgives and forgets.
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so lately i was hospitalized for o.d.ing on seroquel and now my friends dont trust me and are total assholes about the situation and i just want to move on with my life but they keep bringing it up. what should i do? i feel like im losing the ppl who are my everything (link)
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maybe you should try to see if from your friends point of view. if they really are your true friends, they're probly worried that you'll do the same thing and end up dead this time. If they're just being snobs about the situation and going "Oh my God i can't believe you did that," than maybe you need some new friends. If they are really your friends and you don't want to lose them, tell them whats going on in your head. tell them that you're tired of bringing the subject up.Get everything out in the open and let them say how they feel and tell them how you feel then move on!!! If they can't get over it, that's there problem and not yours!!!
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Basically, I used to be a really good child. Not always the nicest, but most of the time my parents could stand me, and I never did drugs or anything really horrible. Around the time of Feb. some things happened with my mom, and I basically crashed. I hated her so much, and my dad turned the whole guilt trip God thing on me. I started smoking cigs, and weed, I always lie to my parents when I go somewhere, and I'm a total and complete bitch. I take every oppurtunity to get what I want, so I take advantage of people. I'm behind on credits because I've failed so many classes. I just gave up being so good, cause it felt like no matter what I did, somehow I'd get bit in the ass for it. Well its december now, I have no relationship what-so-ever with my dad or mom. When I get home, I call my boyfriend, and go sit in my room, or sit at the computer. I used to be really into church, and now I hate it and don't really believe in it anymore because all the people at that church are full of shit. I'm constantly watched by the congregation because they think my boyfriend and I are gonna go off and have sex behind the buildings or down the street (which would never happen.) We have gone off and smoked a few times and got caught tho, haha. But I really don't know what to do, it's starting to bother me a little bit. My dad told my sister that basically I'm "breaking his heart," because of the way I've been acting. He knows everything I do, I don't hide it at all, because there's really no point in hiding stuff like this. What should I do? It really sucks because my dad is so stressed out right now. We may loose our house and have to move. My parents have worked really hard to get our house, but now we just can't afford it. And, I don't want to quit smoking, it really does help me to chill out because I get so stressed so easily. Along with being addicted, it's extremely hard to quit so whatever. The whole weed thing was getting bad though, because the last 3 times I've smoked it, were because I was upset and I wanted to get away for a while. So I'm trying to not do that, I don't buy it anymore so I'm not gonna really have a problem with that. I guess I feel bad because I'm upsetting my dad, I could care less about my mom, she's never home anyway. Her and I will never have a relationship because we never get along no matter what, and she keeps to herself and never really talks to me about anything. I know I should change, but I don't really want to. I'm not depressed or anything. I have amazing friends, i'm in love with my boyfriend who is one of my most incredible guys I have ever known, I'm somewhat fine with the way I look, and I pretty much get what I want. I kind of always pictured this time of my life to be different. I figured I'd have different friends, look more like a girl instead of a somewhat gothed out chick, I thought I'd have a different relationship with my parents, like more close. Idk, it's hard, I know its bad for me, but I don't care..but I do. That probably doesn't make sense, but I just don't know what to think or feel anymore. (link)
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O.K. so i have never smoked or anything like that but i know about the bitch thing. my parents got divorced and my dads been drinking alcohol and other things since i was little. I felt like there was a brick wall gaurding my heart from anyone who tried to get close to me. I was a complete bitch to my mom and the rest of my family. my grades started slipping and i really didn't care. I started ditching my friends to hang out with different people who probably weren't a very good influence but i really didn't care. And about the God guilt thing? oh yeah, my dad did that to me to. you know, it was the "you should read your bible and pray and go to church" or my personal favorite, "would Jesus act like this or say this or do this??" that didn't help any it just pissed me off more. so you used to be a "good christian??" well thats what i always said "i used to be." but just because you don't think you are anymore doesn't mean God's not there every single day of your life watching over you and loving you no matter what you do. when you feel like you wanna change then just ask God to make a change. but don't say it till you mean it cuzz if you don't mean it nothing will happen.Once you do ask God to help you, just take it a day at a time. thats how i had to do it. I got tired of getin in trouble all the time and being a cold hard bitch so i asked God to help me and slowly but surely he did. I'm not saying i'm like some perfect angel now because i've still got a lot of issues, but at least i feel better when i look in the mirror. God can give you the happiness you feel when you smoke weed and he can take away the addiction for cigs. He can fix the relationship with your mom and help you with your grades. You just have to ask. Give it to God. You can't carry the weight of the world forever.
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