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PHantom of the past
Ok so last year i loved this guy and i say love because he is everything to me. Well after i told him i liked him he sent me a letter( because he goes to college across the country) and it didn't say he liked me and it didn't say that he hated me so idk. And now he's home for break and it seems like he's ok w/ everything cause we can talk and i've even caught him looking at me in THAT way am i halucinating again? or does he maybe have something towards me? what should i do?
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Ok, why don't you just ask this guy straight up if he likes you or not? You don't have anything to lose, the worst thing that could happen is he could say he doesn't have those feelings for you, and maybe knowing that would be better anyway bc you won't have to have your heart broken. Another thing, he lives across the country- get real honey- it's not gonna work out even if he does like you. So I think you should just move on. But, if you really like this guy like you say you do, then do like I said, ask him straight up if he has those feelings for you, and go from there.
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well, sometimes it's difficult to convey a message through a letter so maybe there's a reason he didn't say he liked you or disliked you in his letter. or he might not have been interested in you in that way at the time. If he's looking at you differnt now, the only thing you can do is just come out and ask him. Theres no way to read his mind or be able to tell what he's thinking. If you want the truth just ask him if he has more than friendly feelings for you. Now if he puts a move on you before you talk to him, than it's kinda obvious that he's feeling more than brotherly love for ya so maybe then you wouldn't have to ask him at all. But if all he does is make conversation than be brave and find out whats goin on in his head.
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it's hard to say whether he likes you since i don't know either of you, if he had really liked you back then he would have said so in the letter, so I'm guessing that when he recieved the letter he hadn't really thought of you that way, but didn't dislike you.
now, if you think he's looking at you diferently, then you should trust your intuition, he probably is. Since he couldn't see you when he got the letter before, it was hard for him to form any feelings, now that he sees you it is very likely that he is beginning to like you, so i suggest hanging out and talking to him alot, flirt a little but don't be too forward or tell him your feelings YET. give him time, if he begins to have feelings for you then he will probably act on them since he knows you like him. so just be casual, and if it's meant to be, something will happen.
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