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round 100
oaky so im dating this guy for what seems like the 20th time.im not telling anyone bcz all of my friends hate him. but i also have to decline on dates bcz im secretly involved. btw...im 14 and hes 16.well the story on him is he told a bunch of his football buddies just how intimate we had gotten. but i know he has changed bcz we have been going out again for about a month. but he didnt ask for sex once. so that is a big improvement on his part...bcz believe me...he is a class A pig. but i really like him. like...almost love. he's amazing. and im not shallow. i dont look for abercrombie models. hes kinda a big kid. but sweet as candy. very wealthy.not gonna lie. he does so much for me. his car is amazing. lol. and he treats me like a princess.okay...back to it. should i tell my friends and pray for the best that i know i wont get..risk losing all of my friends for someone that i could quite possibly marry?(ya i know fat chance) i love him. he loves me. my friends should support me right?or am i just a lost cause and i should cut all of my hair off drop out and be home schooled? btw...i wont really go to those extremes. lol
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If your friends were really friends, they'd understand. My friends go out with a lot of guys I'd like to kill, but it never lowered my respect and affection for my friends.
It really depends on WHY they hate this guy. If this boyfriend of yours made one of your friends cry or hurt one of your friends in some way, then you have to understand if they still hate him and get mad at you for it. It makes you seem like a disloyal friend. Its like you don't care if someone hurts them, just as long as he likes you, you're fine! And that is just plain heartless.
But if it's for another reason, like how he looks or how he's not funny or something, then take a chance. Tell them how you like this guy.
Calmly tell them, "Okay, I like him, a lot. He's really sweet and loving and I seriously think he's THE ONE for me. Before you yell at me or anything, I just want to say that I really wish this won't ruin our friendship, because that's important to me too. Really important to me. In fact, I've been keeping this a secret so I won't lose you girls. Then I realized if you girls were my real friends, you would support me and feel happy for me. I want to see if you girls are my real friends."
Tell me how it works out!!
-Jenny C
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If you feel that you really "love" this guy then show your friends that you've made up your mind. A good friend only wants whats best for you. If they see that your really happy with this guy then it shouldn't be a problem. You said that he's "improving", that's usually a good sign meaning he'd be willing to change for you. So if he makes you happy and you love him then let your friends know and (not meaning to be mean) if they object you'll know they're not that great of friends. o^-^o Hope I could help
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