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i don't know what to do!
im a good person, and usually a really good girlfriend. i have never cheated on anybody before, i don't even flirt with other guys if i'm taken! but my emotions have gotten me into a position that i just feel really lost and confused. i have two boyfriends, and i don't know which one to choose? oh man that sounds horrible.
it's just, me and "bob" broke up after 9 months of being together because he didn't treat me right. he lied constantly, snuck around with girls behind my back, and let his friends treat me like dirt. but after all that, he really is the only one who is always there. he is uaually really sweet and i love to be in his arms. he lives near me and i see him everyday at school so it's been hard not being "with" him, especially because he follows me around. he never even looked at another girl since our breakup, and i do love him so much and he does love me, but i keep thinking he's hurt me too much to get back with him so i moved on and got another boyfriend.
fred, he's everything i could ever have wanted in a boyfriend. he treats me right and is sooooooo hilarious. he can make me laugh no matter what, and he's so sweet. i don't know if i love him, but i know over time i will, you don't just fall in love after only a month. but he is really loyl and i keep thinking, he deserves a chance more than bob. plus all of my friends and family absolutely love fred! and all my friends and family absolutely hate bob... but the one negtive about fred is i never get to see him! he goes to a differant school and we never have time on the weekends. it's been weeks since i have seen him last and that bothers me alot because it feels like he can't be there for me, and i feel like i don't have a boyfriend.
i would just keep goin with fred but something happened last night. i was hanging out with bob and we kissed, and i missed him soooooo much i got butterflies and everything. when he asked for me back i said yes and i was happy until i was walking home and realized i already have a boyfriend! and i have to break it off with one of them, but i have no clue which one. =[
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It is a tough decision but I think you should go with Fred.
See you've already tried it with Bob once, and he hurt you. Who's to say he won't do it again? You've had your experiences with him so why not try and date someone else for a change?
Idk
it tough but i'd go with Fred.
Good luck :)
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wow. thats a tough one! i would do whatever your heart tells you. maybe you should just be friends with bob-- since you never get to see him. but honestly, its your decision!
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