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HEY GUYS. I figure i know a lot about advice. I have been threw a lot from family violence and growing up in environments with a lot of stress and stuff to relationships and sex questions. i have had my best friends move away, feel the pain of a lost love one, feel the hurt of loving some one so much it kills, and many different levels of love, pain, sorrow, and CONFUSION! so just ask away ill try to helps ya out ;D later

Hey so Its been a while since I have been on here just wanted to update a little.
I have had a few more life experiences. I have a best friend new to my life as of a few years ago now and she is amazing. I couldn't ask for some one better.I lost my first love from stupid choices i made and now am trying things a little differently i won't do the same stupid stuff as before. Hit me up ID LOVE TO HELP!!
Oh and I started college :)

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hery girls umm i just got my period and it sucks but i wanted to know how many days u have ur period in a month

kk ty

3-5 days a month i know it does such.
Hope i helped
andie

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I am very interested in history, and would like to have a career that has to do with history. I'm not sure what careers would have to do with history though, other than a history teacher. If anybody knows any other history-oriented jobs could you please name them and describe them a bit?

a person who digs up bones or a historian. or some one who gathers artifacts.

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HOW DO I GET RID OF DEPRESSION? I ve tried but I cant. Please give me some suggestions. Thankz bye.

no1left2understand@yahoo.com e-mail that e-mail adress she helps alot . hope she helps you . hope i was a good refrence.
Andie

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I live in Florida. 14/f. Anyway, we have company in town from Ohio. A little girl who is six years old and a little boy who is almost two years old. What would be some things that we could do Tomorrow with either just the six year old or both the six year old and her brother? The mother would be coming too but we can't think of anything to do.

♥ haleigh

ok if there is a chucky chease near you they would love that or if you have any young toys the 2 yearold would love that. go to putput or someplace with games. or hid and go seack , tag, i spy. anything like that hope i helped .
Andie

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So I've never really had to buy my girlfriend anything because my mom always took care of all of that. But last year, my gf found out that I don't personally buy her presents and she got all upset. Now, she wants me to go out and buy her her present this year by myself. My mom refuses to help me now. I've really never done this before and you don't have to believe me but it's true. Anyways, this is what I have so far:

100$ Abercrombie card (her fav. store)
50$ Hollister or Forever 21 card (her second fav.--I'm not sure which yet though)
And these earrings her sister helped me pick out. They're pink sapphires with pearl on top they're pretty nice.

But I can see my gf's face when she sees these..."oh gift cards...thanks babe..." She might like the earrings more though...I don't know. I'm already spending 250$ on all of that--I'll put in maybe like 75 more. Does anyone have any ideas?

OMG i would love all that stuff an i know she will to that is more than anof(sp) for one person. she will love the gift cards and the earings she will wear the earings and be able to get what she wants with the gift cards. omg she is lucky. don't worry about getting her anything els. but if you must maby a braclet or neckles to match the earings or a shirt those are always fun or a cute jacket. hope i helped
Andie

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Okay, I have a problem with this guy...you see I have this neighbor and I have just realized over this past summer that I am deeply in love with him. The only problem is that my best was in love with him too. So school came around and suddenly one day my friend Erika (the one who likes my neighbor Chris) comes up to me and says that Chris just asked her to be his girlfriend, but that he wants my premission before they become a couple.
So I talked to Chris and gave my premission because I knew it was the right thing to do and in the meanwhile I was completely and utterly devestated. I couldn't believe that this was happening. Chris and I had been the best of friends for a whole year and we were really close. I had always thought that just one day he would like me back. (He already knew that I liked him because my friend accidently let it slip awhile ago and he was really nice about it. And Erika and I had once asked him who he liked more and he said it was a tie)
Well now it's been about two months and it's getting even worse. Erika has started bragging about it. Saying things like "Oh my God I'm so glad that Chris choose me out of us!" in front of my face. And she's been making up stuff too like "Chris said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me!" and when I confronted Chris about it he said that wasn't true. I mean we are only 14. And then when the three of us hang out she hogs him and I can't even have a decent conversation with him.
It's so weird though because half the time Chris acts like he likes me and then other times it's like I got a deasese. I just don't know what to do anymore! Erika is driving me insane and I cry all the time these days and my emotions are all haywire. And I have no clue if Chris likes me or not. So if you have any answers or comfort or anything that would be great.

no1left2understand@yahoo.com e-mail this e-mail address they are an advise colom person and she gives awsome advise she will help alot but here is what i think you should tak to the girl and say i don't know why you are being like this to me your my friend and always will be. its a gay don't lose a friendship over a guy . he is yours and i know that . but in your head i know you still want him
and thats ok thats expected you just have to tell yourslef its ok time will fix this problem cus he aviasly likes you to just wait . it will work out
hope i helped,
Andie

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I have a unibrow..no doubt about it..but i started shaving for at least 5 months. Im not stupid and i new that it'd grow back darker and thicker. But i just thought i'd shave it all off before anyone could see. But now it's really dark and there are black dots.How do i get rid of it?

WAX or pluck . plucking hurts and takes longer than waxing but waxing is hot wax on you skin but those are 2 ways to get tid of hair fast and it pulles out the hole hair folic so like the hole hair is gone not just cuttingit in half or what ever. hope i helped
Andie

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well,i like this guy. we're both the same age and in the same grade. (we're 14, in 9th grade) i've known him for 2 years and we're basically friends and all,right? I like him alot. I've liked him for 7 months or so. He's really nice and funny. I see him on the weekends and hang out with him. And my friend thinks he likes me. And sometimes I think so too,because it seems as if he's flirting with me at times. But then I dont know,he might just be friendly. But when I look at him, he looks at me and smiles after a couple of seconds. He teases me alot. And he helps me open my locker when I cant open it. We always try to trip each other,which is kinda strange I guess. But well...yeah stuff like that. And i dont know if he just likes me as a friend or more. and how can i tell him i like him? other than of course,just saying it straight out. well,i guess i could do that. but uhmm...yeah i dont know. and also...well,do you think he might like me?

help plz!?!?

ok hey i know how you feel . but i would take the safe rout and have another one of your guy friends be like hey dude do you liker her bla bla bla but it may take some time for any one to get it out of him. and if he does they they guys should be like hey dude i think she likes you maby you should ask her to the dance o ron a date or something hope i helped
Andie

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Ok so my parents keep on asking me what i want for chrismas!!! I dont know what i want
I am 13 years old....tom boy...i DONT want grly grl stuff...i dont wear make up!!!
The only thing i know i want is a pair of shoes that are shocks!!!
Can you please think of some thing i could like for chrismas
EVERYBODY who answers will get a 5!!!
Even if i dont like that stuff!!!

you could ask for a new bycicle, a game cube / games, a cameria every one loves a cameria(digital),a basketball goal, roaller blades, if ya know how to skate bord or you can learn, a skatebord. hope i helped.
Andie

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I have a big problem! I went to this 5 day camp and met this wonderfull boy.He is 14 and im 11 but it diddnt matter to us. We went out for four days but we broke up because we had to leave camp. We both love each other so much and he was my first boyfriend and kiss. Unfortunatly he is going to France for a year. Is there a chance for a long distance relationship?

sry it took me so long to get to your question. the answer is yes. i had a long distance realation ship recently. but also don't keep you hopes up for lasting . mine lasted all summer. well most of it any way i hope i help .
Andie

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I used to be so outgoing, I would just totally be me, and go crazy and everyone loved me for that. But now I'm like constantly tryin to be popular and I'm to afraid of what people will think if I go back to my outgoing *personatlity* Any tips on how to go back to being the true me? I'Ll rate Lots

ok if you had lots of friends who like dyou for you and that is what made you happy(being you made you happy) then be yourself . don't listen to the "popular people". like at my school people are "popular" but there are so many popular people it is stupid. and like all of the "popular" people hate one another so i think it is better to have really friends that like you for you then to have friends that don't really like you that much or like you to much or just plane hate you. so i say stop trying to be "popular" cus they are just always in fights and mad at someone and makefun of everyone who doesn't act like them and stuff. but also on the other hand there is a girl at my school who is crazy and stuff she is so cool and every one likes her popular and otherwise so just think about that . hope i helps sume.
Andie

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Okay.. I'm an advice colomnist for this but i don't have advice for myself...But i might have ADD.. This Tuesday I'm going to get tested.Like their gonna make me do all these word problems and stuff. And i feel like a weirdo or a physco when their doing this. Like i might have either ADD or ADHD. And i'm gonna feel so dumb when they make me do these questions...Does any have advice for me?

OK listen i have ADD but it is like one of the lowest kinds but that is beside the point ok it is nothing to be ashamed of or feal stupid about it jut means that if you have ADD you have a different way of learning then other people and that is ok and if you have ADHD they you learn a different way and you are hyper and it is harder for you to controle it that other people and its not that bad so don't worry about it just relax and do your best no biggy.
Hope i helped
Andie

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This may sound kinda stupid but i want a awsome summer screen name.. I want to get one with Beach but summers cool.. I could use the old fashion BeAcHbAbY05 or somthing but that seems sorda stupid? Any awsome ideas!? I dont want any swear words in it but i will rate 5+ so anyone who writes me! Thanks a million
-Xo-BaByGiRl-oX-

you could do like Summer_beach_girl11 or something or summerRocksonThebeach or coolSummerOnTheBeach or something like that hope i helped
Andie

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Hello, Im havin some guy problems see i started datin this guy named jason* and we lasted for about 3 months but we never talked to much around each other, and i moved so we broke up but then i came back and i still had a lot of feeling for him and we talk a lot now.i wanna get back together with him and he knows i still like him but doesn't do anything. i don't think he wants to date again because he knows before it was kinda werid when we were together but now we now one another better and aren't bashful around eachother. but i dunno what to do cause i really LOVE him but he doesn't seem to be doing anything about it i mean he flirts and stuff but thats it. like he wants to to come over and do stuff but he doesn't seem to wanna date and hes not the type of guy to do that...so i dont know how i can get him back or if i should move on?

Sign confused girl from tennesse*

ok hi i am 13 and it hink you sould not give up on him but find another guy to just incase u diside you like this guy more and if not there or plenty of guy i am sure one is out there for you who cares more for you and about you i hope i help
Andie

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lets call the kids jack and jill.

so ive been babysitting jack and jill every other weekend. jill is really good and sweet but jack is not. now there mom wants me to watch them everyday in the summer. and i dont want to! im only 14 i have a life! but their mom is really pushy and in your face.

what should i do?

easy ok jsut say well i can't this week cus _______ or i am bissy this week to becuase ____________ and i can't this day because my family__________ or me and my friends have been planign to ______ for like 4 months and just shorten your work day . or jsut ask if it can be like 3 days a wekk or something.
hope i helped
Andie

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i'm trying to name my new kitten that i got a few days ago.
She's a simease mix, does anyone have a good name to name her? ( It's a girl! )

well you have to get to know your cat and like play with her and stuff and what ever comes to mind when you are around her or what u think kinda describes her is usualy a good name. it usualy takes me like 4-7 days to name my animals when ever i get a new one. so don't worry if it takes a while.
hope i helped alittle
Andie

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What kind of dog would you reccomend that is small and you don't have to worry much about its hair?

there is the 1) chinease cresent thing. 2) chiwawa(sp)#) mexican hairless(i think)
hope i helped .
Andie

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Okaywhen im in bed at night my cat will lie down next to me and start feeling my hair with her paws and purring.. squeezing her paws together and apart.. then when she's done she'll lie at the end of my bad.. but there's all this cat drool in my hair! What is my cat doing, and why the heck is she doing it?

the cat loves you. and if she perse when she does it it is because she is comfortably(sp) around you. some cats drool and that is normall. so she is jsut loveing on you. the claw thing is called makeing biskets. ok bye
hope i helped
Andie

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We recentley got rid of my beloved pet, Mac. He was a yellow lab, 6months old and like 154 pounds. i loved hime so much and whenever i think about him or ee pics of him i start to cry. How can i get over this?

the only way i know to get over a pet is eather time , or to get another dog because if you are talking care of that one then there is no time to cry that is what happend with my mom s dog who fell in the pool and drowned ( the dog was a 16 year old pom ) she could not get to the step. hope i help. bye
Andie

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I have an Alligator Snapper. It is still very young and is only about 9-10 ounces. What should I feed it? I have tried "Reptile Sticks" that float, but Squirt(The Turtle) doesn't eat them that much...What other kinda stuff is out there?


Thanks....
I rate!

O my god i have like 2 and they are older and as t hey get older you need to know they get really mean. they eat like feader(sp) fish( you can get them at a pet store)and that is just what we feed ours. but after about ike 1 -2 years maby they will not even be able to take out of there "home". if i were you i would not release it becasue people kill them for no reason(sp) usualy. so jsut remeber that ok . bye
hope i help. any more questions. ask me.
Andie

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