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Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been GREAT... we have been goin out for 5 months and everything was the way I wanted it to be... except for two things... he always wants us to have some kind of sexual contact. He always wants to fingwer me and stuff... and he always wants me touching him. and up until I came back from France Our talkin relantionship was perfect. And now we fight all the time. I want so bad to break up with him but I keep thinkin what I would be without him and to me... I don't think I would be anything... What should I do? (link)
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If you've spoken to him about it, and nothing has changed, then it is time to leave. He is just using you.
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i love the band green day i think of them dayly i want to still love them but not so lovingly if that makes sence i love music and will always but i need to hear some new stuff can u give me some cool bands i like hip hop and pop no rap or havey medal its not me (link)
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If you want something very new, try Daft Punk. That is way different. But good. It is Funk/Techno.
If you want some lighter stuff, Jack Johnson is good.
You also might like Relient K.
Or listen to some classic rock! Queen is awesome.
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I'm a 15-year old female. I've liked the same guy for approximately 2 years. I told him about a year ago that I liked him and all he said was "I don't want to get involved." Recently he has begun to act slightly differently towards me. On a mission trip with our church we stayed out and talked after "sharing night" for about half an hour. We would have talked longer, but the leader called us in. When we got up to the dorms, we kind of just stood there and looked at each other for a minute, then went in. It felt like a kissing moment. He'd been asking me if I would mind if he sat by me, instead of just sitting there like he had done previously. I brought him jello last week when he got his teeth pulled and he hugged me as a thank you, which he's never done before. The only times I've ever hugged him is in church. Not that I minded. ;) I'm wondering if I'm reading too much into this. Is this normal friend behavior, or should I "make a move"? (link)
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It is normal friend behavior for some, but not all. If he has never done if before, it may be a sign. But it may also just be that he is warming up to you. At any rate, don't make a move yet. Watch and wait.
If you feel the need to do something, though, be subtle about it. Do something just as friends, or in a group.
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my hair is SOOOOO frizzy, i cant stand it anymore. how can i get it to stop frizzing so much? is there a good shampoo/conditioner etc.?
will rate high!!
~thanx (link)
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Try styling/smooting creams, or shine glosses.
If you are willing to spend more money... Try Frizz-ease by John Frieda. Very good stuff.
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Ok i like this dude we call Mouse. My "friend" Gail is totally obsessed with him and loves him to death and has for like 4 years. The thing is, they have never went out, and he can't stand her! he told me and all his friends earlier that he can't stand her cuz she tries to control who he likes and who he dates and she freaks out on anyone he likes or dates so that they get scared off. then he told me on the way home that he likes me and yea i defenitly like him ...a lot! and anyways, Gail said that she isn't going to stop me if i wanna go out with him and that she won't get mad at me. but Louann says that since Gail is my friend I shouldn't go out with Mouse. and that if I did go out with Mouse then she (Louann) would get mad at me and either hurt me or not talk to me (unless its yelling) ever again. but yea, i really really really really like Mouse.....how can i get Louann to accept that me and Mouse wanna go out??? (link)
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Get Louann and Gail together, and talk about the subject with the three of you.
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this is so weird! i have the biggest pimple you could ever imagine, on the back of my thigh! i have no idea why its there, but it hurts, what can i do to make it go away? i have to wear shorts on friday for cheer practice! how can i make it go away? and why is it there? (link)
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Pop it, then put rubbing alcohol on it regularly. The alcohol will help dry whatever is left, and keep it clean.
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ok i want to now how do i get rid of love handles with out going to a gym or anything. Im 15/f and im super skinny everywhere else but my love handles and the make me look fat! like everytime i wear jeans i have stuff hanging over just because of them. dont say exercise because i do i just need to no a certain exercise that will help me (link)
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Lower cut jeans may be the reason...
If you are really bothered by it, get jeans that go to the waist, not the hips. They may not be as fashionable, but it will help.
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i know this is kinda gross .. but ive been broken out on the back of my shoulders for the longest time.. probably since freshman year, im gonna be a junior in the fall. is there anything i can do besides using creams? they really dont seem to be doing anything :/ (link)
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Try using rubbing alcohol. It will help dry out the oil. Then appy oil-free moisturizers so the skin will be healthy
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Hi my name is Bill. Im 15 and I currently attend a christian church. As a baby my parents werent married, my mom ran away, my dad couldnt afford a baby soo he left me with his parents. I grew up with my grandparents till right before my 15th b-day when my grandma died from carcinoid cancer. after that i weant to live with my dad. instead of being distanced from God I feel closer. my pastor said im the strongest person he's met. what does he mean by that? by the way i want to go to olivet collage and become a youth pastor myself. (link)
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He means that you have become stronger through the hardships, instead of weakening.
Good luck! The world needs people like you!
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I just got a new dog and it is about 2 and i wanted to train it cuz its kinda hard with its jumping and stuff to be on my family all the time can anybody give me some free dog training tips sites plz and thanx (link)
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If your dog jumps, step backwards, so it falls, then tell it no.
Or lift your knee, so it can't jump onto you, and say no.
A squirt gun, or noisy thing also helps. Basically make it unpleasant for doggy to jump.
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Ok so my dad teaches a 10th grade guys Sunday School class, and im friends with all of the guys in there. well i recently went on a youth trip with my church and several of them were there. I got to talk to them alot. im just friends with some of them,but i realzed that i kinda liked this one guy. he is really funny and really cute. im really good friends with his best friend so i asked him what he thought about me liking his friend,and he thought it was an awesome idea ,and said that they guy had thought of asking me out before. Well see my dad is really good friends with these guys and they absolutely love my dad,but they kno not to touch me because my dad would kill them. so i really want to get to kno this guy better but im scared that he wont want to because of my dad. even though i kno my dad wont do anything to him . haha but the guy doesnt kno that. im really stuck give me some help (link)
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Ask your dad about it! ^^ He can probably help you out. And good luck!
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society tells us that having premarital sex is wrong, (risk of pregnancy, stds...) but also emotionally, that you cant handle a breakup after you lose your virginity to someone, it changes your life forever, etc. I know all of that, but is it true with EVERY SINGLE relationship that if you have premarital sex, it'll drive you two apart and you'll eventually break up. How wrong is it to have sex in highschool (only with 1 person of course and you keep it between yourself.) my boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months and I want to have sex with him eventually but I'm afraid it'll make us break up... why does that happen? like think back in the 1940's, if you got pregnant both of you would drop out of highschool and GET MARRIED...why cant it be like that these days? (link)
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It won't break a relationship, but it can.
Sometimes, you do get married. But the marriages often get strained. This happened to my uncle. When he was sixteen, and his gf fifteen, she got pregnant. They had it rough for a while, but now things are working out. They have three kids now. But they lost a lot of dreams.
Unless you feel ready to handle the possible consequences, don't do it. And if you do, please protect yourself.
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alright hey my brother is getting married and he did not want a big big wedding i don't know why but he did not...so after the wedding like the next weekend they are have a cookout with like EVERYONE they know!! adn everyone says their going to wear like a skirt or a dress or something fancy or something and there is going to be an inground swimming pool to. and i was woundering dose anyone know what i should wear?? (link)
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A nice sundress would work. Something sleeveless and about knee length. And wear your suit underneath!
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I just got my period last night for the first time. Could you guys give me some things I might need to know like ..
Can i wear a regular pad overnight
How can I shower without gettin blood all over.
What pads work best. Those kinds of things.
I'll rate :D (link)
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Yes, you can. But I do recommend using overnights. They are more absorbant.
Just shower like you normally would, and clean down there.
I use Stayfree Ultrathins overnights, because I have very heavy ones. But experiment! You may like different ones. But I do recommend buying the thin ones. They are more comfortable.
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I'm trying to lose some weight, and I haven't noticed any results. I havent been eating much and I've been exercising everyday for a while now. Is there any way to increase my metabolism? Good diets? Exercises? Anything helpful! Thanks~~~ :D (link)
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Eat small meals often.
Break your normal three meals into parts, then eat more often. It will improve your metabolism.
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Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 8 months. We havent really done n e thing but kissed except for once but i didnt finish so she didnt enjoy it as much as i think she could have. She says she wants to but i dont know if she really wants to do n e thing else and i really do. What should i do? (link)
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Talk to her. But respect her wishes.
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I am 14/f and i am 5'6'' and i weigh around 160 lb
(my scale isnt accurate...)
but people ALWAYS mistake me for around 140 pound
and i know i am fat...ohh harsh me.. i mea overweight. but i do try to lose weight.
i exercise regularly. every monday wednesday and friday (it was on health magz that its not good for you if you exercise everyday when you get older) anyways so i lost 10 pounds around already yes i know i was even fat loser then.
and i dont eat alot, although i snack sometime like eating desert like little bit of ice cream but not a lot.
so what is normal for my height and weight and my age? and how can i get my self to stay exercising?
because during those times i been quiting in and out and technically i only exercised for a month
or 2. so its pretty good losing 10 lb in those month because i dont want saggy skin...talk about ew. no offense... to people who do have those ...
anyways and i am thick in the leg. and arm... and i cant do lifting dumbels anymore because i kinda got hurt from that...
so how do i get my legs to be slender?
and keep on track and any tips on losing weight faster?
please i need help ! i havent had a boyfriend ever! i know people say its not about what's on the outside becaue then its not true love or stuff but i really want a boyfriend and i WANT to look good for him (well future bf ) and i want to feel better about my self...
so please help me (link)
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My recommendation: Find any physical activity you love. Try DDR. Fun game, rather addictive. I play for at least two hors a day, three times a week. Lots of exercise. Plus, the more you playy, the better you get, and the better you get, the harder songs you can do. Harder songs burn more calories.
And eat healthy. Small amounts of stuff like icecream are okay, but not often. If you have, say, one scoop every week or so, it won't kill you. But try to look for healthier alternatives. Like sorbet!
Make sure you keep track of your snacks. Know exactly what and how much you eat.
Good, heathy snacks will help you loose weight. Try mini rice cakes. Very tasty!
If you want more ideas, feel free to inbox me.
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I am not big AT ALL, I am very little and I am NOT bragging. I am 13 years old and I'm female, guys don't really want to go out with me because I'm so thin. how do I got more meat on my bones faster than a few mounths or weeks?
P.S. I am 65 pounds. (link)
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Eat more than you usually do. Eat healthy but calorie-laden foods. Also, increase protein intake. Nuts are very good. Lean meats will help build muscle.
Try working out! Build up some muscle mass! Biking and DDR work wonders for the legs, and running and swimming are good total body workouts.
If you are worried though, talk to a doctor/nutritionist.
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ok, well i am 13, 5'4" and i weigh 123lbs.Is that ok, cause my sister is 16, the same height, and 110 lbs. am i over weight??? (link)
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Your sister is underweight. ^^ You are quite healthy.
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Me and this guy have been friends for like over a year now and i have had a huge crush on him. I have told him about and left it at that. We are always hanging out. He tells me more stuff then he has ever told anyone. He is like a best friend to me. He flirts all the time with me and he is always holding my hand and cuddling with me but then he always is saying that he just wants to be friends well he dont act like it at all and he has gone out with my best friend and after she dumped him i started getting closer she tells me its fine and we talk all about it but i just think i need more advice everyone says he likes me but then he does the same exact stuff to other gurls and im just really confused about it if he does like me what should i do? please i need your help (link)
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He isn't ready for commitment yet. If you like him, flirt back, and maybe you can make him grow up.
But I'd recommend finding another guy.
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