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Hey!My name is ashley.I'm 17 and I live in Michigan!My friends always come to me for adive and i LOVE giving it.Feel free to ask me anything, i'm open minded on most issues, so I won't judge you!If you ever need more help, dont hesitate to im me!Also,rate my advice so i know how im doing and how i could improve.and if u want add me on myspace myspace.com/x0xfuturemrsgottix0x.thanks!







[A]ge~16
[B]est Friends= Kayla,vera,toni,angie,amy,crystal
[C]olors~ Pink
[D]ream boy~ JOHN GOTTI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!mMmMmMm
[E]yes~ Green
[F]avorite food~ My grandma's italian cooking
[G]reatest thing~ Friends and Family
[H]obbies~ Hangin out with friends, shoppin,parties, and having fun!
[I]'m alwayz~ Smiling and having a good time
[J]ob~ Hopefully NEVER!
[K]razii~ Sometimes =)
[L]ocation~ Harrison Township,Michigan
[M]ovie~ Scarface,a bronx tale,heat
[N]ame~ Ashley
[O]bession~ Music, boys, and clothes
[P]arty?~ Love to!
[Q]uote~ "Chi troppo vuole nulla stringe"-One that wants too much holds on to nothing.
[R]ace~ Italian and Swedish
[S]creen Name~ sp0iled shedevil
[T]alent~ I just have so many ;)
[U] suck?
[V]ery best thing about me~ im fun!
[W]orst thing about me~ I can get a lil wild
[X]treme sports~ Love em!
[Y]awns?
[Z]odiac~ Cancer
















advice

after i straighten my hair.. blowdry and straighten. its always staticy.. what can i do so it wont static to my face and hands ect.

After you shampoo and condition your hair, use john frieda anti-frizz serum.It works amazingly trust me.

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Okay....me and my x have been broken up and not talking for about 7 months now....i called him on his b-day and pranked him a few times recently...should i call him and start chatting with him and then be like remember me....I'm your ex and try to get a friendship back up or should i just leave him alone??

Lol , well idk why u pranked him in the first place.That's not really a good way to get a guy to like you again.If you want a friendship with him, tell him.

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I like this one guy in my class. I talk to him alot and we get along well. The thing is, first, he is a grade older then me (sophmore) and second, we are two way different people. He's really smart and kind of nerdy, I guess you could say. Also, hes more into a real relationship and doesn't seem like a shallow,"want to get some" guy. I, on the other hand have never had a real relationship because I always end up finding a shallow guy and I give it all away. I really want a true relationship and I have never liked a guy like him before, I guess my question is, how do I get a guy like him, what's he looking for in a girl, and does every guy just look for sex?

Well, all you have to do is be yourself.He seems like the kind of guy whose less into sex, and more into a girl's mind and personality.Try not to try too hard, like dressing a certain way.Don't dumb yourself down, show him your intelligence and wonderful personality:-)

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Ok well i wanna pierce my belly button but my parents won't let me. So, i'm gonna do it myself. What are some good tips for piercing your belly button and wut type of needle do ya need...thnx a bunch

Well i should warn ya first, it's really dangerous to do it yourself.You could get an infection.But, if u really wanna do it, make sure you use alot of ice and numbing ointment.Like the kind they use at doctor's offices.And make sure your needle is steralized.I dont know what size needle, go to a tatto and peircing place and ask, or u can even ask a person at claire's what kinda needle to use.

*ashley*

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Ok, well my friends turned on me at the beginging of this year (7th grade)I have been hanging out with other peeps thati really like. Then all of a sudden this girl marissa imed me on aim and said that since i left they are now the most popular girls in school and i have no style! i to have style. maybe i have to have the RIGHT style. Should i go by what i think or be one of the crowd. and if it do need some "style tips" can any popular/cool 7th grade girls tell me wat would look good. i have brown hair with blonde highlights. i have blue eyes.i a kinda short. i mean, wat kind of clothes r in? am i doing my makeup right?

PLEASE HELP ME
JENNA

Jeez, don't worry about what they say. The brand thats most in right now is hollister.Their clothes are affordable, so just pick out some cute clothes from there. Well i dont know if you're doing your makeup right bc i dont have a pic of you. But theyre probably just jealous, so ignore them.

*ashley*

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Im 13/f. I went out with this guy last summer but then we broke up. Recently I think that i made a mistake by breaking up with him. And i do want to go back out with him but he has a girlfriend now, but he told one of my friends that he likes me. What should I do?! Should I tell him how I feel? plz help!

Yes, tell him how you feel.You should always go with what your heart tells you.

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I love to masturbate, I can't stop, and I don't know what to do..should I try stopping? Is it okay to be "turned on" all the time? At least twice a day...im 16

Lol it's completely normal.It's hormones.

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My family believes very strongly about lots of things. One of those things is legal marajuana. They think if somebody in the USA wants to smoke pot, let them. Pretty much everybody in my family smokes pot except for me. I'm 15 years old. I think they're wrong. I don't think pot should be legal because it makes people do stupid things. But so does beer and other alchaholic drinks. But they're legal. So I think maybe they should not allow alchahol or pot. I'd like to point this out to my family but I don't want lectures. What should I do?

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Well I agree with you completely.Marijuana is terrible, and so is alchohol.I think alchohol should be illegalized also.Research marijuana and all its negative health affects so when you tell your family your oppinions you have evidence to back them up if they say "it's not bad".

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I dont know if i should dump my b/f becuz he likes another girl but whenvever i ask him who he likes more he always says yes to me that he likes me more....should i dump him???¿¿¿

Well your boyfriend shouldn't be making you ask him who he likes better.It should be all about you.Tell him to either go out with the other girl, or stop talking about the other girl bc its making you upset.

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can u get a virus from going into an aol chat room? or talking to someone that is in it? thanks alot

No, the only way you can get a virus is from clicking a link that has a virus in it.

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i really need sum adivce.......well i was going out with this boy that i liked ALOT but i also like this other boy that i have been hanging out with recentaly and my x boyfriend wants me to pick either him or the other boy but i like them both alot WHAT SHOULD I DO>

Go with your heart:-)

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i tried out for a PLAY AND I GOT A BAD PART WITH LIKE 1 WORD AND MY FRIEND GOT THE BEST PART AND SHES BRAGGING ABOUT IT WHAT DO I DO?

Tell her to shove it lol

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I started cutting my self about a year, and I just did it to see what it felt like and to maybe finally get some attention from my mom and now I cant stop... its like after every little argument I have with her I have to go up to my room and cut my self or it doesn’t feel right. I have tried to stop and I have even made promise to people but I just don’t know what to do any more it seems like its getting out of control and I don’t want to have to go see a therapist because I don’t know if I could come out and say I have a problem so basically I’m just asking what I should do...?

Well hun, the only thing you really can do to stop is see a therapist.It won't be so hard telling your therapist, because it's confidential and it's not like telling your mom or one of your friends.Good luck.

*ashley*

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Right now in my life, I cant trust anyone and it feels as if there are so many conspiracies going on behind my back. Like everyone in the world is against me and its just sooo frustrating. I just dont know what to do. Can anyone help?

Ignore them.Girls are just like that, and most teens feel like that sometimes.Just do your own thing and surround yourself with good people, even if theyre not in the "in" crowd.

*ashley*

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okay well i moved to Arizona a month ago, and I was 130 pounds when i moved here, I got depressed and sick and I lost enough weight to get down to 115 in just 3 months...just a week ago I was 113, and now im 105..I eat like a PIG and i dont excersize at ALL...is there something wrong with me? Is this normal??

I rate 5's

You are so lucky!Gosh i wish i could eat like a pig and not gain weight, i eat a peice of bread and my jeans cut off my circulation!lol well i think your metabilism might just have increased, but to be safe i'd see a doctor.

*ashley*

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okay my best friend is such a copy cat! and somtimes i cant take it anymore and get mad if she acts like me or anything like that because every time i tell her the guy i like she then says o yeah i like him too and then she wants to have the same things i have i mean she painted her room the same color as mine and got the same comforter as mine too!! and she totally acts like me and talks like me and trys to dress like me! what should i tell her ? cuz i love her like shes my sister and dont wanna make her hurt i just want her to stop being me plz help me! thanks!

Tell her you don't like what she's doing.My ex-best friend was like that too, and it got on my nerves.I told her to stop(in a nice way of course) and she got the hint and stopped.


*ashley*

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I think I am loosing my best friend. She has been hanging out alot with someone else, and when she isnt she always has excuses. she isnt the same person, i know she has to change, but i mean- she is obsessed with her weight and eating. Im not really worried about that though, i just miss her. what should i do? just forget about her?

I had a friend just like that.You can't change your friend, and you can't force her to stay friends with you.Just let her do her own thing, and if you guys don't grow stronger from it dont worry, you'll have so many more best friends.Everything happens for a reason, maybe you weren't meant to be best friends with her forever, but you never know.

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ive going through alot of changes and i have new friends.. so yea but one firend, sarah, introduces me to alot of people in High school.. whateveer and i meet new people. I sometimes get the feeling that they dont liek me. and every guy ive ever liked likes her and gives her the attention, all of it. Id say shes loud and can be mean but i love her..advice?

Well,try hanging out with other people, who may not be as fun or great as you, so the guys will like u better. It's sounds so terrible, but its true being around people who arent as good as u makes guys go for u.

*ashley*

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im gonna be going on vacation..and i was just wondering if theres any way to regulate your period..i mean who wants to go on vacation while meenstrating? sometimes my cycles get screwy...i just dont want to menstrate while i go on vacation

Go on the pill.Not only can u have a great time on vacation without worrying about getting pregnant, but the pill also regulates ur period
:-)


*ashley*

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okay i am tring to find color pulse mouse made by loreal paris and i cant find it anywhere! do any of you know where to get it?

thanks (i rate high)

haleigh

Ummm try sephora or something.But i really don't know what that is lol

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