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hiya I'm shelly, I'm 20 and from England. I have the best boyfriend in the world and he means so much to me. I love to help people and I've just started using Advicenators again. I hope i can help you all with your problems feel free to email me x


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Okay, so I desperately need to redecorate my room, and I have maybe $200 to do it tops, and I can't get furniture.

I have a navy blue shag carpet which is not leaving. I have a white ceiling, and sky blue walls, which I want to paint wither purple brown, or some other color (lol insert suggestion here).

I have white and silver and light wood (idk what kind) furniure, also not leaving.

Can you please help me figure out colors and websites to plan a perfect room.

Oh and also, I am making a huge (6 ft diameter/like 2 meters) floor pillow, so I have room to relax...Also, if you have a ny rganizational tips that I could use, that would be appreciated x2!!



i think that Maybe a Lilac colour or a cream. dark colours make your room look Smaller if its all ready small then definatley dont use those types of colours. These are the colours i think you should concider
1. Cream
2. Lilac
They look good with white, silver or light wood furniture and blue carpet.

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i have small stretch marks on my boobs, that are fading, but still there. what is a guy going to think of me when he goes up my shirt?! is their any way that he will not notice? what will he think about them?

They shouldnt be a problem to him. All girls will get them at some point its because your growing! There is some creams in Chemists that you can get for strech marks it might make them fade quicker.
xx Luv Shelly xx

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Hey guyz i have acne on the top of my arm and it is spreading down...what do i do..besides going to a dermatologist(i dont like ours) is there like any kind of stuff at walmart or sumtim?? plz help!

Theres this cream called Freederm over her in England and its for acne spots it prevents them getting bigger and makes them go.

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My friend told me that he was moving away...I'm very bummed about it but I dont know what I can do...Can someone please help me like how did you feel and what did you do and everything. Thanks a lot!

just spend more time with him until he goes!

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I've been saving up to get an iPod. My mom says that if I can get $100 She'll buy me a 60GB iPod.

But I also kinda want a cell phone.

I know that the cell phone will in time cost more, but I'm not sure which one I want more. I really want an iPod, and I have the possibility, because I have $71 out of $100 for it.

But I really want a cell phone too.

I'm so...stuck.

get the I-pod and go on ebay and see if there are any cheaper phones or the other way around. Get the phone and go on ebay for cheap i-pods

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i need to come up with 90 dollars in a short period of time. I need a job. But I'm only 13 so not in a store or anything like that. I can't babysit. So what could i do to get this 90 dollars? please answer ASAP

have a garage sale with all the things you dont need/want. Walk dogs for neighbours, hold a car wash. just a few ideas hope i helped

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hey guys! im looking for a new s/n for aim and i just cant seem to think of one! I love pink, umm... well anything actually. If you come up with some good ones i'll rate you nicely! =D please ++ thanks ♥

heres some but they arent very good.
pink my ride
xxpink angelxx
pinklaydee
pinkbeauty
pinkflower
xxpinkxxx

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every time i eat, no matter what i eat, i feel really guilty. what is wrong with me? some of my friends say i am anorexic because i skip meals sometimes (not a lot tho) and i am always on a diet. help!!!!!!!!!

Dont skip any more meals this will make you ill. Just eat healthy and cut down on junk food. and your friends are just concerned for you. dont feel guilty becuase you need to eat!!

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I am 14 years old and I am self-conscience about my breast size. Is there anything that I can do to reduce my breast size?

There are some bra's you can get that make them look smaller. Marks and Spencers have them just look around.

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I'm sure you guys are really sick of period questions. Heaven knows there's a lot of them.

Anyway, I've had my period for about 6 years now, so not much has been new to me. Okay, so today is the day I should be getting it (seeing as how I keep a calendar)... and I noticed some blood, but then it kind of ebbed off. I'm not sure if it's completely stopped, but what's up with that? I've been exercising lately, something I never do, so could that be why it's weird today?

Yeah... no idea what's up.

exercising slows down your period if its heavy so that could be why.

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ok tonight i had like 4 or 5 beers..for me it was enough to definately get me tipsy..i feel sober now but can i still get a hangover in the morning? any thing i can do or take tonight to prevent a hangover?

eat something like an hour or so before you go out drinking and when you get home if you feel abit tipsy then drink some water

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ok well yes. i know, its a girl question, but im not sure about it. I have a had my period for about 9 months, but this month it hasnt came it was due on the 21st, but it still isnt here, i have never ever had sex. and i dont know what to do! please please tell me its goin to be okay...i dont need to be pregnet at 14...

thanks
scared!

sometimes Periods can be weird like that. you can come early or late. if you dont come on soon talk to your Mum about it but im sure its nothnig to worry about

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My bro is in iraq and its hard to deal with cause one of his friends was killed and the other one shot last week. how should i deal with it?

My cousin is in Iraq jsut try to think posative and concentrate on him coming home. talk to your parents about it. They probably feel the same way as you do.

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I've had my period for two years now. It's verrrrry irregular. It will skip months and come anytime during the month. I've gone 3 months with out my period. I never know when it's going to show up. I've heard that sometimes if you're skinny that might have something to do with it. I'm like 5'6 and i weigh 105 pounds. Do you think it has anything to do with it? What do you think i should do? Thanks.

go to a doctor. if you want to you can go on the pill it should sort everything out just talk to your doctor about it.

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This past year, my hair was wavy/curly (as it naturally is) and always up in a ponytail or bun with tons of frizz. 2 days ago, I got a ceramic straightener. Other than straigtening my hair, what can I do to segregate myself from myself in the past? Also, how can I look older without being a slut or looking like my mom? I'm entering high school and that means hot guys!!

you can curl your hair with straighteners and it doesnt look frizzy it looks really cool my ssiter does it all the time when she goes out and she really does look alot older.

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ive ever had a boyfriend. and im 16. whats wrong with me?? im not completly ugly, but im not like super pretty.. i think i may be prude. how do i get over that and have some fun??
THANKS SO MUCH!!!!

nothing is wrong with you! have a gilrs night in get all your friends round to your house and rent a movie get some popcorn and just chill out your friends will make you feel better in no time. If you are shy then try and be more confident about yourself Guys love that!

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does anyone no any good tanning products or any good ways to get tan??

thankz

i rate high :)

you could get a spray tan in a salon it lasts a couple of weeks.

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im depressed. i have ALL the signs of teen depression [ i looked them up ]

i dont feel myself lately. i dont like me. i cant sleep. i cry for no reason. im really mean to people around me. this year my grades went from A's and B's...to all F's.

ugh...any ideas on how to tell my mom? i want to tell her i need to see a theripist but im scared of how to bring it up and stuff..

if you have a school couciller talk to them they can really help in these situations. Just tell your Mum that you need to talk to her. Sit down and chat to her she is going to be there for you no matter what. Tell her that you want to see a therapist she can get in touch with one straight away.

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I am 17 and going to the gynecologist for the first time within the next couple weeks. I'm not sexually, just going to get on the pill for my period. I was wondering what to expect and all the procedures that they do while im there. And which should I pick - a male or female doctor? Any other tips? Thanks.

i find it easier to talk to a female doctor. They just ask you a couple of questions and talk to your parents about it. They ask how bad the pain is and how heavy your periods are. Its ok it was a little embarrasing but it was fine after a while.

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well i need some advice because i've been wearin a thong for about a year now and i've kept it a secret from mi mom but yesterday she found 1 ov them and she didnt really care and wen she asked if it waz mine i said it was my friends. and my problem is i really don't wanna tell her tha truth... :( ( sould i stop wearin them??) i don't know wat 2 do if she brings up tha subject again? thanx ur advice would mean a lot to me....

i think you should tell her that it was yours. she cant stop you from wearing them, if you feel comfortable in them then wear them.

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