Hey everyone, my name is Kristin, there's a picture of me on my advice column.. I'm a senior in high school and im 18 years olds.. I know I'm pretty young, but I've been through more than anyone would imagine and I've been through things most teenage girls haven't experienced yet in life. Here's a few things about myself, I've gone through a very serious one year relationship that ended a long long time ago, my parents have been divored for about 6 years, I cheerlead for my high school, I do ballet and have been playing the piano since I was seven, I work at a nearby UPS Store, and I am a dedicated Greek-Orthodox Christian. I hope to get accepted into Cal Poly San Louis Obispo and major in Nutrition..I love to hear about other peoples issues and problems so I could help them deal with it by relating them to my own experiences. So if you wanna talk, I'm here =]
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E-mail: princesskristin01@yahoo.com
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Location: I live in California, I'm half arab half italian
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Age: 18
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about 50 responded to my last question about sex. My b/f was trying to to get me to have sex with him. When I told him I wasn't ready he accused me of cheating on him with my my older brothers friends lets call him tim(whom is also my frined) I do like tim but I would never cheast on ne b/f-he then sed he didnt care be cuz he cheated on my with sum1 i have known like my whole life-altho we were never very close-now i think tim might ask me out and i really want to say yes but i think it would hurt my ex and make him spread rumors saying a whore and a slut and stuff. I really didn't cheat on him but he won't listen to me and has his 9 yr old brother answer the phone when i call and tell me he can't talk-he evn had him call me a whore- i have no one to talk to becuz my bro and sis in law live a state away-my other sister moved there about 2 days ago and my other brother went to visit them becuz i have stuff to do this week. I'm so alone and NEED HELP FAST PLZ HELP!!0ill rate well! (link)
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listen..i had the EXACT SAME THING happen to me....yeah, he might talk shit about u =/...but hey thats the typa person he is, so fuck him, it only shows that he is HELLA hurt... he doesnt wanna l0Ok like hes hurt so he covers it up by talkin shit bout u...go out with this other dude. who gives a fuck bout ur ex..hes a fuckin dickhead...if he talks shit bout u, its ur word against his, just deny it, hold urself up high, and go out with TIM..g0Od luCk
~kristin
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i was jsut wondering if a girl masturbating is gross or is it heathy or what!?!? (link)
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y would it be gr0sS??? we got hormones t0O giRl!!!!!!!!! its not unhealthy or healthy, its just masterbating hehe
~kristin
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15 female..been dateing for bout 3 months
me and my boyfriend fight almost every nite! n sometimes they get pretty damn bad! mean we love each other more then anything in the world...and almost all the fights are started by me...and we hate fighting i mean we hate it more then anything in the wrold! and i'm so scared that were going to get into one fight and that will be it! i mean me and him have been trough so damn much! and i'm jst terrified that i'm going to lose him...but he tells me that no matter wat he want leave me...but sometimes the way he gets mad at me makes me think his bout to break up w/ me...but he tells me that he has never got that mad at me....wat can i do to stop us from fighting so much...cuz we hate fighting (link)
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u wanna stop fighting?? then STOP!!!! if ur so scared of l0Osing him then seriously just stop..its really not that hard if u put ur f0Ot down..if u think about it, if u cant do something that simple, then it shows that ur pretty weak =/ ya know what i mean? like the next time u guys get in a fight, STOP urself and say this, "ya know what..wtf we LOVE eachother,and LOVE is suppose to be better than this. i love you lets talk this out.." then CALMLY tell him how u fEel..if u 2 end out fighting again, then just say that again and start all over with what i told u to say...
~kristin
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ok im into this guy and hes into me but we're not dating, and i havent talked to him in awhile and i talked to my ex recently who said he misses me and wants to get together, is it ok if somethin happens between us?
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u gotta ask urself what u truely want..figure out what is best for u, and to answer ur question, ofcourse its okay if something happens between u and ur ex, or even u and that other dude..gO0d luCk..
~kristin
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hey i really wanna masturbate i mean i get turned on s0o0 easily like by nething it seemz like...and i dont really kno how to masturbate..i mean ive fingered myself but it doesnt feel that good its like...nothin...idk it doesnt feel good to me....i dont own a dildo or vibrater....and i kinda wanna do sumthin rite now...does ne GURLZ hav ne ideas? like wat to use? wat to do...im sry if its a lil gross...i juss need advice im sorry!! =\ (link)
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lol dont be sorry!!! its totally kool..i know how u feel i dont think fingering myself feels good at all so i dont even bother...maybe try rubbing something against it. like try rubbing ur clit. thats girls sensitive spot..then go from there and figure out what u like..u kinda just gotta expiriment with urself..theres no wrong or right way to masterbate..masterbating just means pleasuring urself..theres no limits =]
~kristin
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ok thanx for the virgan ? can i ask u something eles why do girls always hurt me it sucks every girl i have dated have hurt me very bad (link)
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u gotta be more specific, howd they hurt you?
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14.. (link)
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k then u should definetly get mad at ur bf...he got bored with ur relationship and wanted to spice it up alil bit. but if u dont want to , then tell him that. dont let him touch u, dont be embaressed, it shows that ur strong and can say wuts realli on ur mind..
love kristin
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i am a 17yr old male virgan is that bad to girls like it (link)
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girls will LOVE IT. girls like sensitive guys and being a virgin is in that category. some guyz even lie to girls and tell them they are virgins cause they know tha girls like it!!
~kristin
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Ok so the other day I was at my boyfriends house...I mean I trusted him cause we had been dating for about a year and a 1/2 and he has never done this before. He started acting strange when we were making out. He started to grab my boobs. I didn't want him to but I didn't know how to tell him to stop w/ out being embaressed. So one thing led to the next and the next thing I know he was trying to pull off my shirt. I let him(for some reason). So then he starts kissing down me and he is about to kiss my boobs and I drew the line...ok so now im really confused cause he is probably mad at me!!! heLP! (link)
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u should be the one mad at him!!!! real quick how old are you????
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is it bad that i am a 17yr old virgan and my friends arnt? do girls like that? and dose it hurt a relation ship
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omg!! TRUST ME TRUST ME TRUST ME TRUST ME TRUST ME TRUST ME. its SO FUCKING GOOD THAT UR A VIRGIN!! WOW, I GET SO INTO THIS WHEN SOME1 ASKS ME ABOUT THIS TOPIC. u are so fuckin lucky u are still a virgin. when u get outta highschool, u will find that like NO GIRLS are virgins anymore. once u meet some1 that ur really into and he finds out that u are a respectful girl whos still a virgin, hes gunna be SO damn into u cause u are different from any other girl...please stay a virgin u will regret it so much if u loose it. be different, be unique, guyz like that so much. guyz look at girls like they look at meat..all they wanna do is fuck around with them, they think that becaues the girls are all hoes. but if u stand out and keep ur virginity the guys are guna look at u like they look at a queen. BELIEVE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! need more help, u can come to me,
love kristin =]
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Ok i went over to my friends house the other day and her neighbor who i go to high school with is really hot. Well we invited him over to go swimming and just hang out and watch movies. well he was there from 6:00 p.m. till 1:00a.m. The whole time he called me snuggle buggle and we shared our food together and he would get on the bed and put his arm around me and i layed on his back. We just sat there and cuddled. He would say how he wished he could find a girlfriend but come on he is totally hott. Do you think that he likes me or is he just a big flirt. (link)
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he might like u. but from what it sounds like, he might just be trying to get some..try to play hard to get alil more. if he is totally hott, its a given that every girl like drools over him and hes prolly use to that. so dont be like every other girl, play hard to get. but he is definetly interested in u, so dont pass this chance up!!
hope this helps, if u need more help, talk ta me!!
~kristin
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sum guy led me on and i liked him for 2 yrs but hes a big ass flirt n he changed a lot i cant talk to him i love him um how do i get over him? PLEASE HELP ME ILL JUST GIVE OUT 5S ILL DO WHATEVER IM IN SERIOUS PAIN I SERIOUSLY CONSIDER CUTTING MYSELF BUT IM TOO SCARED SO IK I WONT PLEASEEEEEE HELP
thanx (link)
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what u do is, EVERY time u think about him, u tell yourself, hes not for me i could do better and im a good girl that deserves better..just keep telling urself that. also GO OUT and meet other ppl. go all out, dress cute, look cute, and meet other guyz to get ur mind off him. its gunna take hella long to get over him girl, but if u sit at home and dont do nething to help urself, ur never gunna get over him. good luck and if u need more advice, u can come to me....
love, kristin
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Whats strap-ons? (link)
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strap-ons are literally, strap-ons. lol they are dildos [if u dont know what that means, its a fake dick that girls use to masterbate with] that have straps and one girl straps it on her butt area and does it to the other grl.
~kristin
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imma 14 year old girl..Soo..i guess i need advice on this one. I met this guy at camp..and after meeting up a little while after camp we started to like each other. i mean he's a great guy..nice, funny, and mighty fine!! only problem is..he lives like 20-25 min. away on like a highway..and he's so shy so i donno if anything will happen. soo jump on it, or wait it out? (link)
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trusttt me..he sounds like a GREAT guy, but right now its not gunna happen. camp stuff never lasts until maybe u get older like when u have a car and ur lisense..i know exactly what ur goin thru, it happened to me..ive been going to this one camp for 6 years, and every year i find a different guy that i like, we keep intouch for about 2 weeks after camp and then just loose contact. its not that u dont like eachother its just uve moved on with ur life. if i were u id just wait it out..hope this helps.
lOve kristin
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I have a problem. I'm 17 and ready to have sex. I WANT to have sex. I mean, I don't want to do it just to do it. I really WANT to. I'm completely ready. Problem- I don't have a boyfriend...agh! What do I do? (link)
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if u really think that u are TRUELY ready, and no regrets..then do u have a guy best friend that u REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY trust? maybe u can do it with him if u want it that bad.
~kristin
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Ok, i like this guy, chris, and we've hung out and we've talked and stuff, had a physical relationship for a while now, but now he doesn't want to call anymore, he doesn't want to hang out, and I'm not sure if he liked me in the first place but, I was absolutely crazy about him for a while, now its kinda fading, but I still like him, I don't know how he feels but I'm not about to go mess around with anyone until I know how he feels about me. How should I ask him, what should I do? -confused. (link)
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you 2 had a physical relationship u say. i know its hard to believe, but MANY MANy times, thats all what guyz are looking for. im going to give u my straight up thought k. from what you say, i think that maybe he was interested more in the physical part instead of the emotional part. and thats the reason why he isnt calling, etc, anymore. he got what he wanted, and that's that. but on the other hand, if u want to ask him how he feels about you, this is what i would say, "hey, listen..im kinda confused bout whats going on between u and me. ive messed around with u, hung out with u, etc, so i think i deserve to know how u are feeling about me. i just told u straight up how i feel, and i need to know how u feel. if u dont feel the same way about me thats totally fine, i just need to know so ill be able to move on with my life instead of sit here and dwell. so how do u feel?" if he says, ohh, well ive been kinda busy lately, and blahblah..hes just bsing and having that as an excuse to tell u that hes not interested. but if he says something more sincere, then ull know what to do..i really hope this helps, thanks for coming to me about ur question, if u still are confused im more than happy to try and help you..good luck, love kristin
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I was recently fingered, and i mean, i thought u were supposed to feel something, but i didnt feel anything at all...if this helps i am 15, and he used 2 fingers, lol ok well thats only if it helps lol, so am i supposed to feel anything? i felt a little bit of pain at first but after there just nothing really, is that normal? (link)
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thats how i felt when i first got fingered, but its TOTALLY normal. to be honest it just means that he isnt very good at it =/ hehe or he hasnt found ur g-spot ..its prolly one of his first times, but as he does it to u more, he'll learn what u like and what u dont like.
~kristin
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alot of people say that kissing a boys ear-lobe will turn him on, but i think thats kinda embarresing, like he'll look at me weird or something...do you think thatll happen? (link)
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i was one of those ppl who said that! lol..and NO he wont..he will think its sexy..but u gotta do it in a sexy/seductive way! if u dont, then he might look at u weird......so do it seductively!!!
~kristin
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i am 14 and i have had sex with almost every boyfriend ive had since i was 11..if i want to or not..is this normal? Advice? (link)
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definetly NOT normal. have more respect for urself hun. ur still way y0ung to even think about sEx. dont have sex any more. thats tha reason y guys wanna go out with u is to have sex and ur giving it up like its goin outa style..damn
`kristin
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A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u (link)
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be like..thanks thats realli sweet, but i wish i looked like YOU. and turn it around and make them feel flattered as well. i hate it when i give some1 a compliment, especially like omg ur gorgeous. and all they do is say, thanks. lol i dunno i juss cant stand it. hope i helped!!
~kristin
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