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15 female..been dateing for bout 3 months
me and my boyfriend fight almost every nite! n sometimes they get pretty damn bad! mean we love each other more then anything in the world...and almost all the fights are started by me...and we hate fighting i mean we hate it more then anything in the wrold! and i'm so scared that were going to get into one fight and that will be it! i mean me and him have been trough so damn much! and i'm jst terrified that i'm going to lose him...but he tells me that no matter wat he want leave me...but sometimes the way he gets mad at me makes me think his bout to break up w/ me...but he tells me that he has never got that mad at me....wat can i do to stop us from fighting so much...cuz we hate fighting
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im 15 too and my boyfriend is 18 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months. and you guys sound just like us near our 3 months!!! we argued every day and then finally we broke up because we argued too much but we got back together and i guess we noticed how bad it would be if we werent together so we got back together. i think if yall hang in there for a while yall will straighten everything out yall will be good if you just hold on. maybe yall are just argueing because you both are scared your going to loose each other. most of our arguements were started by me too. so just hang in there and i think everything will be fine!
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If you say you start most of the fights,then before you ever bring one up again, think about what you're about to fight over.If it's something silly 'n stupid,then I suggest you don't bring it up, but if it's something important that you two need to discuss, then go ahead 'n talk to him.See if that helps.Hope I helped, 'n Good luck!*rate*
-tori
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i know exactly how u feel...me n my boyfriend calvin of a year n 3 months...we fight alot to...n most of is cuz of me 2...i try to just think what i say or do that makes us fight so much....n everytime i talk to him i try n stop from sayin things that made us fight last time...unless its somethin i really wanna discuss or i really feel i need to talk to him bout...like an issue wit his friend or something...but if its over somethin stupid then its just not worth bringin up anymore...n if u really hated fightin so much...u wouldnt do it as much..maybe u should both not talk for a few days..see how it goes..n if u feel better by then...then u know u shouldnt be together...theres always a major reason why u n a loved one fight so much...find that reason...look deep....and NEVER let him tell u he wont leave u..becuz u never know what could happen to change things..tell him how u feel n how u think when u guys fight makes u think he wants to break up..talk out ur problems and watch what u say...cuz otherwise...ur 3 months will be down the drain...but also keep in mind...ur still young...dont take things so serious...good luck to u
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Well,since you said most of the fights are started by you,take a look at what it is you're starting fights over.If it's really petty,trivial stuff just try and bite your tongue.We've all got our qualities and habits that get on other peoples nerves,no matter how much they love us! ;) It sounds like he really loves you a lot,and vice versa.Just remember that nothing small or petty is worth losing such a great love and relationship over,think of that each time you feel yourself start to pick a fight.And if you start to get "heated" where one of you is about to start an argument just get up and say "I love you and I really don't wanna argue",and then walk away!!!!Hope I was able to help you out some!!
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you sound just like me and my ex.. weve been going out for almost 4 months.. the first 2 months were fine, then we started fighting.. and being a girl i mostly started the fights.. he told me he was always gonna love me and never break up with me.. well one day i just got soo tired of his bullshit and i just broke up with him.. even if your in love, to much fighting is never a good thing.. my ex still likes me to this day (its been about 3 months since we broke up) and you guys can always be friends.. but whatever, follow your heart!! hope ive helped =)
-xxoBrianna
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okay well when something really gets to you, try not to bring it out. try to avoid fighting. but you have to remeber that fighting is okay because after you are all done you always learn something new and making up is the best.
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u wanna stop fighting?? then STOP!!!! if ur so scared of l0Osing him then seriously just stop..its really not that hard if u put ur f0Ot down..if u think about it, if u cant do something that simple, then it shows that ur pretty weak =/ ya know what i mean? like the next time u guys get in a fight, STOP urself and say this, "ya know what..wtf we LOVE eachother,and LOVE is suppose to be better than this. i love you lets talk this out.." then CALMLY tell him how u fEel..if u 2 end out fighting again, then just say that again and start all over with what i told u to say...
~kristin
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