Ok, i like this guy, chris, and we've hung out and we've talked and stuff, had a physical relationship for a while now, but now he doesn't want to call anymore, he doesn't want to hang out, and I'm not sure if he liked me in the first place but, I was absolutely crazy about him for a while, now its kinda fading, but I still like him, I don't know how he feels but I'm not about to go mess around with anyone until I know how he feels about me. How should I ask him, what should I do? -confused.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? PuReLuVeR143 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 9:48 pm: you 2 had a physical relationship u say. i know its hard to believe, but MANY MANy times, thats all what guyz are looking for. im going to give u my straight up thought k. from what you say, i think that maybe he was interested more in the physical part instead of the emotional part. and thats the reason why he isnt calling, etc, anymore. he got what he wanted, and that's that. but on the other hand, if u want to ask him how he feels about you, this is what i would say, "hey, listen..im kinda confused bout whats going on between u and me. ive messed around with u, hung out with u, etc, so i think i deserve to know how u are feeling about me. i just told u straight up how i feel, and i need to know how u feel. if u dont feel the same way about me thats totally fine, i just need to know so ill be able to move on with my life instead of sit here and dwell. so how do u feel?" if he says, ohh, well ive been kinda busy lately, and blahblah..hes just bsing and having that as an excuse to tell u that hes not interested. but if he says something more sincere, then ull know what to do..i really hope this helps, thanks for coming to me about ur question, if u still are confused im more than happy to try and help you..good luck, love kristin [ PuReLuVeR143's advice column | Ask PuReLuVeR143 A Question ]
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