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Q: my best friend and i are close like white on rice. we used to like each other but things got in the way of that and it kinda just disappeared.hes always there for me and im always there for him. lots of people tend to come up to us and ask us if were going out (answer is NO). recently my friend got with another one of my friends. shes beyond beutiful and absolutly awsome. now hes gone out with other girls befor but never have i been jelous. now when i see them together i feel like hes turning his back on me. i kinda feel like i wanna push his girlfriend over and pull out her hair. am i jelous of her? or am i just reacting to him paying more attention to her then me? do i like him again?.... if so what do i do?
In my opinion, it sounds like you're jealous and that you like him. But it is for you to decide if you like him again or not and just think about how you feel about him. this may sound bad but I think that you should just come out and tell him how you feel. Even if you get a bad response from him it is better than standing around waiting and not doing anything. I hope it goes well. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: Can you be in love with someone, and not be physically attracted to them?
yes, it is possible. remember that if someones isn't that great looking you can still be attracted to them by their inner looks and personality. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: what are some good movies (playing right now) to watch on dates? i haven't seen much previews, someone tell about a movie?
It depends on the type of movie you are in the mood for like Monster in law(comedy) with J.Lo,alot like love( romantic comedy) with ashton Kutcher and Amanda Peet,house of wax(horror) with chad Michael Murray and Paris Hilton.
just check out moviefone.com for some movies that are in theatres now. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: I've been in love with this guy since 7th grade which would be like 4 years total. I noticed that he flirts with a million girls and is a total player. each time i see him with another girl I can feel the pain of my heart breaking and i can't get over him. I always think about him all the time and have a hard time getting over him. what should i do?
I'm sorry to say this but i think that this guy isn't even worth it. If he flirts with a million girls and doesn't seem to care about you and spends his time flirting with the other girls hes just messed up. You shouldn't waste your time on this guy and just find someone else. Think of it this way there are other guys that are way better than he is and that you can do so much better. I mean you're just sitting around waiting for just that guy! for like four years! you can get your mind off of him by keeping yourself busy by hanging out with your friends and doing things that you love to do. just forget about him and move on with life. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: wheres a good place to get cute cheap underwear [if u can list the styles they sell too thnx]
Macys, Robinsons May, Mervyns, Forever 21, Victora's secret, abercrombie and fitch( cuz the other day it was like 4 for 20 bucks at abercrombie.) ♥ peachgirly

Q: One of my friends has tried to comitte suicide twice before and i am afraid she will do it again it terifies me what should i do.
You should talk to her about it and maybe find out what is causing her to commit suicide and ask her questions like why do you want to commit suicide? and etc. tell her not only she is gonna hurt and kill herself but have her think about everyone around her that loves her. everyone like you will be upset and hurt if she is gone and things won't be the same. also if you can't get through to her try to get her help as soon as possible. even tell a trusted adult,teacher, counselor,her parents,someone you trust or whatever. itz better to have her get pissed off at you then having her life end. Here is the number for the National suicide prevention lifeline 800-273-TALK. also always be there to support her. I wish you the best of luck. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: i really like this guy, and i have heard ors that he might like me. i heard them about a month ago. but now thanx 2 some blabbermouthed friends, he knows. i havent really talked to him since. cause i used to occasionally flirted w/ him. but now.... i dont know wat 2 do!!!! help!!!
I think that you should talk to him about it so you don't have to wait around and wonder what would happen and maybe you can get your answer. i assume that it also must be really akward between you two now. or if you don't want him to know that you like him you can like make up an excuse like oh my gosh i can't believe my friends actaully went through with that or some kind of an excuse. Itz your choice on what you want to do and the thing is life is about taking risks. my opinion is who knows it could be possible that he feels the same way you feel about him. if it doesn't work out between you two then he just isn't the one for you. i hope things go well for you. ♥ peachgirly

Q: what are ANY other signs of pregnancy other then sore boobs, and morning sickness???
the signs of pregnancy are when you eat a lot,have cravings on alot of food, nausea and vomiting, a missed period, you need to pee alot, gaining weight,feeling exhausted or sleepy,headaches,backaches, your emotions. (the way you act go up and down like when you become angry then upset.)♥ peachgirly

Q: Last night I did this really hard aerobics class at my gym and i am sooo sore that it hurts everywhere everytime i move...is there anything i can do to make the soreness go down?...thanks
Take a nice relaxing hot bath, take some kind of a pain reliever and just rest. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: I'm a shy girl (13/f) and I always feel lonely. I was wondering what's an easy way to make new friends?
Try talking with other people who have the same interests as you and you have something to talk about with them and eventually you may be friends with them. You can also talk to someone in your class who seems nice,interesting or cool and you could start a conversation about class or an assignment. also by joining after school activites,sports or clubs may be a great way to socialize. also remember to be nice to everyone,have confidence and don't act stuck up or snobby. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: Do yOU find anything wrong with A white girl and a Black guy being in-love dating, and wanting to get married?

please, share your oppinion, and support it!
I am open to hear both sides!

I don't think there is anything wrong with a white girl and a black guy dating and wanting to get married. I think that as long as they are in love with each other and the color of someones skin shouldn't ruin it and it doesn't matter at all. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: Tell me if this shirt is cute for a car chick, like me.
Its white and too big so i tie it in the back (i have a long tight black tank under) On the front ot says FORD with the blue and white letters. On the back:
"My daddy drives a bad stang and i will drive it when i get bigger".

I need your advice..... I RATE HIGH
I think that you should wear cause it sounds cute and i think it would look good on you. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: ok well theres this guy in my history class and lately we have been closer. "Josh" has even told me that he liked me, but everytime i flirt with him ppl ask "are u 2 going out?" and hes always like, "NO!!!!" i dont get whay he would tell me that he liked me and know that i like him but not do a single thing about it. Does anyone have any advice on how i can approach the situation?
Anything is great!
I think that he may be embarrassed by the questions he is being asked and the attention he is getting and just doesn't want other people to know. I think that the only way you can get your answer is to talk to him about it. if it doesn't work out between you two then he probably isn't the one or is worth it. good luck! ♥ Peachgirly

Q: ok well my acne is getin pretty bad an i was wondering if any1 knew some good products out there..one's that aren't too expensive please let me know..
my opinion is to get any kind of acne wash with benzoyl peroxide. but try some products such as Neutrogena,Cetaphil,Loreal Pure Zone(works well) and Clean and Clear. if you are able to go to the dermotologist get the prescription for acne and it will be able to be controlled and prevented. xoxo peachgirly

Q: i take showers every day..i wash myself very good..im very clean and i have pimple/zit things on my butt..i dont kno wat they r and i dont kno how to get rid of them! IM ONLY 13 and im embarressed by themmm!! How do i get rid offf themmmmmmmmmm.THANK u so much
try the neutrogena acne body wash or the acne wash with benzoyl peroxide in it. some kind of acne body wash that has benzoyl peroxide will work on pimples on the body. but it can also be an allergic reaction or insect bites. it could also be the material made from your underwear that is giving you an allergic reaction. xoxo peachgirly

Q: lately, i've felt really sad, and i've felt all alone. i'm 8th grade/f, and i feel like a guy could fill up a space :( what can i do??
-all alone-
i know what you mean i get that feeling all the time. what i do is that i just try keeping my mind off of it by concentrating on school and homework or i occupy myself by doing something else like talking to my friends on the phone. but think of it this way the person you're are meant to be with or someone who is supposed to be your future boyfriend is out there but you just haven't met him yet. Eventually you will find the person and it can happen anytime and anywhere. you can also just have fun now and enjoy life now and you shouldn't worry about having a boyfriend right now. ♥ peachgirly

Q: Can you get your belly button peirced at Claire's? i heard that from a friend but i dont think you can. thanks for your help.
no i don't think that you can get your belly button pierced at Claires. It seems like they only do ear piercings there. xoxo peachgirly

Q: Where can I find cute cursors?
try soup-faerie.com,carrielynnesworld.com,
dolliecrave.com,diamondrains.com and starlightmks.com
xoxo peachgirly

Q: ok..I have scoliosis and my mom says doing pilates or yoga would help..would that really work?
yeah, i have scoliosis too and i love yoga because it really does help my back. yoga prevents more curving in the spine and decreases pain. here is a site with some information. http://www.scoliyogi.com/ But, i think that pilates is gonna make the scoliosis worse. xoxo peachgirly

Q: i dont really no what category this should be under,but anyways...

My legs are sort of sensitive and get dry a lot,does anyone no what shaving cream that would pervent dry legs?
try shaving with skintimate shaving cream also after that you should apply some kind of lotion to your legs like skintimate moisturizing after shave gel. xoxo peachgirly

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"Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances, you just have to live life to the fullest. laugh as much as you can, spend all your money, tell someone what they mean to you, tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someones hand, comfort a friend, pig out, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, smile till your face hurts, dont be afraid to take chances or fall in love...& most of all live in the moment cause when you look back someday knowing you have no regrets it's gonna be what makes you smile."


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