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Dear Jasmine,
Thank you so much for your reply. I need your advise further. I have realized it before what you suggested and tried too but every time i am getting failed in it. Because i can't forget him and can't think about another person. As i thought by doing this i will cheat that another person.
I am facing problem to take decision and to stay firm with that decision.
Could you please advise me, whether i have to get married another person or not. If yes then please advise, should i share my past with him or not.
My past is hurting me a lot every day not because of his faults but of mine.
Regards,
Sweetu (link)
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Dear Sweetu,
After you leave someone it is extremely hard to not rly forget him, but to move on from him or to think about another person..
I do recommend watching the few free videos available, as well as doing the online newsletters from heal my broken heart - by Amelie Chance.
although i did not buy her products, love lessons or anything online, the video's as well as the information she/the website sent me did help incredable! and it looks like they added more information to the website.
Now as to marriage. I have not been married yet as i am only 21, but I do know. that you should not just go marry any joe shmoe from the dating world. When you marry someone you want to remember that you should love this person. You should want this person to be the one you spend the rest of your life with. maybe even a family one day. So def don't jump the gun in running to marry someone else.
Because you were with this other person for 8 years, it is def understandable to want to fill that void that will be there if it is not already. What i would suggest doing is taking some time to work on you. Make your self happy before you let a guy/girl in. It is most important to be content with ones self before letting one be two.
Plus I do know a thing or two about past hurting me. I've had some pretty bad men in my life too. What I think is that you should come to terms with what has been. It can not be changed. is done and over with. But does not have to describe or be the outline of who you are.
I hope this helps a little bit. If you would like to message me back i am always an open ear :)
~Jasmine*
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Hi, 20/m
I suffer from Hyperhydrosis (excessive sweating, more than is needed to regulate body temperature). I've been to the Doctor, and he says that because it's not something drastic or major, that he can't really do much about it because of local budget cuts to health. He says that he can only really refer serious things for surgery and the such. He advised me to check online for help etc, but I can't find anything besides the common sense stuff e.g. Wear black or white, use aluminium antiperspirant.
The thing is though, the sweating occurs on my face and back (mostly). I went to a friends house the other day, and the second I walked in, it was like someone had hosed me down. It gets quite awkward, because I hear people saying to each other "quick, open the window" or people think I'm nervous (which I'm not).
It's only started relatively recently. I can't remember it happening 6 or so years ago. I've not changed anything: my diet, lifestyle, or anything like that. I hear that many people get over it after the age of 25, but I can't wait that long.
It's terrible when I get out of the shower: I'll shower, dry myself, and BHAM!
Has anyone suffered from anything similar? Or does anyone know of experiences or have any sort of advice for me?
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A. Go to a different doctor. When you go to a doctor they are to help you not tell you there is nothing we can do,. Check the internet.
There is something they can do. They are just too dam lazy to do it. If the nxt doctor says the same... then screw that one and find a different doctor. You want a doctor that will actually care enough to want to help the patients.
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Is it ok to commit suicide for unselfish reasons. i know the people who love me will be hurting emotionally but if I kill myself they will receive 2 million dollars. Right now we have almost no money left with no income coming in. I'm in constant pain due to a failed surgery and pretty much stay in bed all day ( I am 49 years old). I'm not afraid to die because I know I will see my son who died 3 years ago and I miss him so much, but I am afraid of pain or not succeeding and becoming a vegetable and not having my family collect my insurance. I still have a 17 year old son at home and he has one year left in private school, right now I can't afford his tuition. We won't have money for food soon. My husband of 9 years tries very hard he started a company but hasn't made money in years. I took a look at my policy and it does pay if I kill myself after 2 years. I've had the policy for 6 years. I don't want to die but I want to help my family and this seems like the only way i can help them. I am so afraid of us running out of money. Please help me get the courage I need to do this and help me figure out the best and least painful way to as well. (link)
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No one with the right mind will tell you how to let yourself do that. Although your family does need money. YOU ARE THAN ANY AMOUNT OF MONEY!!!!! They would much rather spend the time with you than with your money. What about well are? I don't know if you have it where you are from. But I'm sure if you look into it there are services to help you out. Just don't do what you are thinking of doing.
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I have a really close friend and we have been friends since kindergarten mayb longer. And she is really nice and all but sometimes she copies me like I get these boots and then she gets them ( btw copying is not Wat irritates me). She also lived in an apartment. But then she moved into this really big house and now she seems to act like she's all that. For example: she barley ever wants to come to my house now, shes always tlking about getting new clothes and she sometimes acts like she's to good for other people. And I just miss how she used to b. how do I tell her tht i don't like when she act like a rich chic without breaking into a fight. And I kno this probably seems stupid but if you knew her you probably wuld understand. Thx 😃 (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. When some people get 'things' they can turn very matrialistic. Now even though you don't wanna start a fight. You have to be honest with her. Tell her te truth. Explain to her that she is acting very materialistic and that she makes you feel less than a friend. Or/and not good enough to be her friend. Just because someone gets a better/bigger house or gets big moneys and rich does not by any means give them rights to act higher or better than anyone else.
There is a good chance that she will get very offended,. And possibly even angry. Don't be angry with her. Its just her new status talking explain to h that you miss her.
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When i was 16 year old he kissed me first time and after that slowly we moved to complete sex. After 1 year relation i got pregnant at the age of 17. After completing 3 months we came to know that i am pregnant. We got scared and we abort that child. Our relation was not stopped there it lasts for 8 years. When i had completed my graduation my father gets seriously ill and admitted in the hospital. At the same time he met another girl and married her. I was feeling to made suicide at that time but i thought about my family as i am the elder sister and i have 2 younger sisters and 1 younger brother. After 3 years my father had expired and i decided to settle down my sister and brother and then to die. But each day i am suffering from a pain like hell. My 2nd number sister got married and got 1 cute baby but still another sister is got to marry and brother is still studying. I don't have patience to live more. I really want to die. Few months ago, I had told about my relation with that boy to his or my family. His wife and mother insulted me a lot. I am still meeting that boy as we both cant live without each other. But he is not accepting this in front of every one. He is not ready to leave his wife as he has got one girl child from her and he don't want to do injustice with that baby. But, what should i do? I tried to think about another boy to marry but it's not possible for me. I think to quit this life is the best solution in this situation. (link)
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You need to move on honey. This boy is getting his cake and eating to. You will not be able to find someone until you get rid of this boy... you say he is not ready to leave his wife and child... what makes you think he will ever leave them. You need to let go of the past. Once you do that you will be alot happier. This boy may have meant alot to you in the past but. If you don't let him go. And keep him around you won't be happy. And I garentee you will find someone a million times better!!! You may not believe it now but its true!
*Jasmine;;
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im torn between two guys jake and kyle. ive been in a relationship with jake for about three years, however we broke up during that time and kyle and i got together. kyle and i lasted about 5 days, and jake and i got back together. but now its a year since all this hppened and i still find my self thinking about kyle. anytime kyle sees me he always makes it a point to talk to me, he also points me out to his friends if they see me out. when kyle and i were together for the 5 days we took things to the next level and went all the way .. but jake and have as well many times. i still think that i have feelings for kyle. but im not sure and im not sure if he feels the same. i find him more attractive than jake. i love jake but he treats me badly sometimes and he makes me upset alot. he also cheated on me about a year into our relationship. when i ended things with kyle he seemed a little bother by it. we had talked and texted after jake cheated on me but it never went anywhere until jake and i were broken up. i think i may have deeper feelings than just lust for kyle,what should i do? (link)
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What you need to do is take some time away from both men and seriously think about where your feelings stand for both men. Consider the facts and differences. One you were with for only 5 days. That is barely a relationship at all. Compared to 3 years. That is a big difference. Plus there is the fact of the bad treatment a d the cheating. You deserve to be happy so you should take some time to figure out what it is that is going to make you happy
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hi jasmine my name is jazzy im 12,im a girl and i wanted to no wat should i do because i am eager to have sex but i think im under age:{ please help me!!!! (link)
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Hey my first question is why are you so eager to do it hon?
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Ok so I have been have this for about 3 years.
So when I go to sleep and and in my dream I feel like Im awake but I cant move because it feels like somethings holding me or my body is just paralized, my eyes are half and I can see around my room but I cant move because it feels like something is making me want to go unconcious, I try fighting my paralyzation and I can sometimes move my fingers or twitch my head but I cant relax or ill feel like going unconcious, but I dont want to because it TERRIFIES me! And then I wake by swinging up sweaty and out of breath. Can someone please tell me wats goin on.
Please its been happening to me almost everynight for 3 years.
Someone please help me, im afraid to go to bed
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I would definetly talk to your parents and your doctors about this. I have never been in this situation. But i have had bad dreams that i wake up terrified.
you shouldn't have to be afraid to go to bed.
You should be able to just lay there and go to sleep.
You might need to talk to a doctor so get help sleeping properly.
Good luck hon!
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17 male
My girlfriend is currently on her one month trip.. She left June 22 and I will see her July 24..
She spent a couple of weeks with family on her trip and the rest of the trip is with her old friend who she had to move away from. Soon she will be back.. But lately I feel like I am going crazy, before she got to her friends house she seemed fine, she made time to talk to me and she texted me normally and seemed happy and seemed to want to talk to me.
Now it has been a week since she got to her friends house and I feel like I'm losing her.. She is always partying or something and she doesn't make time to talk to me and if i was in her position I would try to talk to her and she hardly texts me.. but I noticed on her twitter she started to text her guy friend that lives here where we live and she doesn't even seem to see my tweets about her or like today I posted on her wall that I love her.. she never seemed to notice and I barely ever do that but I just noticed that. We have been together for 3 months. I told her how I felt and that I felt more friends with her cause of how she treats me and the other night we took a break, well space from eachother and she said she wouldn't do anything with any guys so I believe her but I just feel like I am falling apart and I don't know what to do..
I felt this way before with another girl where i felt i was going insane. I never figured out how to get over it. I have been cheated on before and I think that has caused part of it. I'm not sure what to do to make it these next 10 days from ruining my relationship and i have cried alot lately and I don't normally do that. Any help is appreciated and this isn't the full story cause that would take forever to type out but thank you for help (link)
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I'm not sure her reasons for not talking to the one she is with. because it is almost the 24th,. I would see how she is acting when she gets back from her vacation. if she continues to be very distant that i would definetly talk to her about it. not matter what if she is being distant that is not something to do in a relationship and you do deserve better than to be ignored.
~Jasmine*
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17/f
My friends always touch my (butt( and call me a trucker butt and other horid names. These people whom are supozed to b mi frienz. is this molest? (link)
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I agree with Braiden (sorry if i spelt that wrong)
Any touching that is not wanted is sexual harrasment.
These people are not treating you like a friend. To be blunt. (sorry) they are making fun of you.
These are not people that you want in your life.
A true friend would not insult you abour your weight or your hair or your features.
A true friend would accept you for who you are. no matter what you look like or who you are.
Hope this helps.
~Jamsine*
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I started masturbating when i was around 15 by sticking foreign objects like highlighters washing pegs and colouring pens up my vagina as well as my own fingers. At the time i didnt know much about stds and i dont think i washed these objects before i stuck them in. My hands were fairly clean from what i remember and to the best of my knowledge i had no warts or anything on them. However since i turned 18 two years ago Ive noticed these papules on my fingers which weren't painful unless u pressed them hard. Now the same patches r dry and hardened. Also Ive noticed random pustules near but not inside my vagina first filled with just pustule then later with blood... Am i being paranoid? (link)
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First of all because you were so young it is understandable to not know about safe toys to use. such as. if you are using dildo's and toys, SOAP DOES NOT WORK TO CLEAN IT. My Passion party consultant stated that she has had many many clients who have had infections and worse because of not using "Toy Cleaner"
Also. I would Go to the doctor as soon as you can. If you are getting these bumps on the outside of your vagina, and they are also on your hands, this is not a good sign at all. It is a sign of something not so good is going on.
It might be something serious. or something mild.
So i would definetly get that checked out.
~Jasmine*
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I've recently found myself starting to develop very strong feelings for a friend of mine...trouble is, he has a girlfriend already...however, I get very strong vibes of a mutual attraction, and all the signs that guys show when they like a girl...I've always been a very good judge of whether or not a guy likes me or not, and my heart tells me he does...and that's not just wishful thinking on my part because I like him.
And let me just say, he knows that I like him, BUT, he also knows, because I adamantly told him, that I will NOT try to break them up, and that is nowhere near what my intentions are. I do NOT want to be "that girl"...and I can't stand the thought of being responsible for someone's misery in that type of situation...
Anyways...so back to his girlfriend...I don't know her all that well, but I like her, and regardless of whether or not I liked her or not, I still do NOT want her to get hurt...but I've gotten hints of the relationship going through some bumps...
That...and I got an anonymous letter from someone telling me that even though they are with someone, they feel a stronger connection to me, and that if they were single, they would find themselves falling in love with me...
There is NO one else that feels that way about me, and it's too much of a coincidence for me to not believe it's him...
Now...I'm not getting my hopes up...mainly because, again, I don't want his girlfriend to get hurt...that and I am afraid of letting myself completely trust him if he could leave her that easily for me...
But all that aside...suppose it just isn't working out between them? If he's truly not happy with her, and he does decide to leave her...I'll obviously play it cool...he may not be leaving her for ME, but at the same time, I still feel like he feels for me...
Anyways, I'm just asking...if this were a situation where he WAS going to leave her for me...how do I respond? What if his girlfriend was emotionally destroyed? What about her family? I don't want anyone to get hurt...I know sometimes it's not unavoidable...I've never quite been in a situation like this before... (link)
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I think you are totally handling this like a mature adult. and in a responsible way as well.
With saying that. He is not single. and that might not change. If it does. it is realistic to say that the gf is going to be hurt. not matter what. us girls hurt after a relationship ends. Because we are afraid to be alone. nomatter if it was a week and a half or a 3 year relationship.
If he does end up leaving her. you must let him fully heal from this. You do not want to end up being the rebound. especially if you like him.
All you can do at this point is be there to support him, and his relationship with her. because that is what good friend's do.
~Jasmine*
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18/f
I was hooking up with my boyfriend the other day and we were both down to just our underwear when his mom walked in on us! I feel super awkward and embarrassed and now I don't want to see her because I feel like she's going to hate me or something. What can I do? (link)
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This is a situation which is the worst,. most embarassing feelings.
Now unfortunetly what is done is done, and there is not much you can do about it now. All you can do is face her with respect. and be careful not to get caught again.
Now she won't be mad at you. because it's normal for people to like this. At most she will not say a thing. because it will be too embarassing for her to say anything to you at all.
Jasmine~
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Hey, I'm 17/f
Recently I've found my tonsils in my mouth have grown and sometimes stones are produced.
I was wondering firstly how big is too big before you have to have them removed, and also do you visit the doctor or the dentist?!
Please advise if you've had this because I'd really appriciate it :) (link)
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I just had tonsilitis,. And the doctor told me that They only remove them if they keep getting infected. I'm really not sure about the stones or the size. I would probably go to the doctor.
and yes it's the doctor that you go to.
the dentist is just for teeth related issues.
Jasmine*
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Hey guys my boy cousin left to camp about 2 weeks ago and he wants me to write him a letter. Like pen pals for the summer. But my summer is so boring now. I dont know what to write. Im sure his letter is going to be full of adventures and mine well I dont even know what mine will say. I dont know should I make it like a scrap book and put pictures? What else should I add? My printer barely has ink... ahhh. I dont know tell me ideas please I rate. :) (link)
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You should write how your feeling about your summer. he wants to know about your summer,. so tell him about the cute boys around. or the people he knows what they are doing?
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My skin tone is like this:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/81389812@N03/7457233430/in/photostream
I already have the same colored hair as her. I want to have 2 colors in my hair. Are there any other colors that match my skin tone? (link)
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Try red and blonde,
orr brunette and blonde,
or brunette and red??
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how i made my virgin girlfriend to have sex with me
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First of all you can't MAKE her have sex with you. this is called rape. Second. if you really care about her you should wait until she is ready and not force it on her. Even if you aren't a virgin. you should respect her enought to wait till she is ready.
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So the other one of my best friends gave me this troll link. When you click that link, you'll be redirected to a page with this screaming ghost girl and a scary bgm. Obviously I got scared. Afterwards she told me to go troll my other friends and so I did since it sounded fun. Most of my other friends got scared but laughed it off but when I gave the link to my other best friend, HE TOTALLY FLIPPED OUT. Like, I was in Skype call with him so I heard him screaming and throwing something. At first I thought he fainted or something so I called him a few times. Then he told me he just asked his maid to help close the page because he was too scared. Now though, it seems like he actually THREW his headphones to the computer screen and it broke. He told his mum (obviously) and didn't exactly tell her the FULL story. His mum is making me pay $1200 and obviously I'm mad. I said I'd speak to his mum one on one but I won't be too polite about it though. What should I do? And am I really at fault and should pay $1200? I mean, it's not like I threw his headphones at the screen. (link)
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It was a joke. Period. Maybe not a nice joke. But a joke. You should not have to pay for a computer screen that you did not break. He threw the head phones at the screen not you;..
It's like someone sending an email that they didnt like and breaking the screen not to see it.
He is at fault for breaking it. not you..
Tell your parents. that you did not break it. he did.
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About two weeks ago my bfwent too far and we were kissing and her fingered me and then like 15 minutes later before he left I gave him a handjob but he didn't come and I wiped my hand on the sheet and went downstairs after her left and drank water and washed out the glass and went back upstairs and went on the computer and after a while I went to the bathroom and touched my vagina. Is it possible I'm pregant? I've never done something like this before and I'm so so worried. My period was to come 2 days ago and didn't come yet. Please answer me, thanks! (link)
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Chances are you def wont.
If you are on birthcontrol that will help stop the sperm from traveling up the vagina.
Just because you wacked off and then touched yourself does not mean you will get pregenant. and symptoms if any don't show up in 2 weeks. takes alot longer than that.
plus if you didnt use a condom.. Wierd i know! but do you really want to have clamidya of the mouth. or warts on your face because he didn't know that he was infected.
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I have made tshirts for several years. I wanna start screen printing but I don't kno what I HAVE TO have. Any help would b appreciated. Or if anyone knows anybody tryin to sell out. Thanks in advance (link)
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Here is a few websites that might help:
http://www.silkscreeningsupplies.com/
http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2010/may/11/how-to-screen-print-tshirts-at-home
http://tshirtprinter.hubpages.com/hub/t-shirt-printing-what-you-need-to-know
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