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Get cheated in love relationship of 8 years Dear Jasmine,
Thank you so much for your reply. I need your advise further. I have realized it before what you suggested and tried too but every time i am getting failed in it. Because i can't forget him and can't think about another person. As i thought by doing this i will cheat that another person.
I am facing problem to take decision and to stay firm with that decision.
Could you please advise me, whether i have to get married another person or not. If yes then please advise, should i share my past with him or not.
My past is hurting me a lot every day not because of his faults but of mine.
Regards,
Sweetu
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Dear Sweetu,
After you leave someone it is extremely hard to not rly forget him, but to move on from him or to think about another person..
I do recommend watching the few free videos available, as well as doing the online newsletters from heal my broken heart - by Amelie Chance.
although i did not buy her products, love lessons or anything online, the video's as well as the information she/the website sent me did help incredable! and it looks like they added more information to the website.
Now as to marriage. I have not been married yet as i am only 21, but I do know. that you should not just go marry any joe shmoe from the dating world. When you marry someone you want to remember that you should love this person. You should want this person to be the one you spend the rest of your life with. maybe even a family one day. So def don't jump the gun in running to marry someone else.
Because you were with this other person for 8 years, it is def understandable to want to fill that void that will be there if it is not already. What i would suggest doing is taking some time to work on you. Make your self happy before you let a guy/girl in. It is most important to be content with ones self before letting one be two.
Plus I do know a thing or two about past hurting me. I've had some pretty bad men in my life too. What I think is that you should come to terms with what has been. It can not be changed. is done and over with. But does not have to describe or be the outline of who you are.
I hope this helps a little bit. If you would like to message me back i am always an open ear :)
~Jasmine* ]
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