I think he likes me but im not sure what do you think?
Question Posted Thursday August 9 2012, 11:49 am
For the past few month ive been volunteering at a senior center and there is this maintenance man that works there i liked him from the first moment i saw him but i didnt think he liked me he would never talk to me he would walk by sometimes he would look at me or walk by slow or stand somewhere around me but that it then yesterday he leaned in really close to me and started asking me questions about me volunteering and complimented me for doing it i was shocked by it because he never ever talked to me before i didnt know what to think i was caught off guard then today he came up to me and was speaking in spanish but i dont speak spanish and so he was asking me why i dont know spanish and things like that and then the rest of the time he would walk back and forth past me look at me but now he smiles a little bit and he still stands around me help me tell me what this means why now all of a sudden is he talking to me when he wasnt before
orphans answered Friday August 10 2012, 5:37 am: It doesn't seem like he likes you to be honest. It does sound like he is being friendly.
But we weren't there! It all depends on how he says things, and what his body language was.
Maybe he just wasn't sure because he thought it would be inappropriate?
My advice? Take the leap. Speak to him, and ask if he would like to go for a cup of coffee.
If he turns you down, what's the problem? Sure, you'll be embarrassed for all of a couple minutes. Maybe it'll be awkward when you see him, but you're there for the seniors, and so it doesn't matter.
AngelsColumn answered Thursday August 9 2012, 5:50 pm: Maybe he's being friendly. Or maybe he just wanted to talk to someone. Honestly it doesn't seem like he likes you in that way it just seems like he needs someone to talk to & he was being polite. Maybe before he was focused on work and not friendship on the job. It could be he just wants to be polite & friendly. It doesn't seem like any feelings are there yet. But if you like him you should keep talking to him more and see if your friendship can build.
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