My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
Answers: 385
Last Update: February 27, 2005
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lately i cant wait to grow up. like i cant wait to get my period, i cant wait to become a teenager, i cant wait to go to colledge, i cant wait to get married, i cant wait to have kids, i cant wait to drive, like all of that stuff! does this mean anything?
*lauve645* (link)
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...No, it doesn't mean anything really...
Most girls are like that, especially around this age. I NEVER wanted to have my period though...and I was so upset when I did. But it's normal for girls to WANT their periods, it's nothing weird/strange.
So bottom line -- You're just like any other girl around the age of...11/12? (I'm guessing).
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I am 19 and i have a boyfriend. Im thinking of going on the pill. BUT I want to find out the side effects. Does anyone know of any? Ive tried searching on the net but I didnt really get anywhere. (link)
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Ask your doctor...it depends what kind of pill, if you have any diseases or ever had any sicknesses, if you were ever on any other kind of medicine, if you smoke..ALL OF THAT.
I's wait until you're married...seriously...what's a few more years? YOu never know what could happen if YOU DO end up pregnant...and 19 is a pretty young age for the responsibility of a infant.
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plz plz plz some one help me i am 13 n dont no what to do all my friendz are comein up to me callin me things such as "lezbo ur gay ur ugly" u no all that n beond i try to not say ne thing cuz i no that whatever i say or do will be held a aginst me n im just not that stupid. i tell them that they need to grow up n just to get a life n let me live mine.they treatned to beat me up many times so i told my mom who called them up n said " if u ever threated my daughter a agin i will call the cops" my mom went to the skool consler n the princible n told them to do somethin about this or she will take me out of skool 4 the rest of the yr. they both called me n my friends down to the offess n talk to us 4 n hour n nothing has change. they all still hate me n i dont no what to do ...they just wont grow up n leave me alon. !!!!!!!!!HELP!!!!!!!!! (link)
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It's okay...I know this isn't ALWAYS the best solution, but if you're not happy at your school that your at now, then I would transfer if it's not too late. If it IS too late then go to a different school next year to start fresh.
This is my SECOND year at a different school because 6th grade and lower I HATED my schools in my hometown. Now I go to an art school in a different town and everybody is sooooo much nicer and more diverse. There's always going to be people who judge you, but at my new school there are hardly ANY...I really like all the people there and I don't want to leave that school. This is my last year and then high school. *sigh*
So basically what I'm saying that if you start fresh it may all work out for the best as long as you're a nice person and respect people for who they are.
Also, don't tell them secrets about you if you don't want them to make fun of you if it's something that YOU KNOW they will make fun of you for. Do you get what I mean? I DON'T know what happened at your old school, but I know kids can be cruel...so don't tell them a secret or decision of yours that YOU KNOW they WON'T RESPECT.
I don't know if they called you a lezbo because you are a lesbian...so what I'm saying is YOU KNOW people at that age are going to take that the wrong way if they find out you like somebody whose the same sex as you. So if you ARE lesbian, and they are calling you that because you told them, next time don't tell people until you're older...because until some STUPID PEOPLE can grow up (like the people at your school) then it's just not worth telling them unless you're ready to endure all that pain of being made fun of.
Now, I'm not saying ALL people will make fun of you for your decisions...but it's likely that A LOT of them will, especially when they're in middle school.
Hope this helped.
~GL~
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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lately my friend and i have been getting in really stupid fights. i mean she expects me not to be affected at all when she calls me a moron and a bullshitter. she thinks everything revoles around her. like should i be her friend? personaly i am pissed at her. she called me a bullshitter and a moron when we werent even in a fight! and then she sayd no affence! but like why wouldnt i be affended by that?! i have really defensive friends and they look out for me in all, but i told one or two of my friends about this problem and i just realized that i dont want them to get into this. and she also said fuck u to me. i hadalready told her i do not like it when she calls me those things, and yet she still does it. (link)
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Unless she's joking, I'd just leave it be. I wouldn't hang around with her much. Say you have other plans when she calls and if she calls you a name on the telephone just simply say "bye" and hang up. Don't be rude to her unless there's a BIG reason to be. It may be tempting, but it's not worth it, because you would just be an even bigger target for her to be rude to if you try to be just as rude to her. If she's mean to you or calls you names just walk away...it's the best way. (and it gets them more irritated). hehe.
No but if you don't like the way she treats you, don't be afraid to drop her as a friend. Don't be rude about it, just tell her how you feel or avoid her. People are strange creatures...you just have to know how to handle them.
Hope this helped!
~GL~
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
If you need any more help then just i/m me or email me. Please, I love helping people out and I could help you more if you need it.
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can you get pregnant from anual sex??? (link)
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Anal you mean? No...
Just wait until you're older if you don't even know what can happen.
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like when u have a period wat does it mean and wat happens pleeze help (link)
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Okay well...
Girls have ovaries, which hold eggs. Until you have your period, those eggs just stay in your ovaries. When your body starts to develop you have your period. A period comes once every month. In the process, eggs fall from your ovaries out of your vaginal area. It appears as blood...
It means you're finally a woman and a period is something that prepares you to have a baby someday. Until you have your period, you cannot get pregnant.
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pick a number 1-100 make it a good one or i lose (link)
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...77...
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I have a really good friend. She is head over heels for the guy of her dreams. She even now dates him. She is overbering in a caring way. She really likes him but while she was gone i found something out. He thinks that she is crazy and is going to break up with her. I know if he does, she will be devistated. Should i tell her of the impending doom. If i do she might hate me but if i dont she will lose the guy of her dreams. What can i say? (link)
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I would just let nature take its course...
What's meant to happen will happen. Either way she will be devestated...
I wouldn't tell her, especially if your taking the risk of her getting upset with you.
~GL~
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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my sister keeps on asking me if she wants her hair to b dyed a diff. color...her hair is brown with blonde streaks(but she put them in there a few months ago)and she is wondering if she should re-highlight it or dye it a darker color for sumthin new
signed,desprate to know (link)
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Well...that's totally up to her. We can't TELL her to dye her hair a certain color...and I don't really even know what her style is so sorry I couldn't help.
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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Hey I am a 14 year old in middle school, and i need to know when to ask a girl out. She is very uptight about school and does not seem that out going. I really like her and i am tring to observe some signs that she like me. any ideas?
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I like a 14 year old boy, and I'm going to be 14 in a week, although he is 30 days older than me he is in 7th grade and I am in 8th grade. I am not a very outgoing person and from experience, I know that people like me don't drop hints to boys often...
People have asked me out...not much or anything, but I said no. Not because I was shy in front of them, but because I liked someone else. Does she talk to you at all? Just because she doesn't talk to you doens't mean she doesn't like you...just go for it. Ask her out. If you see her upset one day ask her "What's the matter?" and maybe she'll respond.
I have more advice but instant messenge me or email me if you need it okay? Sorry but if you ask more questions directly towards me I'll be able to answer better.
Hope this helped.
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
P.S. Don't listen to AdviceChick...
What she said about girls putting on makeup in front of guys isn't necessarily true..it all depends on their personality...
Especially if they're a SHY person, then they probably most likely WILL NOT put on makeup and try to get a guy they like to notice them.
(no offense AdviceChick)
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THERE'S THIS BOY THAT I LIKE BUT HE HAS A G-FRIEND WE FLIRT BUT I DON'T KNOW IF HE LIKES ME. SHOULD I TRY TO BREAK HIM AND HIS G-FRIEND UP OR JUST LET IT BE. (link)
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Just let it be. DO NOT break up him and is girlfriend..that's just selfish, mean, and low.
Don't go that far...let nature take its course.
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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Is it wrong to make plans with one of your best friends and after all the trouble they went thur to ask there parents,they go and make plans with someone else. After you have been planing this since like Sunday. Or is it a signal that they dont wanna be your friend anymore? help
-Me (link)
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Talk to your friend about it. I cannot give you good advice unless you give more details. That always happens...it doesn't mean she doesn't want to be your friend anymore. Maybe she was tired of waiting (although if she was she should've said so instead/before going out) But then again I don't now the whole details. Talk to her about it...that's happened to me a few times. It hurt. But I talked to them about it and made it out of a joke and questioned my friend about it with a smile on my face (even if I wasn't happy about it) that way it lightens the mood but you still confront her. Just kid around saying you had hurt feelings and why didn't you invite me to where you went?
Things like that...
But if she gets mad and asks if you're kidding...say no. Don't lie and say it doesn't bother you if she asks, because then the odds are that she will most likely do that again.
So just talk to her...its the best thing to do...and if she ditches you normally, then she's not a very good friend...and I've lost a friend like that before because she wasn't too good of a friend when it came to wanting to hang out with me with "cooler people".
~GL~
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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My Friend doesnt like me anymore! I dont know why.. she just wont talk to me! (link)
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Oh I just read your ADDITIONAL info...and I was going to say that she's not worth it...so just stick with that thought. I really mean that.
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I don't think there is a section for puberty, but there should be.
Anyhow, I have a hurty pimple thing in my NOSE. Gross, yes. Hurty, yes. It's like pea-sized and it hurts alot. It's right on the opening of my nostril. At first I thought it was a tumor but thats very unlikely. I went to pop it and only a little bit of zitty stuff came out, even though it's huge. (Ewwy...)
Any remedies or comments? (link)
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Just a week ago I had something like that. I just didn't touch it. Everybody is going to get something like that; whether they have good hygiene or not...just keep washing and make sure you're a clean person. That prevents zits...but they are ALWAYS going to happen to everyone regardless how clean you are.
JUST DON'T TOUCH IT...you said you popped it...DON'T DO THAT. That may make it grow back even bigger, or it will hurt A LOT MORE!...
So just look for medicine in the store for pimples, and DON'T TOUCH IT! (as I have said many times before).
~GL with that~
From,
Here To Help
a.k.a. ~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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I have a boyfriend that i've been going out with for almost 3 months now, and he is slowly making him way to making me feel comfortable with him "sexualy". I love my boyfriend, and i would hate to lose him, and I want to but I was taught to wait until you have sex. What should I do? (link)
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Tell him you're not ready...You love him and he won't leave you for saying "No"...and if he does, that just makes him a jerk who only wanted one thing...sex. (not that he will leave you).
He'll understand if you really love him
~GL~
And just tell him the truth...
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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I think my big toe is interesting. I know that's weird, but I can't help staring at it. What should I do?! (link)
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Take a bubble bath and put it under the bubbles...that way you can CLEAN it and HIDE it all at the same time! YAY...you will never have to look at it again!...Until you take it out. da Da DA! *eerie music*
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I have ran away and im typing this on a computer in a cafe in Oregon. (im from california) Im pretty fucked up right now, im 13, and ive been gone for 2 weeks. What the hell should i do? I was mad at the time i ran away and if i go back im fucked. I'm trying to reach canada... what should i do... should i go back or keep moving? (link)
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GO BACK!
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Anyone care to explain why so many dumb***es insist on having sex before they turn 18!!!!!!!!! It's bad enough they don't wait until after marriage, that I can live with easily, but COME ON PEOPLE, it's illegal. SOMEONE TELL ME WHY!! (link)
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They're just...stuuuuupid (derrrrrr)
No really though, they're PROBABLY just curious or they DON'T KNOW HOW TO FRICKEN SAY NO!(Assuming after they will be part of the "IN-CROWD" afterwards)
Well DON'T ASSUME PEOPLE! Because when you ASSUME...you're just making an @$$ out of you and me...how do ya like them apples?
Oh...and THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS IN "IN-CROWD". There's such a thing as being IN A CROWD but not an "IN-CROWD".
Hmmmm....definition for "In-Crowd".
A clique of "so called friends" working together to make PEOPLE'S LIVES MISERABLE until those people do something with MAJOR CONSUQUENCES; Initiation?..I think so. An "in-crowd" is a group of insecure people who feel inferior and intimidated by THE PEOPLE WITH GOOD, PURE HEARTS.
(I MADE THE DEFINITION...you like?)
HOw's that for ya person who asked the question (hehe).
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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hi really like this kid and i think he likes me but whenever i ask him out he says he likes me kinda as a grlfriend and he wont tell me yes or no (link)
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He's just not ready yet. Don't worry, it's probably nothing to do with you. Some people are unsure about some things when it comes to relationships. Let him settle down for a little and then eventually ask him again in a note. Maybe he feels pressured between having a girlfriend and school. Boys are very confusing creatures..*chuckles*
If he doesn't end up confronting you about the situation, then maybe he's just not ready yet. (you could ask him again if you feel comfortable but you don't want to pressure him in it too much or put him on the spot).
But then again, he MAY end up confronting you about it, and if and when he does...you will be ready.
Just don't sweat it.
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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Hi my friend katie is a little over weight... but the thing is i dont think she realizes it and its not a big deal that she has a few extra pounds but its the clothes she wears. She wears really tiny mini skirts and tight shirts that do not flatter her at all. Everyone makes fun of her behind her back for it and she doesn't realize it how can i confront her about this without hurting her feelings, she is a really sensitive girl and she cares about what she looks like more than anything.. very superficial so i don't want to hurt her feelings, I think that it would hurt her ore if she heard what people said about her.. please help (link)
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Type up an ANONYMOUS note and put it in her locker...there's a good way. Tell her nicely how you feel, but don't let her know who you are...and don't let anybody see you put the note in her locker. If she confronts YOU about it, say "what note?"
When you put the note in her locker don't act any different towards her, because then she'll suspect something. Just act as you normally would towards her and pretend like nothing is wrong. Trust me, I don't think it will hurt your friendship, (especially if she doesn't know who it is) and if it does hurt your friendship...she wouldn't be worth it because you were just trying to help her.
If for any reason she finds out it was you and is mad about it, and then she won't talk to you anymore...then just put another note in her locker saying "I only did this to help because people were laughing about your mini skirts...and I felt badly for you". (Something like that).
Also, when you are both at a store together, and she is about to pick out a revealing article of clothing, then push her towards something that's a lot more appropriate and something that's "less-slutty".
If she asks how you like a mini skirt...just say "It's not my style, I think it's pretty ugly actually". That may SOUND harsh, buit really it isn't. You're just speaking your mind. And even if it SOUNDS harsh, then just think about how it's going to help her in the long-run, because she may not be made fun of anymore.
Hope this helped!
~GL~
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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