Here-To-Help answered Thursday March 18 2004, 8:23 pm: He's just not ready yet. Don't worry, it's probably nothing to do with you. Some people are unsure about some things when it comes to relationships. Let him settle down for a little and then eventually ask him again in a note. Maybe he feels pressured between having a girlfriend and school. Boys are very confusing creatures..*chuckles*
If he doesn't end up confronting you about the situation, then maybe he's just not ready yet. (you could ask him again if you feel comfortable but you don't want to pressure him in it too much or put him on the spot).
But then again, he MAY end up confronting you about it, and if and when he does...you will be ready.
Just don't sweat it.
foxshadow answered Thursday March 18 2004, 7:49 pm: Forget him. Sorry to sound so harsh, but if you've asked him repeatedly, and he STILL hasn't told you a direct answer, than it's his loss. Maybe he didn't know what to say, or was afraid of hurting your feelings. Just move on. Continue being friends with him if you want, and maybe he'll begin to see what a mistake it was to hesitate. [ foxshadow's advice column | Ask foxshadow A Question ]
LeVeLxNikki answered Thursday March 18 2004, 6:33 pm: I think he's afraid to say yes or no. Maybe he's torn, or likes another girl more and is afraid he'll never get another chance with her. Or maybe he likes you, but he doesn't want to be your boyfriend. Or he doesn't like you at all but doesnt want to hurt your feelings. Man I could list possibilities forever.. More details would help.. [ LeVeLxNikki's advice column | Ask LeVeLxNikki A Question ]
dianerolle answered Thursday March 18 2004, 12:59 pm: he likes you he's just frontin which means he likes you he just doesnt want you to know he does. just ignore him for 3 or 4 days you'll see he will come crawlin to you like a puppy this is diane answering your problems [ dianerolle's advice column | Ask dianerolle A Question ]
sp4rklingr4in answered Wednesday March 17 2004, 10:10 pm: No offense to your friend but I think that he is either slow or he is either too shy to answer your question. This may just be an action to hint that he likes you too but would like to continue being just friends until the time is just right. Some guys are just like that. Wait until he asks you out; guys are supposed to do that anyways.
bunnygurl answered Wednesday March 17 2004, 4:20 pm: well having been in this situation, i'm telling you he probily just dose not want to hurt youer fellings by telling you he dose not like you. he sounds like he might make a good ferend thow. ^u^ [ bunnygurl's advice column | Ask bunnygurl A Question ]
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