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lately my friend and i keep on getting in stupid fights
lately my friend and i have been getting in really stupid fights. i mean she expects me not to be affected at all when she calls me a moron and a bullshitter. she thinks everything revoles around her. like should i be her friend? personaly i am pissed at her. she called me a bullshitter and a moron when we werent even in a fight! and then she sayd no affence! but like why wouldnt i be affended by that?! i have really defensive friends and they look out for me in all, but i told one or two of my friends about this problem and i just realized that i dont want them to get into this. and she also said fuck u to me. i hadalready told her i do not like it when she calls me those things, and yet she still does it.
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Unless she's joking, I'd just leave it be. I wouldn't hang around with her much. Say you have other plans when she calls and if she calls you a name on the telephone just simply say "bye" and hang up. Don't be rude to her unless there's a BIG reason to be. It may be tempting, but it's not worth it, because you would just be an even bigger target for her to be rude to if you try to be just as rude to her. If she's mean to you or calls you names just walk away...it's the best way. (and it gets them more irritated). hehe.
No but if you don't like the way she treats you, don't be afraid to drop her as a friend. Don't be rude about it, just tell her how you feel or avoid her. People are strange creatures...you just have to know how to handle them.
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hi, if u and ur friend get into alot of fights avoid her tell her to stay out of ur life when that doesn't work tell some1 older and they will help ur other friends shouldn't be involved ur right there u have to learn or know that u hsouldn't be friends with some1 like that so go be friends with some other kids that don't say fuck u
thanx 4 writing hope i helped
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Personally I don't think its worth the friendship. If you have already told her to stop and she hasn't then something is obviously not getting through her head. I would lay off the friendship for awhile and see what happens. It doesn't sound like its that uch of a loss because it sound like you have a lot of good friends already.
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i gots the same probluem i went n told the skool consuler i told my friends that they just need to grow up...get a life n let me live mine...u dont got to put up with that n u no it...let her or him no it also. there is nothing in this world that should have to put u down for no reason... if she or he has to put u down to make her feel better then she's not really ur friend after all huh?
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I hav those moments and times where I know total snobbz that are so snobby and think everything revolves around them. Ignore her and see how she likes it. Dont b her slave going after her doing her orders. Don't let her boss you, you boss her if anything...
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Tell your friend how you feel. You shouldn't have to keep on going through her problems. Think of it this way. She may be having a problem of her own and may be taking it out on you, but that isn't a fact cuz I don't know your friend. Are you absolutly sure that you didn't do anything to upset her? Maybe, MAYBE you might have done something to upset her but you never realized this. Well it almost depends on how long this has been going on. Has she been calling you things for like maybe over a month? If she has maybe it's a problem at home or with boys or something. Just think of all of the possible answers and cures of how maybe you guys can be friends again.
Hope I helped
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Hey I think that your friend may have problems of her own and she dosen't want to deal with them so to avoid her problems she picks on you. Maybe you should talk to her and ask her if something maybe wrong with her, like ask her if she wants to talk about something. But if you try that and it don't work than you should just put your foot down and tell her that if she can't treat you the way you would like to be treated than maybe you guys dont need to be friends andmore and see what she says to you about it. If she wants to keep being your friend then she will respect you and your feelings.
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If rational talking doesn't solve this, then maybe you should tell her you don't want to be her mate any more. You shouldn't have to put up with this kind of behaviour from anyone, let alone a mate!
Good luck
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