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need help all my "friends" hate me!
plz plz plz some one help me i am 13 n dont no what to do all my friendz are comein up to me callin me things such as "lezbo ur gay ur ugly" u no all that n beond i try to not say ne thing cuz i no that whatever i say or do will be held a aginst me n im just not that stupid. i tell them that they need to grow up n just to get a life n let me live mine.they treatned to beat me up many times so i told my mom who called them up n said " if u ever threated my daughter a agin i will call the cops" my mom went to the skool consler n the princible n told them to do somethin about this or she will take me out of skool 4 the rest of the yr. they both called me n my friends down to the offess n talk to us 4 n hour n nothing has change. they all still hate me n i dont no what to do ...they just wont grow up n leave me alon. !!!!!!!!!HELP!!!!!!!!!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
For one thing if they make fun of you they are not real friends.so look for some positive people to be around.some that actually like you and don't call you names.Good luck,you will find some real friends soon.
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I think you should try and talk to them if it dont work have a buddy system goin on if you walk ask a person to walk with you if your on a bus ask to move seats so you can be by the bus driver if its after school then ask your mother to buy walkie talkies so you can keep in touch if she be there every sec.
always,goodlistener
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i know what you are going thru .first of all those are not friends.Last year all my bestfriends and i stoped talking and they did the same thing to me.Now almost a ear later i talk to them and they told me that they were acting childish but i made it all up in my head.Is like i always feel that people hate me but they don't.But just confront it that is the best thing to do.Cause oyu can't alwaays run away from your problems.
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1) If your friends are calling you names, they are NOT your friends. Get some new friends - join some school clubs, strike up a conversation in class, find some common ground with some new people.
2) These people sound very immature. Kids can be cruel, it's an inspoken rule of life, but don't let them get you down. Hold your head up high, ignore them. They're the ones who need to get a life, not you.
3) If ANYTHING physical happens, if they beat you up, you MUST tell someone. A teacher, your mum. Bullying is not acceptable in any shape or form, and this really has to stop. I know it's hard at this age, but trust me, it'll pass. I was bullied constantly in school for anything that the group of "popular" girls could pick on me for - being "fat", being "ugly", being "gay", and now i'm the one with the qualifications and they're working at mcdonalds with no future. Try not to let them get to you -- get some new friends, someone you can trust and confide in.
I hope your school atomsphere gets better soon, and it doesn't come to taking you out of that school. Good luck
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It's okay...I know this isn't ALWAYS the best solution, but if you're not happy at your school that your at now, then I would transfer if it's not too late. If it IS too late then go to a different school next year to start fresh.
This is my SECOND year at a different school because 6th grade and lower I HATED my schools in my hometown. Now I go to an art school in a different town and everybody is sooooo much nicer and more diverse. There's always going to be people who judge you, but at my new school there are hardly ANY...I really like all the people there and I don't want to leave that school. This is my last year and then high school. *sigh*
So basically what I'm saying that if you start fresh it may all work out for the best as long as you're a nice person and respect people for who they are.
Also, don't tell them secrets about you if you don't want them to make fun of you if it's something that YOU KNOW they will make fun of you for. Do you get what I mean? I DON'T know what happened at your old school, but I know kids can be cruel...so don't tell them a secret or decision of yours that YOU KNOW they WON'T RESPECT.
I don't know if they called you a lezbo because you are a lesbian...so what I'm saying is YOU KNOW people at that age are going to take that the wrong way if they find out you like somebody whose the same sex as you. So if you ARE lesbian, and they are calling you that because you told them, next time don't tell people until you're older...because until some STUPID PEOPLE can grow up (like the people at your school) then it's just not worth telling them unless you're ready to endure all that pain of being made fun of.
Now, I'm not saying ALL people will make fun of you for your decisions...but it's likely that A LOT of them will, especially when they're in middle school.
Hope this helped.
~GL~
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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ask them why they don't like and if they don't have a answer then forget them. if they tell you then try to talk to them about it
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