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Is It Wrong
Is it wrong to make plans with one of your best friends and after all the trouble they went thur to ask there parents,they go and make plans with someone else. After you have been planing this since like Sunday. Or is it a signal that they dont wanna be your friend anymore? help
-Me
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no its not that they dont want to be friends any more just sit her or him down and tell them that they made plans with you and that its not right to make other plans with some one eles trust me this happend to me
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It kinda depends on who and why she cancelled with u. If she cancelled to go out with a different friend then oh yeah . . . THAT'S MESSED! If she went with someone like a family member then thats exceptional. Ask them why they cancelled on u or how come she didn't want to be with u. It probably doesnt mean that she doesnt wanna b your friend n e more. Just talk to her.
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dont be mad sometimes things come up and get in the way and make plans next time if they break them again you better look at your friendship
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It doesn't necessarily mean they don't want to be friends with you anymore, it just means they they are insensitive and unreliable. Talk to your friend, and tell them how you feel. PLus, think about your friend. Have they done this a lot? If you feel that you are not being treated with respect from this friend, then maybe you should consider looking for a new one.
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yes it's wrong very wrong. she should have never asked you or your mom. i will give you more advice but how close of a riend is she to you. maybe she's useing you but that's not a true friend. try talking to her and write me back.
always lil attitude
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Talk to your friend about it. I cannot give you good advice unless you give more details. That always happens...it doesn't mean she doesn't want to be your friend anymore. Maybe she was tired of waiting (although if she was she should've said so instead/before going out) But then again I don't now the whole details. Talk to her about it...that's happened to me a few times. It hurt. But I talked to them about it and made it out of a joke and questioned my friend about it with a smile on my face (even if I wasn't happy about it) that way it lightens the mood but you still confront her. Just kid around saying you had hurt feelings and why didn't you invite me to where you went?
Things like that...
But if she gets mad and asks if you're kidding...say no. Don't lie and say it doesn't bother you if she asks, because then the odds are that she will most likely do that again.
So just talk to her...its the best thing to do...and if she ditches you normally, then she's not a very good friend...and I've lost a friend like that before because she wasn't too good of a friend when it came to wanting to hang out with me with "cooler people".
~GL~
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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It doesn't mean they don't want to be your friend anymore, it just means they are undependable. I would keep this in mind when you make plans with this friend, and have a back up plan if it happens again.
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Have you talked to your friend about it? It doesn't necessarily mean that person doesn't want to be your friend anymore. Maybe your friend just forgot, or was confused about the date, or maybe signals got crossed somewhere and s/he wasn't sure your plans were happening. Or maybe the other thing was something really special that couldn't be rescheduled. (Generally, people should stick to the plans they make, but sometimes unusual circumstances come up. As long as they're considerate about it, you should cut them a little slack.) If they just ditch you, though, you should explain to them that it bothers you, and see what they say.
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no it doesnt mean they're not ur friend anymore... you just have to talk to them...i didnt make plans with her okay, i just need money and all.. im sorry.. w/e
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