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my 2 best friends an me always hang out an like whenme an one are chylllin the other storms off an gets pissed off... she curses to much an she talks behind our back to one another an we are reallygettin fed up!like rite nowme dana and andria..(

Well, it hurts to be left out. If you 3 are hanging out, it isn't fair that 2 of you just go off by yourselves and leave her. If just the 2 of you want to hang out, then don't tell her about it. Try to include her more. Also, because she is doing drugs, this is when she needs you most. Try to include her as much as possible, at least until she gets over her drug problem.

are girls suppose to shave their vaginas??

No, it will get all bumpy and disgusting.

my folks keep arguing and i get upset coz i think they are gonna split up. i dont no wot i would do if they split up plz help me

If your parents split up, you could live with just your mom and only visit your dad once in a while, you could live with your dad and only visit your mom once in a while, or you could visit them equally (like monday-wednesday go to your mom's and thursday through sunday live at your dad's). It can get hectic. No matter what, you should know that even if they split up, it isn't your fault. And also, just because they argue, doesn't mean they are going to split up. It takes more than some arguements to break up a marriage. No relationship is perfect. There will always be problems, but your folks may be able to sort through them if they go to marriage counseling.

this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap?

Despite my name, I am not a huge fan of Good Charlotte anymore, but I am tired of people lumping GC and Simple Plan into the same category. I have the CD's No Pads, No Helmets, Just Balls by Simple Plan and The Young and the Hopeless by Good Charlotte. GC came first, and if you compare the 2 CD's, SP just completely copied GC. But I agree with you, some people are just a little too obsessed.

I'm in the 5th grade and going to be in 6th next year and I like someone whp is going to be in 1st uh help

Most boys in kindergarten arn't interested in girls, and it would be kind of illegal for you to go out with him, so your out of luck.

advucenators suck dick. i see all these fags in here. like this one guy said he was sucking his bro's dick is that normal it isn't. all you people are pothetic

if u got any comments press answer the question and put your comments down fuckin fags

Guess what? Look on the side bar of your browser. There's this link that says Log Out. Cleck it, and you never have to come here again! What a concept!

I've always been really bad at finding things to say to people when they're upset. I mean, I know that usually what they need is just for their friend to be there for them, but I can't just stand there while they cry...for instance, one of my friends has been having a lot of problems lately: she fights with her mother often and recently her grandfather was taken to the hospital and they think he might have cancer. She gets upset often and i never know what to say or do! I feel horrible...i need some advice on what to say when she's going through hard times or crying on the phone or whatever because I always feel that I'll sound stupid and not good enough of a friend. when someone has cancer you can;'t tell the person 'oh, it'll be okay' because it won't! so please, if you have any advice i'd be glad to hear it

Just give them a big hug and say "Whatever happens, I'm here for you." Believe me, a small gesture like that means a lot. You don't have to come up with anything fancy to say to make them feel better.

ok ive never used a tampon before i dont know how :S can someone just please tell me where to put it in?? (ive looked at the instructions yes but im still a little confused) how long to wear it for??? is it dangerous?? please help

There are only 2 holes. You put the tampon in the hole you pee out off. It's not dangerous. You should change it every 2 hours. NEVER leave it in more than 8 hours though, or you could get a disease called toxic shock syndrome. Wear pads to bed.

Okay when u "mow your lawn" how many times a week should you do it..and wats the best way to do is as often as possible and not get like razor burn!..

You really shouldn't do it. One time I just shaved around the sides and I got bad razor burn, it really hurt and itched. The skin around there is sensitive, so it gets a rash easily. If you want to remove exess hair (like what shows when you wear a bathing suit) then use wax.

im lookin 4 a good pair of shoes u can skateboard wit but are still cute got any ideas

I'm assuming your a girl. Gallaz are cute boarding shoes. Also try Etnies.

i am going out with this lad, but i am in love with his best mate. what shalli do?

Break up with him. It's not fair to your boyfriend to be going out with you when you love someone else. Wait a while, and then if his friend seems interested, go out with him.

hi guys, this is a question to all the people who have lost a BFF. well this girl in my class is my bff. and she is going to a hole neew school and i really am going to miss her. WHAT SHOULD I DO.
singed POORSADTHANG:-..(

It depends on where she is moving to. If she is moving to a new state, then you may not be able to see her as often. It's important to call any time you can to keep the friendship. Try to arrange to meet on your birthdays. If she is moving only an hour or 2 away, then you don't have much to worry about. You won't see her monday through friday, but the weekends are the best time to hang out. Go to movies, parties, whatever. Plus, you get the oppurtuntity to make some new friends from her school. One of my best friends had a close friend who moved away, and she now has double the friends she used to have, and a boyfriend, from her friend's new school, and her and her friend see each other almost every weekend.

ok, im gay and i love my best friend, i wanna do things with her...what should i do? i think she's the love of my life! i wanna have sex with her cause shes so hott and OMG i gotta tell her!

DIKEY

If your friend is gay too, then tell her how you feel. If she isn't gay, then there really isn't anything you can do to change her mind.

well i have this boyfriend in real life!!right..but i meet this dude on the internet..and he wanted to go out with me!!and i said yes..my boyfriend in real life said he didnt care if i had an internet boyfriend..the internet boyfriend said were never going to meet anyway so y do i care if you have a real boyfriend..but my friend said it was dangerous to have a internet boyfriend becasue you never now if hes lieing to you about his age..or he couild be a police officer..and then i wouild get in trouble..well i really trust my internet boyfriend..but my friend told me to watch out on the internet..and she told me to never do or say anyhting bad because alot of cops go in to chatrooms!!well i dont no what to do!!do what my friends telling me to do or dont belive her and do what i want to do ...if you have other comments plz tell me.. need help!!oo..i am a girl and i am 12 years old..yes hard to belive haveing this problem at 12 but its true...
-ANOUMYS!!!PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!QUICK I REALLY NEED ADVICE!!

Internet boyfriends can be dangerous. And you already have a real life boyfriend, so it's not like you would be losing anything. You say you trust your internet boyfriend...how can you trust someone you have never met? Block the internet boyfriend off your buddy list, and don't talk to him again.

Ok, for all the people who answered the question about the guy writing his number in my year book, when I call him what should I say?

Wait a few weeks after school gets out. When you call, ask him how his summer has been so far and what he plans on doing. Talk about movies, music...stuff you would normally talk about. Be funny.

My best guy friend of 3 years asked me something really weird last week and I just can't stop forgetting it. We were hanging out w/ his friend, and we somehow started talking about the fact that a guy in my math class was looking down my shirt. Then my guy friend told me to bend over, jokingly. I was like "only if you pay me" sarcastically. Then he was like "I'll give you $6 if you give me a lapdance!!!!" And then his friend offered to give me $10 for one. I refused, of course, cuz that's just gross. I still can't get over that, though. I feel really disrespected. What should I do about it?

They were deffinatley only joking with you. You (jokingly) offered to give a lapdance, so they (jokingly) offered money. Me and my guy friends joke around like that all the time, and it doesn't mean anything. It just means that your friend feels like he knows you well enough to joke around like that.

I liked this one guy for a little over a year. I was at a dance on Friday & was having fun, but then a slow song came on & he went & danced with this girl that I really dislike. As he was dancing w/ her, he kept smiling at me and staring at me. After that, I was dancing w/ a few of my friends, and he kept moving around so that he could see me. Then he went off during another slow song and danced with a total slut. He stared at me during that one, too. I'm really confused. What does it all mean?

It means that he really likes you, but he is playing hard to get. He danced with the other girls because he didn't want to seem desperate or needy, or like he was clinging to you all night. He might have also felt like you didn't like him for some reason. Call him.

I'm really flatchested & I hate it. Is there anything I can wear that'll make my boobs look bigger, besides a pushup bra?

Sometimes, just wearing an underwire bra can make your chest look bigger, even if you don't need an underwire. Padded bras work too. Don't wear sports bras, because they will just make you look more flat chested.

When i was 7 my brother and i sucked each other's dicks and felt each other in the ass and we both liked it. we did this like every night and one time we were caught. we still do it anyway. now im 14 and so is he (were twins). is this normal?

Well, if it wern't your brother, than it would be normal, it would just mean you were homosexual, and their nothing wrong with that. But because it's your brother, that's not a good thing.

I have liked this guy for over 3 years , since i was only 11 . Is this normal ...?
okay , i used to be real tongue tied around him , coming from an all girls elementary school and all , and i haven't started speaking to him since this year . We talk mostly on MSN , because i am still shy in front of him . He even commented on how different i acted on MSN , compared to how i act with him . the thing is , how i act on MSN , is how i would act in front of him , if only i wasn't so shy . I have barely exchanged more than about 30 sentences with him !! What can i do ?

First of all, it is normal to like a guy for more than 3 years. It shows you are mature enough to stick to one guy for long enough to have a relationship. Tell him that you like hanging out with him, but sometimes you just don't know what to say, but on MSN it's easier to talk to him. Move up step by step. Call him on the phone. Talking on the phone is harder than talking on MSN, but easier than talking in person.

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