When a girl fingeres herself does it hurt? How does it feel?
Yes. It hurts tremendously. The worst pain on Earth. It is as if someone impales you with a spiked club that is rusty (oh the humanity)
Give me a break....either you are not old enough to understand what you are asking, or you are asking this asinine question to read our responses hoping for sexual content. I am on to you...
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if i ask a question on here like just a random one like this can you see who its from?
Nope. So now you can ask your embarassing question about sex, bodily functions, or penguins. Personally I hope it involves all three. I would answer that in a heart beat!
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Ok, my gramma has cancer and shes dying. We dont think she will make it until Christmas. I have a big family, and we are all very close, so it's a sad thing. But for some reason, i just dont feel sad. I feel guilty, it feels like i dont care. I know i do care, but i dont feel sad. It seems like everyone else is sad except me. Am i like a bad person? Is this normal? Please help!
There will be a time for you to grieve. Right now just isn't the time. I say enjoy what time you have left with her. She may enjoy having someone who is not sad around. Don't feel guilty.
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13/f
ive lived with my grandparents for 13 years and just a few months ago i moved in with my mom and her boyfriend. i REALLY miss living with my grandparents and i feel like my moms trying to take me away from them. sometimes ill ask my mom if i can stay the night with my grandparents and she says no. we fight and argue every single night and im so sick and tired of it. i cry myself to sleep everynight because of her and her boyfriend. her b/f is so rude to me too. i try to talk to her about this but every time i try we get in another argument. i talk to my grandparents about it and they undersatnd but they dont know what to do. i just cant stand living with my mom and her boyfriend. if anyone can tell me what i can do besides talk to my mom please help me.
She is your mom. What she may be trying to do now is be your mom. Just with one small problem,
you are used to your grandparents. I do not know anything else about your situation, so I am just assuming by your age and how long you have lived with your grandparents, that your mom was not a large influence on your life until now. If that is the case, it is probably a very large case of culture shock. All of a sudden you are thrust into a new house with a new mom and new rules.
At the same time, she (assuming she has no other children) just got a brand new 13/f housemate. Someone she is now responsible for and at an age where clashes come out the most. Her and your grandparents probably do not have the same parenting style. Clashes happen when new rules are trying to be enforced and there is no real mother/daughter bond.
The boyfriend thing does bother me. As your mother she needs to have boundries for her boyfriend when it comes to you. His rudness toward you should not be tolerated by her PERIOD.
Try talking to her when he is not around. Calmly if you can explain to her that his actions upset you since you are brand new there and probably have done nothing to insight such nastiness. Then tell her that you do miss your grandparents. You lived with them for 13 years. They were your main support and what you knew growing up and to not be able to see them will be very hard on you emotionally. Ask her how she would feel if the she wasn't able to see the people who loved her and raised her for 13 years.
Appeal to her reason. The more you can talk to her as a calm adult with valid points, the harder it will be for her to dismiss you. Also try to let her know that seeing your grandparents is not a threat to her. You have to be open to finding a common ground to make living with her a good situation for the both of you. If you need anything else....you know where to find me.
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what if your boyfriend does not know your kissing his best friend and me and his friend act wierd around him
Then it is of my opinion that you are unworthy of your boyfriend and he deserves to know.
[**Edit** You are welcome...what did you expect? Did you expect me to say something to the effect of....Oh it's ok, keep doing this horrible thing. It is perfectly acceptable to be a shamless jerk. Nope, not here....I take your 1 with pride (because obviously your choices aren't that great to begin with)]
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my best friend is acting werid! she got mad at me because i told her i wanted my straightner back and she got all mad and didnt talk to me for the rest of the day and took me out of her profile.. what should i do?
Take her out of your profile and then charge her a late fee for each day she doesn't give it back.
Tell her that your hair is demanding reparations (hopefully you are familiar with George from Seinfeld)
I'm kidding. Maybe she just had a bad day or you pushed a button. Sometimes it isn't what you say, but how you say it. If she is your best friend then you should be able to have a calm conversation about what happened.
Ask her if something is bothering her and that you have no beef, you just wanted it back. I doubt that her reaction had only to do with that simple question. There is probably something else going on. You won't know unless you talk to her.
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ok i have a wierd question i dont no why im do enterested in rape im 13 f and i like to look at pics and read storeies of it.. is it like normal
It might be one of those things that scares you and intrigues you at the same time. Now, I know this may be silly but I feel that way about mullets (they are so wrong, yet so great... but this isn't about me...) It is kind of like a train wreck, you don't want to look at it, but you find yourself looking for blood and guts despite yourself. As long as it doesn't become harmful in anyway, it just has your attention at the moment.
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So it's come to the point where I'm tired of shaving my legs every 2 or 3 days. I know that waxing in high on the pain scale but I was wondering if there were any good at home waxing kits. Or hair removal. I've never tried Nair before and I'm not excatly sure how well the resualts are.
Also.. read no further if you have problems about your kitty being hairless.
I want to know if there are any waxing kits or hair removal that will also work good in that area without really irratating the skin or anything.
Thanks all, I'll rate 5's.
I have used Nad's didn't like it so much, It was messy and ick... There are plenty of kits at Walgreens. I prefer the ones that you heat up between your hands and then peel apart.(once you are done you can throw them away no mess. Plus you can cut the wax paper before hand so you can change the size of the strip) I do not remember the name of the brand, but, it came with a numbing spray. It still hurt. That doesn't bother me because pain is the only way you know for sure that you are ripping that hair out of your leg and or cooter.
Now, the bikini part...well if you want your puss prepubecent it is gonna hurt. Just think of the worst curse word you can use. I will give you a hint... it starts with moth and ends in er.
That skin is very sensitive and has blood vessels close to the surface. Prepare for some mild brusing and purple spots. They go away, and as you do it more often, they no longer appear. Oh it hurts...horribly. But not shaving constantly...it's worth it to some people
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What does it mean when a guy winks at you?
It can mean several things....
1. Hello
2. Hey
3. Friendliness
4. I find you attractive
5. It's cool
6. Don't worry
Mostly it is open to interpretation. He may have had a twitch or muscle spasm. Then he probably winks at everyone. Depends on the situation.
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Im thinking about being a belly dancer or maybe a bunny for halloween. Does any one know any websites that show pictures of belly dancer outfits???
PLEASE HELP
ASAP
MUCH LOVEEEE!!
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I have actually just started belly dancing classes! It is really fun and a hard work out. try www.visonarydance.com/ Go down to the visionary belly dancing ideas and images. There are many pictures of belly dancers and poses.
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I get these little bumps on my face,you cant see them that much but i can feel it..there tiny and come in clusters.What might these be? And also,will these/how can i make these go away?
Are they white or flesh colored and around your eye region? If they are they might be called milli. My brother and I both had them when we were younger. A dermatologist can tell you for sure. They can remove them, but they come back. I still get them sometimes. They are harmless (if that is what they are)
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I saw you column and I clicked on your website. Your journals are rather....well I won't say. I doubt your head is filled with circus peanuts and cheetos. I think it is more filled with wierdness. One thing tho...that lyric you posted, I kinda liked it. What is the rest of it? Who is it by? I'm sort of afraid to ask you this question because your journals make you sound like a freak. Sorry. just being honest.
Well I have to say that your quick and superficial judgement of me was rather brutal. I doubt that you have not had a strange thought or any kind of insecurities at some point in your life. I put my thoughts out there (and open for brutal comments such as yours) because it is something I have always been uncomfortable doing. You have demonstrated why this has made me so uncomfortable in the past. I challenge you to put your honest thoughts up for interpretation by anyone and everyone. It is not as easy as it looks.....
Now the song is Suspended. It is by an artist named Matt Nathanson. The CD is called There is a world beneath these fireworks... and the rest of the lyric are...
when you lead me
and fit around my tounge
it's so easy, to forget that i'm lost
spent all of my life
waiting for answers
to lift me, to numb me, to define it all
sunshine, i'm beginning to like this
cause all i want to be is the minute that you hold me in
when you pretend that i'm all that you waited for
time slips to nothing and i'm better than i've ever been
i'm suspended
with your breathing, filling up my lungs
i can almost believe that i'm almost enough
spent all of my life emptied of anthems
and bracing for something that never did come
sunshine, i'm beginning to like this
sunshine, i'm beginning to like it
cause all i want to be is the minute that you hold me in
when you pretend that i'm all that you waited for
time slips to nothing and i'm better than i've ever been
i'm suspended
it's not enough to stay surrounded
it's not enough to stay awake, torn, braced, cornered
and not feel alive
sunshine, i'm beginning to like this
sunshine, i'm beginning to like it
cause all i want to be is the minute that you hold me in
when you pretend that i'm all that you waited for
time slips to nothing and i'm better than i've ever been
i'm suspended
i'm suspended
i'm suspended
By the way I think you're an asshole. But that is just because you were very brutal.
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SORRY IT'S LONG BUT PLESE HELP
Ok where do I start?Let me first explain that as a girl I'm not pretty but I'm not ugly either,I don't get attention from boys especially not popular ones I only get attention from older men and other people that I would so not like to date
But recentley a quite popular boy has seriously been onto me and he tells all my friends and everyone else how much he likes me and how he thinks I like him.He is like really popular and can have any girls in schoool he wants so why me?the thing is I don't actually like him. I mean I want a bf and all cause I've never had one but I'm not that desperate,he's like really sweet and all and my sister and most of my friends like him and think we suit eachother but I just don't see it.I have been trying to come up with plans that can get rid of him but none of them ever suceed and last week I over heard him telling his friend that he was going to ask me out and when he does I don't actually want to say yes but I need a good reason to say no don't I? just incase he asks why I don't want to go all in explaining how I don't feel that way about him so my only option is to say that I already have a bf but I don't like lying so can someone like tell me how to get one and QUICK PLEASE
If you think that "I am not interested is not good enough of a reason then try these lines....
Eh, your just not all enough.
I am a staunch non-conformist and therefore I cannot date you because people like you.
I have a mild form of epilepsy and you bring on attacks because you make me too excited. Therefore I cannot date you.
I have Tourette's Syndrome. So if your f$#@%# A@#% isn't F#%^%ing embarrassed by the sh#%& I say, then GODFU$*@% you piece of%#@* Your mom is a c#@& that *&%#@ when she &$%@#. It happens every OTHER sentence.
You have to be this tall (and raise your hand up as far as you can) to ride this ride.
I only date guys with cars (if he is 16 then you only date guys that can vote.)
If those don't suit your fancy, then be honest. Say you just are not ready to date right now.
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ok i jus went to the bathroom and i whiped and there was very little blood and like 4 days before it was very itchy down here so could that be just a cut and i have like 2 pimples on my face hat showed up about 2 days ago and some people say you break out before you start your period so i was wondering if i am starting plz help i rate 5s
I just would like to say that I do not think you have hemorroids. Apparently others think you might. I would bet that its your period and you DON'T have hemorroids. Although, I think that it is kinda funny someone would suggest that (as Bugs Bunny would say "Whatta maroon!")
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ok i sound like a complete fool but its true i have a crush on my teacher this is sick and i need it to stop. Its like everytime i have a lession with him i sit and glare at him its so not correct and i don't know what to do. I know that like other students like him aswell cus he is like hott but hes always picking on me all the time in class and ive seen him look at me but maybe its just to see if i understand and he always lets me off when i don't do the homework and he shouts at everyone else. I don't know what to do hes sooo much older than me. someone help thank you in advance.
Do not feel bad! You are not a freak! I repeat you are not a freak! Let me tell you something.... where I work, there is an incredibly handsome man that just makes me giggle. I stare at him and he just fascinates me. I smile for a while afterwards and he just makes working there a little better. Now, this is a crush and I know it. The thing about it is...ok....ready? I am 25, he is 59! However, he does not look a day older than 40. But, still... Enjoy it. It makes the day a little brighter. You should not do anything about it because he is your teacher and....well....NO! And because I said so. Chicken_flavored_eggs is good, Chicken_flavored_eggs is wise. I shall not ever dare either because he is married and techincally my boss. Crushes on older guys will never stop. It's harmless.
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ok well, i'm only 13 right, and i've been thinkin about sex,...alot, i'm still a virgin and everything but it's like a random thought that clouds my mind! it's so weird, and i dont even know what this means or anything,....
It means welcome to your thought process for the rest of your life. You will spend more time thinking about sex than you would care to admit. TRUST ME.
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What would you do if you hated life but then all of a sudden your "friends" decided to hate you. ALL OF THEM?
Find others who also hate life as much as you do. Then when you hang out you can have heaping spoonfuls of fun. Or you could smile. It is actually easier to smile than it is to frown.
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i like this guy wat should i do??
Well since he is "hawtt" maybe you should "ax im ouwt." Sorry, my typing has a mind of its own. I meant to say ask him out.
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At school I hear people gossiping about who likes who, who's dating who, ect. I dont know anything about people. how can I find out about this stuff beforehand so I can talk about this stuff?
Ahh gossip. The most harmful thing next to running with scissors. My question is why would you want to be involved? Gossip is a fickle lover. One thing it is known for is coming back to bite you in the....mouth. My advice to you is to stay out of it. When you gossip it makes it just that much easier to come back around your way. Then it won't be so fun. Just sit back and listen. If you don't open your mouth you can't be punished for what you say. And high school kids tend to punish ruthlessly.
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ok so theres this dude in my school lets call him phf wel phf and i hooked up a million times and he was like a jerk like hook up as just fool around and tell no one well he kept blockin me for odd reasons and this time he had blocked me and then we hooked up and he didnt unblock me and i sent him an email and he was like ur dumb why would i say something that neva happened or something coz for some reason the whole highschool knew bout it and i was like fine blablabla and i got a boyfriend and i havent talked to him in like ages but i wasnt quite sure if i over phf and today he asked if i wanted to hook up and i was like where are you? and then i was like who do you think you are? and he was like im so sorry okay first of all i blocked you coz i thought you were gonna freak out afta we hooked up and i was like no and then there was this thing going around that he asked 3 girls for head the same day we hooked up and well its actually that a girl offered him head and shit and i was like i cant do it sorry and we walked away and like now im textin him and i dno i dont think im quite over him and i have a boyfriend !!!!!and my boyfriend is sorta wierd but i still i dont kno but i think i still like my boyfriend !!!!!!!what can i do? i havent ever gotten over Phf and its been now like 8 months of hooking up and me gettin hurt and its been a month that we didnt even talk and i was doing great but then at the football game i saw him and he was lookin straight at me and i was like dude and i got feelings for him again !!!so lets say that 1 of those 8 months is the only time i didnt hook up with him and now the one month is increasing but im scared ill want to again! well help me please i will rate high! just help me with anything! any smart things! theres soo much in there youve got the choice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow...I need to catch my breath here, it was a work out reading that. I mean I can't believe I actually read the whole thing! It was hard at first, but I kept trying because the more I kept reading, the more I realized that this may have been the hardest paragraph ever. Well I did read it and I understood it. So here is what I think....ready?
This guy pfh is a douche. He gets what he wants from you and that is it. It sounds like you are not the only girl who he is getting it from. You have a boyfriend, although he may be wierd, you still have some kind of tie to him.
Do you know what will happen if you go back to phf? More of the same. Nothing else. You may still like him, but you are going to waste your time still being hurt. Move on, maybe dump the wierdo (but not just because hes wierd. I happen to like the wierd ones.) Find a guy you like and who likes you and fool around with him. You will be happier.
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