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this dude
ok so theres this dude in my school lets call him phf wel phf and i hooked up a million times and he was like a jerk like hook up as just fool around and tell no one well he kept blockin me for odd reasons and this time he had blocked me and then we hooked up and he didnt unblock me and i sent him an email and he was like ur dumb why would i say something that neva happened or something coz for some reason the whole highschool knew bout it and i was like fine blablabla and i got a boyfriend and i havent talked to him in like ages but i wasnt quite sure if i over phf and today he asked if i wanted to hook up and i was like where are you? and then i was like who do you think you are? and he was like im so sorry okay first of all i blocked you coz i thought you were gonna freak out afta we hooked up and i was like no and then there was this thing going around that he asked 3 girls for head the same day we hooked up and well its actually that a girl offered him head and shit and i was like i cant do it sorry and we walked away and like now im textin him and i dno i dont think im quite over him and i have a boyfriend !!!!!and my boyfriend is sorta wierd but i still i dont kno but i think i still like my boyfriend !!!!!!!what can i do? i havent ever gotten over Phf and its been now like 8 months of hooking up and me gettin hurt and its been a month that we didnt even talk and i was doing great but then at the football game i saw him and he was lookin straight at me and i was like dude and i got feelings for him again !!!so lets say that 1 of those 8 months is the only time i didnt hook up with him and now the one month is increasing but im scared ill want to again! well help me please i will rate high! just help me with anything! any smart things! theres soo much in there youve got the choice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I think that you really do have feelings for him. But if he truly liked you he wouldnt do that to you. I really think that you can do better and you dont deserve someone that is always just going to hurt you one day after another. If you hook up with him again the same thing is going to happen. The only problem you have with your current boyfriend is that he is weird. Well there is not one person that is normal everyone has something in them that is a little weird. You sound like you were happier when you werent with him so i would hold onto that happiness.
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Wow...I need to catch my breath here, it was a work out reading that. I mean I can't believe I actually read the whole thing! It was hard at first, but I kept trying because the more I kept reading, the more I realized that this may have been the hardest paragraph ever. Well I did read it and I understood it. So here is what I think....ready?
This guy pfh is a douche. He gets what he wants from you and that is it. It sounds like you are not the only girl who he is getting it from. You have a boyfriend, although he may be wierd, you still have some kind of tie to him.
Do you know what will happen if you go back to phf? More of the same. Nothing else. You may still like him, but you are going to waste your time still being hurt. Move on, maybe dump the wierdo (but not just because hes wierd. I happen to like the wierd ones.) Find a guy you like and who likes you and fool around with him. You will be happier.
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Okay. Well, I went through this exact same thing.
Literally, it's scary how similar our situations are. But anyways. I think that you should pay attention to the past and realize what it is he did to you, and may continue doing to you.
And trust me he'll keep on coming back. You've just got to be strong and tell him that you don't need this, and you don't. No one deserves to be used.
And anything he says to is lies. All of it. So don't listen to anything he says because it's probably just so that he can get some again, and it will all just continue to happen over and over again.
Sorry if this isn't too helpful, but believe me, you don't deserve that from him.
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