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Heyy. There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He's not in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallway. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. Honestly, I have no idea if he likes me or not. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥

Heyy..i seriously recommand that you talk to him and like just be yourself and get to know him even though hes shy but just like take things slowly dont like rush into you guys going out because if you rush into a relationship its not going to last that long..beacause you guys dont know eachother..but the main thing that you should do is just talk to him and get to know him and let him get comfortable around you..remember just be yourself =D..Good Luck Hun!!
[♥]Dina

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i made an account on iconator and submitted an icon about 2-3 days ago but it still wont show up as i made anything what did i do wrong?

hey..you didnt do anything wrong i sued to have an account on there it just takes about a week or two to submit..i think i forgot..but its something like that dont worry it will show up one day..
[♥]DiNA

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I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. I like him alot and want to spend time with him. He on the other hand likes to spend alot of time alone. I wouldn't see for a week or longer and I was starting to get really sad. I asked him about it and he said that while he loves me, he just needs time to himself. I told him that I needed to spend time with him and go out and stuff and he agrred to see me more often.

I want to feel connected to him, but he wants to go home everytime I start to feel happy and start to feel connected to him. He won't spend the night. I know he is NOT cheating and he only works part time. All of his friends say that he has always been like this. I am afraid that there I will get to a point where I want more than he is willing to give me. He is great to me otherwise and we have a wonderful time whenever we are together. I know we haven't been together that long, I just am not sure what to do.

Maybe hes going through a tuff time i havent seen my boyfriend in 2 months but i dont feel like were not connected because i love him alot and im pretty sure he loves me too,just try and talk to him about it and tell him that you want to spend more time with him..well good luck hope it all works out..
[♥]DiNA

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well im in love wi this girl. and she keeps talkin about all these guys she likes. what should i do.

well i think that you should let her know how you feel and tell her that you dont like it if you dont..i do that to my boyfriend but im just messing with him and he gets mad at me so i need to stop..but tell her how you feel about her..good luck,
[♥]DiNA

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two years ago i started going out with this boy he was 15 i was like 16 i didnt really like him that much we had sh together in school and he would always sit behind me and pass me these pieces of paper that said things like your hott and whats your phone number i just thought he was a funny guy. well that summer we got closer and started dating. after a month i broke up with him bc i didnt think i liked him anymore, but things didnt end alltogether we became friends w benefits. then he started dating this other girl who im now best friends with. they recently broke up and now she has a diff bf. fri the 13th he asked me over and we had sex again. its been like 13 days and i havent heard from him and we havent talking in school either. what should i do or say to him?

umm..i think that you should go up to him and talk to him about it and see whats up because i think that he was ust using you for that night and you shouldnt have done that because now your friend might get mad wehn she hears if..well good luck,hope you used protection..
[♥]DiNA

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The Winter Ball is coming up on Friday and I have an idea for my hair. It's wavy and black, and I want to straighten it and make it curve inward at the end. I think it's called a "J-curl" but I'm not sure. It looks a little like this:

http://www.royalimex.com/Product/image/medium/CO_CO_J_CURL.jpg

only not quite as curly at the end. How do you do hair like this?

use a curling iron for like the ends, but i think that it will be cuter if you like curled it and put it up in a pony tail and had little streaks hanging out,have fun =)
[♥]DiNA

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The kid I love that i went out with a few times and another boy i went out with hung out last night. The other boy is a complete a**hole and i hate him. He's an extremeeee jerk. The other boy im not with but i love, im just afraid that he'll turn into the other boy. I htink they smoke and drank last night because the other oy wanted to. I'm just afraid the kid i love is gonna change into the other boy. Why do you think I'm feeling like this and should I be this upset and worried about it? I feel like crying :/

i think that you just care about him alot and thats why your so upset, but i think that you should let the "boY" know that you LOVE him because he should know..and just talk to him and tell him how you feel about him hanging out with the other boy..and its alright if oyur upset just try and think of the good things,dont be sad.. hope it all works out
[♥]DiNA

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How do I impress the girl I like very much?
How do I ask her on a date? Please, I need help with the whole girl thing.

just act like yourself dont act like your all that and stuff just be yourself, and one day go up to her and be like hey do you want to hang out or something, or go on a date and get to know her more,hope it works out =)
[♥]DiNA

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idk if this goes here, but ive been getting discharge for about 3/4ths of a year and i havent gotten my period yet. i understand that period times are variable but everyone says that when u get discharge you should get your period soon, but yeah i just need some opinions.

your fine, if you havent started puberty than thats just it, but if it gets worse than go see a doctor because something might be wrong..good luck,
[♥]DiNA

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15/f. for some reason, i just don't feel like myself anymore. i feel like a different person. i always use to laugh like always all the time and this year i feel so serious. i really don't like the new me and i don't know how to "come back"

its okay that you dont feel like yourself because your jsut changing i get that feelings sometimes too, and people are like you changed and i dont know what to tell them but i mean you are a teenager and your going to go through alot of changes in life your not always going to be yourself one day youll completly change some for the best and some for the worse, but dont worry your not the only one going through these changes, good luck..hope you find yourself again =)
[♥]DiNA

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I have a friend (24/f) that constantly asks me for advice. At first, I was flattered that she trusted my judgement. However, now it has got to the point that she calls me for every little thing going on in her life. She seems incapable of making any decision on her own, even if it's a small decision. One day, she actually called from the store to ask what toothpaste to buy. When she calls, she expects me to drop everything and help her figure out a solution for her problem.


She also seems to trust only my advice. At one point, she called me with a medical concern. While I have worked in health care, I am not a doctor. I told her I didn't feel like I was qualified to answer her question and that she should see her doctor. She refused to see the doctor and said that only I could figure it out.


I hate to be rude to her since she's always been there for me. She was one of the few people that stood beside me when I fled an abusive relationship. Almost everyone else in my life thought I was crazy for leaving what they saw as a great guy. She offered me money and a place to stay until I got on my feet and could make it on my own again.


I've tried telling her that I'm busy and not always able to take her calls, but it seems to have no effect. I'm also worried that her inability to make a decision on her own could have an effect on her life and health. As much as I want to be there for her when she needs me, I can't sit by the phone all day and I'm not always qualified to help her. Any suggestions?

i think that you should just sit her down and talk to her about it, nd tell her that your not always capable of answering her questions and that sometimes you might be wrong..also tell her that your not always going to be there because what if something happens to you and than how will she live her own life without makin decisions on her own, but dont be rude about it just talk to her nicely..hope it works out,
[♥]DiNA

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When you get a PHYSICAL,
what do the doctors do?

What is involved when getting a PHYSICAL?
Do you have to pee in a cup?

it depends if your a girl or boy, if your a girl yes thats all you do but if your a guy no..they do more than that, its nothing serious you shouldnt worry about it..good luck
[♥]DiNA

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I'm starting to like one my best friends... and likewise. We cuddle a lot and everything, but we've never done anything more ; not even kiss. He's not affectionate at all, and we talked about this. He said it's because whenever he shows affection, he always ends up getting treated like shit, and whenever he tells people secrets, they use them against him. This leads to the problem where... it's impossible for him to be serious. He's the worlds biggest goofball. He said he's like that because it's just easier when everyone thinks you're kidding... nobody can embarrass you ; nobody can make an idiot out of you. He hates how he is... and so do I. What can I do to help?

Hey, i really think that you should tell him not to care so much about what other people say beacause people are hecka rude and they will use your secrets against you and tell him that he shouldnt tell alot of people about his secrets because you cant always trust everyone, i hope everything works out..
[♥]DiNA

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I have an algebra mid-term tomorrow. Oh and by the way, i'm only in 8th grade. I've got to study here in a little bit, but i don't really know how to go about studying. like what do i do so i can get a good grade? do you have any websites tht have practice tests? we've gone through 4 chapters. Its all with equations and crap. SO if you have any advice on studying, i'd really really appreciate it!

thanks!

all you have to do is really just like look over the problems that you have and practice some of them or have like a friend or your mom or dad make pu some problems for you and you can practice on doing them because thats like the only thing you need to do,good luck..hope you do good =)
[♥]DiNA

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what's better:
running for 15 minutes,
or walking for a half hour?

walking for half an hour because it will be easier and its like running anyways,
[♥]DiNA

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okay i want to wear eyeliner and like i look good in it and i know how to put it on my bottom eyelid but how do i put it on the top? i cant figure it out and like i put it on the little like thing that sorta suctions to your eye and since its like near my eye it comes off quick. what do i need for long lasting easy to put on oh and give me your sn so you can explain better cus im like sped and no one here is from new bedford mass? is anyone?

get waterproof eyeliner, because when your eyes water it comes off and your eyes always water so yeah..you get my point just get a waterproof eyeliner, my s.n. is lilbunihuned,
[♥]DiNA

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In a nutshell, I hate my stepdad. Well, HATE is a strong word, so let's just say I highly dislike him.
My mother met him about 5 years ago, and they got married a year later. He was nice to me and my sister during their courtship, but since he married my mom he's turned into an ass. Well he's really mean to me and my sister. Neither of us has a bf so he says to our faces that were lesbians. When I had my 25th birthday he told me in front of my mother that I must be a dyke because all of his daughters were married by my age. He always compares us to his daughters who are all married.
My sister has a weight problem and he calls her fat and a slug. He convinced my mother to kick her out of the house while she was still in college. My sister is a good person, she's quiet and studies to get good grades but he tells my mom that she deserves to be kicked out on the street. I think he wants my mom all to himself. He even told me once that he was "sick of me always coming around". I live in another town and maybe visit my mom once every two weeks, so I don't know what he's talking about. On Xmas day when I went to visit them I even heard him yelling at my mom! He was calling her a "stubborn woman" because she asked him to help cut up the turkey. Every one else can see this guys a jerk except for my mother.What can I do? I've already told my mom that she shouldnt have married him but she's in love with him and doesnt want to listen.
I'll rate 5s!

okay well he seriously is a BUTTHOLE, wtf?¿he has no right to treat you like that your not his real daugther your his step so you should just tell him that he needs to learn how to deal with you being around because shes your mom, and he cant have her all to himself, but you should also try and explain everything to your mom and tell her how he tearts you and WTF? why is he calling you guys lesbians maybe you guys arent ready for a commited relationship, well good luck and i hope it works out..
[♥]DiNA

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this has been botherign the heck out of me for a week and a half now and i finalyl decided i cant handle it anymore. last week we had a b-ball game and we won and our coach expected us to run 13 suicides because we missed 13 lay up but we still won( 34-12) on that sunday i got a cold and was sick barely could breathe or anything. i couldnt miss school because i was having finals and had tog o. i had my dad talk to my coach and tell her that i didnt feel to good and i didnt want to show up feelin all shitty and get everyone on the team sick. so anyways she told my dad that i didnt have to go to pratice if i didnt feel good. adn honestly i ahvent felt good all week i showed up to one pratice but only stayed for 1 and 1/2 hours out of a 3 hour pratice. since i havent been going girls have been talkin shit about me behind me back and it isnt a rumors bc i heard them say it. i dont if i should go to pratice or nto. coach makes me feel liek the worest player by puttin peopel that dont go to pratice on the team instead me when i used to go to all pratice and i used to stay after and pratice extra. i am not used to quieting i never have and i dont know if i should. someone please tell me what to do. i feel like i am wasting my time for nothign.
p.s.
the captin is a snoby ..... and i dont like her. o and i already tryed tellin coach about the girls and she just blew me off and didnt care.

why would you turn your jersey in?? i dont think that you should quit because of someone that you dont like and you need to prove the coach wrong, and show her that you can really play and then she will feel stupid and put you in more, but liek tis not fair that you arent going to the practices because sometimes paractice makes perfect and i think that you should go but if your sick like alot then you shouldnt go, but dont give up and keep your head up dont ever let them see you frown =), good luck hope everything works out..
[♥]DiNA

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14/f
My big winterball is coming up. I have:
- my dress bought ( its a like a mini prom dres[its puffy at the bottom, but only goes to like a few inches below my knees] and its coral [like an orangy color])
- limo rented
- hair appointment set up
- make up appointment set up
- manicure/pedicure appointment set up

what I need is:
- shoes
- a hair style.

could someone help me pick out wicked cute shoes from off the internet. and/or send me pictures of cute hair styles?

5's to everyone!

i think that your should like get your hair all curly and then get it put up in a ponytail with like little pieces of hair sticking out, but not alot though, i dont know about the shoes but mostly some cute like strapless shoes that are maybe like a cream color, black, or white,good luck hope ya have fun !!
[♥]DiNA

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I've known this guy my whole life and have never really been interested. We've always been friends and he's known to many people as the guy who's always looking to get laid.

We're both transfering college right now so this semester we're both kind of taking it easy at home and going to community college (I'm 20/f btw). Lately he's been IMing and calling me like everyday to hang out and sometimes is pretty vulgar. It's more jokingly than like offensive though.

It's like "We used to be friends and we haven't talked in a year so lets go hook up" um no.. Anyway to get to the point, for whatever reason I finally gave in and agreed to go to a movie with him tonight. I'm still not interested but I know he's going to try to make a move. I don't particularly want to go, but I don't want to rude.

My real question is what should I wear? Should I look hot so I feel good and appear to be in control of the situation and then like blue ball him for badgering me for so long. Or.. should I wear like sweats and look schleppy in hopes of him maybe backing down?

Either way I don't think I'm leading him on because he knows I'm not intersted. Looking for answers asap- this date is tonight!

i dont think that you should dress up for him because hes going to think that your into him, and then he might want to make a move, but just dress what you feel comfortable in..if he trys to like make amove be like okay no this isnt working out because were just friends..hopefully hell get the point,good luck and have fun =),
[♥]DiNA

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