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E-mail: shygirl101789@yahoo.com
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Location: New Jersey
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Age: 15
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Member Since: November 6, 2004
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OK, I am 15 and I like this guy who is yonger then and he is only 13, do you think it is right to go out with a guy that is 2 years yonger then you. O, and by the way he looks like he is 16, but he isnt.

Totally, you should go for it!

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I can't fully tell if I like this one boy. We're great friends and whenever I sort of start to like him, something inside me says no. I'm 13/F if it helps any. My heart jumps when I'm around him but then I feel like we're just friends. What should I do?

Ask him out, and then youll find out if your feeling for him are real or not.

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my friend i think may become anarexic because well she keeps saying that shes fat and shes not i whenver she says she is i tell her shes not but she doesn't believe me....do u think she might? what can i do to help prevent her from getting more to thinking this?


xox lissy

Just beacause she sais shes fat doesnt mean shes going to beacome anorexic. Make her feel good about herself.

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You see, I really like this guy. I'm not so sure if he likes me or he's trying not to like me. We're pretty good friends. You see, I think he's still getting over his relationship with his ex girlfriend. She broke up with him, and he was devastated. I want him to move on, but I don't know what to do?

You have to wait intil he is over her b/c if you go out with him and he's still not over her it wont make a good relationship. It also won't be fair for him or you. Good luck, hope i helped!

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i want to lose 10 lbs in 3 months cuz on my bday i am geting money adn i want to buy clothes but i want to look cute in them i am 118 and i waer size 5 but i am not satisified.oh i am short i am like 5'3 ish.. My question for you is this: A) is that unrealistic? B) anyideas on how i could do that?

thanks a bunch

thats nut unrealistic, try cutting your food portions in half, don't drink any soda and do lots of push ups! Good luck, hoped i helped!

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For a school dance I'm the music person...one problem I dont know what to play. Its a highschool dance for like the winter and stuff and one of the songs they asked me to get goes like "and in the end its right I hope you had the time of your life." but I dont know who sings it...ahhh what do i do...please help!

*no style*

green day, i love that song!!

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I hate life like you wouldnt even believe. My dad left when i was a baby and my mom is on meds and living with a bf or maybe just some guy she has sex with and so ever since i was young i have been forced to live with my grandmother. My mom and aunt are on meds for depression and stress and they both claim its cuz of my gma which doesnt surprise me cuz she makes me insane, i wish i was dead like every 20 seconds. ever since i had sex she has been talking about eh guy for ever and its really hard for me cuz i really like him and she is the reasion why we are not together and all she ever does is tell me how worthless i am and how im stupid and how the only job i will get is selling my self even tho my grades are ABBBCC and she tells me that i am really low and just basicall puts me down every chance she gets. and i believe that is why i have no self confidence what so ever. and i believe that is why i had sex with my bf because he was the only guy who ever made me feel special and beautiful. but thats besides the point. everyday she reminds me of my mistakes and its getting old and i just want to shoot my self so i have been drinking and taking pills to make me feel alright and what not and well my question is this what can i do so i dont feel like shit 24/7? just a second ago i was going to go out cuz one of my friedns called me and she said oh you look easy enough, so how manny boys do you think you are going to fuck and so i riped my shirt and threw it at her adn said 100 get in line bi***

any ideas or insight would be much appreciated

thank you

That's horrible, try talking to a guidance counselor, if it's that bad you can get this thing where you can live on your own, depending on your age. Hope i helped, good luck!

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theres this guy i like, his name is collin. hes really good friends with my friend jessica. i think collin likes me but thinks he doesnt have a chance with me. i've asked him to come to dances and stuff with us but he always doesnt come. i know he likes me alot and i like him but he just doesnt know i like him. i guess what im asking is how do i get him to notice i like him without seeming too obvious?? thanx alot

Try making the first move!

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my friend and i want to be singers and we have written 1 song and we always try to write another song but we just can't....anyone have any good ideas or a good song we could sing that is original??...thnx i rate

write about stuff that happened today, something exciting,usual, or boring. Hope i helped!

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I am 14/f and my cousin who is 12/f will not leave me alone...i see her everyday and she calls me like 5 seconds after i see her on my cell phone and she wont shut up...she wont leave me alone on the internet and she keeps talking to me and my friends....it bugs the hell out of me.... and she copies everything i do and everything i wear....when i told her that she has to let me have some space she started crying and told her mom that i told her i hated her...which i never said. Her mom came over and told me that i had to be nice to her because she had no friends. What should i do to keep her from annoying me with out making her cry and making me look like a bad person?

She's just trying to be like you, beacuse she has no friends she hangs out with you and your friends because she knows you won't be mean to her. Maybe you could go to the movies or go bowling with her once a month, like a girls night out! Hope i helped! Good Luck!

xoshaneyney3283

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is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone?

Nope!

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My friend is going out w/ this boy. When he asked her out, he said that he didn't want to tell anyone. I'm the only one they told. His friends tease him because they hang out so much. She's starting to think that he won't tell anyone because he's embarresed of her. What do you think? If it's just because he doesn't know how to stand up to his friends, do you have any advice?

He shouldn't be embarresed, if he is then he shouldnt be going out with her. If his friends make fun of him then they r not his real friends. Hope i helped!

xoshaneyney3283

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Hi can anyone help, I'm 26 yr old male and generally my complexion is ok, a few random minor zits but nothing terrible. However I have 2 reoccuring super spots. They flare up about every 2/3 months in exactly the same place (either side of my chin) and always both together. They start off as hard, sore, lumps under the skin and over a few days they become enflamed and red. Unlike other spots they don't eventually get a 'head' they just eventually die off, usually after 7 - 10 days. I wash with an antibacterial wash twice daily and use 'quinoderm' cream which is effective on most of my smaller spots.

Any ideas would be very gratefully received?

Thanks

Try clinque priducts they really work!

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i love my boyfriend VERY much, but hes always So down on himself. he calls himself stupid, ugly, and says he doesnt deserve me ALL THE TIME. when i talk to him about it, he says his mom is always putting him down and he feels like hes nothing and he has no future and he feels like hes just going to bring me down if i stay with him. i want to be with him forever.... but its hard to deal with him always putting himself down. he tries not to but sometimes it slips. i really wish i could make him love himself. What can i do? Im almost 16, female....

Explain to him how much he means to you. He should probably talk to his mom and tell her how he feels!

Good luck!
xoshaneyney3283

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Ok, i am just so lonely. All of my friends have boyfriends and i've never had one. I could prolly ask someone out but i'm shy. I'm waiting for a guy to ask ME. I kno some guys like me, but they dont ask me. But all my friends go out on double dates and all that junk and i'm left out of everything. They'll walk down the halls of school laughing at things that i dont get because i wasn't on the date. There must be SOMETHING wrong with me. BUt what is it? People tell me i'm a great friend, and i'm not too ugly or anything like that. And when it cums to guys, i'm like a sporty/romantic/ fun type. And idk, i just REALLY want a bf and i do like sum guys that might like me but i guess not b/c no one has ever asked me out or anything. I have a lot of friends that are guys, but i might never have a boyfriend. I'm prolly gonna grow up, buy maybe 3 cats and my life will be soap operas and game shows. I dont want to be alone!!! But i dont wanna be the girl who's so desparate that she'll say yes to just any guy who asks her out. PLZ someone tell me what's going wrong!

My friend is going through the same thing. If you like a guy then ask him out, make the first move.

Good luck! Hope i helped

xoshaneyney3283

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My best friend is goin out wit muh ex and they seem like soooo happy but i dont think he realli likes her and i think hes playn her.....I KNO HES PLAYN HER! I tried to tell her and now shes mad at me! Every time i call her house she picks up the phona and hangs it up again!
WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!
lotta luv
~kisses~

You tries to tell her but she refuses to believe it, she probably thinks your just saying that to break them up. She will find out the hard way.

Good Luck! Hope i helped!
xoshaneyney

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ok, my really good friend cuts herself and she takes pills that she don't know what are. She only does it for attention...but EVERYBODY tells her to stop. The only way she is going to stop is if somebody tells someone....I want to tell but I don't want everybody to be like "ohhhh, Tia Told. She's a tattletale.." but I want to tell..I KNOW it's the RIGHT thing to do...she's going to wind up killing herself...WHAT SHOULD I DO???

you should definetly tell someone before she does kill her self! Don't matter about what others say you r not tattletaleing you r trying to save your friends life.

good luck! Hope i helped!

xoshaneyney3283

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alright well theres this boy named ted..I've been going out with him sence august 6th and like in october he broke up with me and I brok eup with him altogether around 3 or 4 times and all those times we'ver gotten back together..but wednesday he broke up with me because he liked two other people..alina and tara..well alina has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is teds best friend..so he wouldn't get her.. tara is one of my best friends so she wont go out with him because she thinks hes a horrible boyfriend from what he did to me..and becasue she doesn't like him like that and also because hes the kind of boy that likes to be really close with there girlfriends and like make-out and stuff like that and she doesn't like that..so neither alina or tara like him..my friend britney was talking to him today and last night we had a schol dance and he was like staring at me and stuff..and she asked him if he still liked me and he said i dunno and stuff like that and then he asked me to call this girl taylor for him and I think it was so he could ask her out but I'm not sure..it might be that or it might be because she brok eup with her boyfriend yesterday and ted adn her ex are good friends so it might be for him..but I'm just not ready to let go..I'm scared that would be our last time going out..I like him soo much..like I would do anything for him..I know I sound pathitic but its true..I'm scared that if I dont get him back I might do something to myself because he was like my life..so my question is how to get him back..I dont wanna hurt myself because I've done it before but not for that reason...and I really need him back but I dunno how to .. please help..I'll rate high

wow, i know how it feels getting attached. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel, maybe he'll give you another chance, and if he doesnt there are plenty of others out. Remember no guy is worth hurting yourself over!

Good luck! Hope i helped!

xoshaneyney3283

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i met this guy the otehr nioght and we totally clicked. we're really into each other. only one problem i look older than i am so he though i was 19 and he looks younger than he is so i thought he was 18. turns out i'm 15 and hes 23. hes really cute and nice and funny and i know people are thinking omg hes a prev but the thing is i never fall for anyone. i havent met a erson in ages whose even made me look twice but i keep having all these dreams about him and i get butterflies everytime i think of him. it feels like this is the one time i could be happy and i feel like the only thing about me thats acutially 15 is my age the rest of me is older. what do i do?

8 years older, not that bad. You should try a relationship with him if you feel so strongly about him, but just watch out.

hope i helped!

xoshaneyney3283

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in 8th grade, ive been feeling so depressed. i just feel like everyone is against me. i feel so disgusted w/myself. everyone says that im so skinny and athletic and my family says im beautiful, even though i dont think so. i started cutting a little while ago. its nothing to be proud of, thats 4 sure. i just feel like everything is wrong with me. wut am i supposed 2 do?

signed
*deeply troubled*

You have to talk to someone and get help, so you start feeling good about yourself. Try talking to a guidance counselor or a close friend.

hope i helped!

xoshaneyney3282

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