I am who I am, deal. I can give some nice advice, if people took their heads out of their own asses for once and asked REAL questions. I hate spoiled brats, I love genuine people..Im not complicated, you want honesty--here I am! You want to be craddled with bull sh*t, you'd better hope to christ I dont see your question..I rarely ask questions souly cus I didnt realize a bunch of kiddies hang out on this site...but its all fun and games anyways--such is life, man.
Alittle advice: Stay on my good side.
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hi, I'm a 17 year old guy. this girl (a bit older than me) across the street mentioned to my brother that she wants to borrow a game, which i happen to own. well i'm done with the game and think this might be an opportunity for me to get to know her better. would it be too weird and too forward if i went over there, and gave the game to her personally? i barely ever see her around the street, but i quite like her and thought i could strike up a conversation with her. so.. would this be too weird and intrusive to go over to her place and give it to her? shes been waiting for me to finish it for a while. just want to know what the done thing is in this kind of situation.
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Go for it and have alittle chat. Being an older chick, and Im sure the majority of "older" chicks (whether it be a year or ten years older agree when I say this--nothing is more cute/nice/sweet/pleasant then to have a younger dude trying to pick 'em up, or even the simply "trying to get to know them". I say, go and talk to her, give her the game, attempt convo and if anything, be blunt if she seems disinterested. If you talk and she either shuns you off, or closes the door--she aint worth it anyway. If she looks you in the eye, seems interested, and it all goes smoothly--there you go! No harm is done either way, when you really break it down, and I think its definitly a nice gesture to give the game personally--so long as u dont have a history of stalking or anything....but good luck man, take the step I say!
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This might be a dumb question, but whenever my boyfriend gets mad about something, or when he is in a bad mood, he always takes it out on me, and he's just in a bad mood so it makes me in a bad mood, and i was just wondering what I should do about it, like is there something that i can do about it to not get so upset about it, or like tell him or anything? I just don't know what to do. The help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. ♥ (link)
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I guess he hasnt learned interpersonal relationship skills...You have to tell him, when he is in an approachable mood and when he seems compliant enough, that it personally offends you that he takes things out on you. Not only that, but you find it ruins the mood you were currently in. Tell him that its understandable to be upset or angry, and validate him enough so as he strays far from jumping onto the defensive, but make your point known that you havent done anything wrong to deserve this, and its IN-validating your being. Be assertive, give altimatums like-- "if this doesnt cease, I wont stay to hear about it", or something that would be threatening to him, that you know he wouldnt want to lose. This way he will rethink his taking crap out on you. Also,make it known that you both are in this relationship for many reasons--one being talking to eachother so as to allow venting, as opposed to bottling up certain urks, and things that when placed in the subconcious come out worse later on. Most likley he feels close enough to you to treat you like a sibling, make it known you feel too...Good Luck,dude..
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hey i'm a guy. this girl i know is starting to scare me. we used to talk about everything and always have a blast, but a few months ago we started to talk less. i noticed she wasn't as active as she was before, and asked her about it. just as it seemed to be, she told me she was depressed and didn't like the kind of life she was living. she went on about all the bad things in her life with family, school, friends, herself, etc. i tried to point out good things to her, but she always came back at me with something to disprove it. after not talking for a week or so, she said she just wanted to end her life and to get away from everything. i didn't take this too serious at first, but lately she hasn't been eating, barely talks, and hasn't been looking too healthy. if she is thinking about suicide, what should i do? i asked her about it and she didn't want to talk. should i tell her parents? please help (link)
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I went through a similar instance in my life. The thing you need to do is: Be empathetic-meaning, don’t sympathize and try to resolve her issues by being insanely motivational or by pointing out the positives, Im not doubting you as a caring friend, but people tend to use the "fight or flight" reaction to beckon to a friend in need which ever way our brain lead us, especially when its in this case-- you just want your old friend back and for her not to suffer.
Give her a sign that you feel (truly) what she feels. Don’t recite the good that’s going on to deter her from thinking the bad , any situation that is making her depressed--she already knows about, and thinking of the good for her-- is telling a kid in a candy shop he cant have any candy. It will make her feel worse to constantly tell her to escape from this depressive state, she doesn’t like where she is, and is fully aware and feels very helpless. Be the friend that sits w/her at a coffee shop/or equally quiet place, yielding nothing but hope and care-- and ask her in a calm voice, and in a relaxed state, one or more of the following --"What can I do for you?" "What do you want me to do?" "Do you need my help?" Don’t have any fear in your voice because it will lesson the likely hood of her entrusting in you as the pillar of strength and the control that she is currently lacking. Not eating is most definalty a sign of “Well, I have nothing else under control in my life—but at least I have control over myself..” Its a black or white thought process—its one thing or the other, no in between or grey area. And always to the extreme of the opposite sides of the spectrum. She hasn’t conroll over her life roght now—other side of the spectrum—I will control my eating/sleeping etcetc. OR “This, this and that are going on in my life and its bad—it’s the worst thing come to my life and what im feeling will never go away”. “He said no—he hates me”..and so forth, im sure u get it, hopefully u dont think im crazy.
She is also looking for someone that will allow her to release all the pent up emotions and issues that have been haunting her. When and if, she lets it out--and especially if she allows your questions, tell her it'll be okay, your here to help because you care. Later ask her if she'd see a therapist or a professional for added support. Remind her that she will always have a friend willing to help her and at the same time make a presence thats strong and not threatening. Good luck-hope you kinda got what I was getting @.
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i'm supposd to get my nose pierced today, but i got a really bad cold over night, and have a stuffy nose. what should i do?
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I would wait until the cold goes away...being that you'll have to blow it (nose). And infection can happen if you interfere w/your body's healing process by constantly moving it around, irritating it and sniffing etcetc. Any sort of constant irritation will effect anything that is attempting to heal--I had to take mine out for a few months cus when i played soccer I had to keep taking it out for games until basically it got infected.
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I honestly don't think I like my boyfriend anymore. He's wayy too protective, and he'll always say the stupidest things. I just woke up this morning & I really don't like him as much as I used to. Should I ignore this feeling, and maybe it'll go away? Or, do you think you shouldn't have negative feelings about your relationship when you're dating someone? + I'm NOT Pmsing. (: lol Thanks. (link)
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If this is the first occasion in which you have felt opposite about this relationship, give it a few days, to almost see if its a fluke emotional responce, or if its reality. If this isnt the first time and youve been contemplating for awhile the happiness/contentness this relationship lacks, then its time to end what was inevitiable.
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So i like this guy. He's like my friend and what not. but there's this dance coming up soon. and i really want to ask him to it. i'm just afraid of the "rejection." and if he says yes, i'm really bad at carrying a conversation. what shoulud i do? (link)
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If ur already freinds w/him, ask him to the dance claiming "just as friends"--this way there isnt so much pressure on either of you..and if you get all nervous about the convo upholdage--take a deep breath..repeat if nessisary..and make fun of the other people around you..This can go on for hours, cus you know some people look pretty weird all dressed up..
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Hi im 14 years old. And on thursday dec.7th i had sex with my boyfriend. We used a condom but it ripped. It had that stuff called spermacide on it. But im not sure if any of his sperm got in me,because there was a not big but a normal sized spot on my sheets. I just got off my period like 3 days before we had sex. Im not having any syptoms that im pregnant but im having little pains once in a while at the bottom of my stomach. Im not only scared that im pregnant but i dont know how to tell me mom && dad. They dont even know im having sex. What is the percent chance that im pregnant? and any other advise will help. Thanx alot. im so scared.
always- scared.confused.
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Okay, dont be so harsh on yourself--ya, your a youngin', but give yourself alittle credit that you attempted to use a method of safer sex, not that I am applauding sex at 14--sh*t happens. What you need to do now is get a home pregnancy test, go with a girlfriend or and older sibling (if you have any to confide in), get a middle priced one (run you around $8-25), and read the directions carefully. Its always easiest to use the sticks, but with a cup so you know you saturated it enough. Always take these tests your first AM (morning) urination, because the pregnancy hormone is less watered down, and can be easily traced using the pregnancy test. I would use at least two tests for sometimes they are faulty, and use them on alternate days. For example take one 2maro, then the next day, or whatever. If the results come out positive--sorry kid you have to tell your parents. If negative (after much testing), what did you learn? I hope both of you (bf + u) talked about--STD's, AID's etcetc, and I pray that hes cleared of such ailments. Its not the end of the world, take the tests, have a friend near you, and relax. All things can be taken care of. I would in the mean time, think of something to say to your parents if in case. Good luck.
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I can only reach orgasm (either from masterbating or oral sex) when my legs really straight, have lots of muscle tension, and are touching the floor. Ive tried to practice with them bent but I just can't get off that way.
It makes me sad to think I wont be able to have an orgasm during sex because i can't keep my legs straight and close enough together. My boyfriend thinks I'm weird. Is this normal? What could I do? Why am I like this? (link)
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I don’t think you should worry so much, and don’t think your weird because of your preferences, your not one bit. I think I'd worry more about your boyfriends response to it being "weird", that’s a really invalidating thing to say especially being that its directed towards the female genitalia, which is farrrr more complex than that of his own sexes phalli. Women need to use different positions involving resistance, incorolation with skilled deep tissue message to have orgasm its unfortunate but its also nature. They have an incredible amount of nerve activity located in the cliterous that actually runs from the end of the pubis area down towards the start of the urethral opening, which isn’t even close to touching the actual vaginal opening that men use as their main source for orgasm. And whats worse is-- the fact that an incredible amount of nerves inhabit that area—its so sensitive it needs a “woman’s touch” (soft touch), as opposed to a males aggressive (sometimes painful) touch. It makes you wonder what gender is really supposed to profit (get off) from sex/intercourse/coitus, and which gender is supposed to lay down and take it for reproductive means. But like I said, women need more to get more, and I suggest either compromising with your bf to fit both your needs (even though he probably owes you a lot more). I started to get so sick of watching my guy enjoy himself, when I was literally bored—so I told him while having sex that “I’m going to “help” myself, do you mind?” Like most men, they aren’t aware enough in their efforts to pleasure you, and can even fail miserably sometimes, lessening your mood, so I took it apron myself to “message” my area, while we have sex. Guys actually like to see their partners do this, and they also get off more if their mates are enjoying themselves as they are. Also, another thing to keep in mind, and I don’t know how long you have been having sex for, but woman’s anatomy are really like that of wine. It all gets better with age. Sometimes the female genitalia hasnt fully matured enough to engage in the “enjoyment” of sex, rather then the motions of it. I have been having sex for awhile and noticed that it did get better through time. For example, the vaginal opening which hadn’t at all felt good during sex, unless combined with other things, starts to feel more and more as time went on.
Foreplay is extremely important to women, it helps relax us, getting us into the “mood”, as well as gains our subconscious sexual trust. If the guy wants to skip that or go fast through it, redirect him to fulfill your needs, not just his big headed friend down below.
I find it hard to orgasm unless I am on my stomach and the pressure is coming from behind, you need to be straight legged and tense, we are all different, just knowing what it is that makes us feel good—is exactly the answer---now somehow incorporate it into the deed. Good luck, hope I could be of some assistance.
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i'm married to a wonderful man who likes to bear upon himself the burden of others. he sees it as a responsibility to help people who are financially in need. in fact, others are on top of his priority list. i'm not unhappy about this but what makes me unhappy is that people believe i'm equally wealthy and also approach me for assistance and most times i find it difficult to meet up to expectation. what do i do? (link)
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I give you guys a lot of respect, whether or not you give as much as him. The economy hasnt treated the inhabitants of this country as well as it should, this is coming from a person who had enough money to survive then hit rock bottom when a certain someone was elected into office. The term "spread the wealth" has a different meaning to either side of the "class" spectrum, and unfortunalty people who havent a nickle to their liking, will seem relentless and overly needy--if you havent the funds to give out, as he does, or whatever the situaion, redirect the people who have their hands out to web sites or programs that can handle their needs. Ya, if they are poor/hard up on the mula, most likely they havent a computer, but librarys and other public places can supply this. In pertanance to health care, housing, groceries, any state has a site that can help with financial aid, etc. Their are programs for pretty much everything, and more so branching off of those. Its great that people like u and ur husband feel like giving, but you also pay taxes that supply these above programs. One place for housing help,
HUD (housing and Urban development), also lists housing authorities in any state. The social security office nearest you has programs not just for dissabilty or social security but has supplemental security, welfair, medicare, food stamp programs, info about food pantries (which are located everywhere, but their locations remain secretive until info. is requested). There are always places people can resort to, its a matter of how desperate and how hard they are willing to look/work for it. Tell your husband this, and make this equally aware to the people that have their hands out, too. You have to worry about yourself overall and sometimes when people (maybe you can relate) are so desperate they dont realize the negative impact they can have on someones morale. God bless you guys and good luck(Im not really religious, but use the term when I see true good in people).
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easy 5's people!~~
does anyone know any good sites that have clothes. i want really different ones, sorta punk-ish. and if you know the name of a catalouge, that would be great too.
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Its easiest if you live in a city, I live in boston and have lists of stores that sell mainly punk/rock shit. However, i dont know if they are accessible via online/catalog.
-Garment District (in Boston, ill store)
-H & M (good mix goin on there, of both conservative and punky)
-Hot Topic (started freaky-now resorting to punk)
-TSX (if they are still open)
-Pacific Sunwear (mainly skater but startin to grasp punk styles more)
-Clair's (believe it or not has some cool punky jewelry)
If i think of anymore somewhat mainstream/on the web places I'll get back to you...You can also make your own clothes too, thats what i do (Im more into the punk-i-billy style, with my own spin on it), I literally have made all my clothes--no stitching required--just use your imagination thats what alternate styles are all about, man.
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Recently I got my haircoloured (5 days ago) I opted for permanent dye. I got it coloured black btw. However, everytime I wash my hair the colour comes out. I wash my hair each day, and don't think this can be right. Should the colour be coming out 5 days after I got it done? Am I doing something wrong? Should I head back to the salon?
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Dont fret, its all good--black is one of those tricky hair colors that will continously wash out until your next dye job. About 4 years ago I decided to go from my natural blonde to black, and havent a doubt its the most liberating color (its still black,too). Seriously, its not a problem at all that the color is seaping out. However, washing everyday will eliminate the color faster (depite its permanence), and dry your hair out, eliminating the natural oils and follicle moisture. Wash your hair every three days--more or less dependant on the oil secretion, and always get a shampoo that gaurds color treated hair--this way it adds protection to your scalp, and mends the split ends so as to capture the color more efficiantly. Use color that hasnt ammonia in it as well, this causes a multitude of problems after continuous use (ie-scalp becomes over dry, cuts and abrasions start to form)..Once you dye black-you never go back.
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13/f
Me and this boy have been really close friends for a year. Now he's started hanging around the other guys, who are all jerks. They were beating up on a kid one day and it made me mad. I stood up for the kid and the boys all ended up getting in trouble by a teacher. Now my friend is mad at me because I embarrassed him in front of his friends. I was just doing what I think is right! Well, now he says he hates me and is tired of the "bull shit". I love him and I don't want to lose him but I have no idea what to do now. None of his new friends like me (they think I'm a psycho) and I feel like he cares more about what they think than he cares about me. It's really really depressing. Write back soon, please & thank you. (link)
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Little dude, you did the right thing and dont ever question that. Hell, you could of defended the next president, ya never know. I stuck up for this unsightly fellow(he was an 8th grader) in my 6th grade, he was considered a loser but had a good heart. I didnt give two nickles he was loser, and proved that fact one day when a bunch of eigth graders strated tearin him up. Little did they know I was near and heard it all. I walked up to all of them, snidily grined and literally bitched them out for there actions. Ya, they all laughed and made fun of me for the remander of the year, but was it worth it? Hell ya, cus down the road the kid they were demorilizing lost weight, physically matured and joined up with the football team later in highschool, where I was soon to go. By time I entered freshman year, I had an entire Junior crew--souly because I had stuck up for one loser gone popular. In pertanance to your friend, tell him to grow up and that he will indefinalty regret choosing the wrong crowd over the right crowd,. Even shed a tear if you think its appropriate, and say you really thought of him in a respect unmatched by any one else, now your doubting him as a genuine person. Or ya know, something of that nature. Make sure hes alone cus undoubtidly he'll under-react in front of his buddies, and make you feel worse. If it doesnt work out though, let life take its course and find other (and better) friends...such is life.
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Hi, I would REALLY apprecaite some advice :) OK, my partner (male 32) is driving me (female 26) up the wall! We have a 6 month old baby. My parner works, I am at home alone with the baby all day. He has this really annoying habit where he get's home, sits on his lap top and then only goes to bed at about 5am! His alarm goes off at least 6 times before he gets up for work (obviously making him late!) and then he has to stay at work late to make up the time. By the the time he gets home from work, I am so wound up that we argue! I have tried to comprimise by designating "laptop evenings" but when we do this, it lasts for a few days and then we are back at square one. The worst of it is, that he he has difficulty with "demands". He sees everything as a demand and then feels that he must rebel! This makes him worse. Please can you give me some practical advice to get him to sleep earleir and to wake up on time for work. We are due to get married in Jan and I feel that this is a real reason for me to call it all off :( Thanks :) (link)
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Sounds similiar to my guy who is obsessed with X-box..I tried to talk, ask, and compromise, but like you said he seemingly rejected all efforts and rebelled. This is what guys do. They rebel when you seem like their "stern" mother, but dont have any issues when your makin the dinners/ caring for the kids or making them a nice bath after work..What does this leave you with? Stop doing some of the extra (Mom-like) things you'd normally do for him, whether it be laundry, dinner or cleaning the house. When he starts to realize that you havent done these things-like diner isnt on the table, or his shirts are startin to smell rancid-- he will confront you about hem. When he does say "Well, my demands arent much, the laptop situation hasnt been resolved, and its effecting me just the same. Until we reach an agreement, it will stay this way, no better." If this doesnt work and the things you cut off start bothering you(laundry piles up, etc), ignore him..dont give him the time of day until he wakes up and realizes your not messing around. If all else fails, threaten the marriage.
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hey well i met this guy (a friend of my best guy friend) on msn. and at first things were fine and we had stuff to talk about cause we were getting to know eachother and stuff. now though we always start talking ya kno "hey wats up n2m u?? n2m" and then wat should we talk about??
i'll rate 5's for anything helpful!!xo! (link)
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start talking alittle deeper..what makes you tick, your personality, hardships delt with, etcetc.Online convos are awesome when they involve personal expiriences and/or things that arent so surface (as a Hey, what up convo is), cus you dont have to worry about nerves and blushing, or stuttering , or being shy and whatnot.
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15/f
I have been really sick lately with sinus infection. I woke up this morning with really bad chest pains. They are on the front of my body, in between my breasts. They only happen when I take a breath in, the deeper the breath, the sharper the pain, and when I puff out my chest. I'm kind of scared because I thought they would go away, but they arent, and its hard for me to breath. It hurts pretty badly. What could they be? What should I do. Please help me, its getting scary. (link)
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You need to go to the doctor--sound like walking pnemonia, not something to play around with. I had the same shit last year, and it go to the point of hospitalization cus the pains worsened and I had a 104.2 temp--not good, nearing seizures at that temp. and possible coma.
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Hey all..My parents are REALLY strict and when I say really, I mean REALLY. They wont let me go over ANY guys house, nevertheless even let me hang out with guys. But they'll let them come here but id rather not have that because I have SO many kids living in my house (7 girls, 4 boys) that we would never get privacy at all. What can I do to sneak around without getting caught? Or how could I persuade my Mom and Dad to let me hang out with boys.. (link)
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Okay, first off if your between the ages of 13-15, chill on the sneaking part cus it'll only worsen the strickness of your parents--cus they always find out. Then they'll always make reference to your defiance and disobediance--even when your 16+, then you'll be living in true hell. Im sure its madd frustrating living in that brady bunch atmosphere, I couldnt stand living with my one sibling. I dont know if your parents are any bit liberal, then I'd tell you to sit em down and talk to them about this. Telling them that when you finally get your independance they are going to have a wild child like the girls on those degrading gone wild tapes, especially is their grip isnt lessened. Ive seen it a milion times, people goin to college after being held down by their parental units, expiriencing freedom for the first time, and not being able to handle it maturly. Tell them they have a very trusting young women on their hands and that you need your space. If they will allow you to venture into the "boy" sector, you'd be willing to compromise through rules created by both parties (yours and theirs combined). For example: Mom, I need alittle more freedom, and would like to see a boy outside of our house, I'd be willing to compromise with you, maybe not going over his house but staying in a public area, or just going to a movie in which I'd call you and honestly report my plans. " You could even reasure them by giving the boy's parents #, telling them to call and check on the situation. If your older then 15, your parents need to seek counseling, especially if they are this strict...
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Ever since my bf moved to another state for a job I feel as though a weight has been lifted. I think he was upset with me because the last time we talked over the phone before he moved I sounded so happy. Part of the reason for my happiness is that I had just started a new job with a really cool company after years of unemployment and dissatisfaction. Well my self esteem and confidence has totally gone up and when I told my bf how happy I was with things he didnt sound happy at all for me. I also think he was mad at me because he said he was thinking of stopping into the store before he left but I didnt sound to thrilled to see him. Well it's been a month since we've talked or emailed and you know what, I don't even miss him!!
My question is : Why do you think he was mad that I sounded so happy? Wouldnt he want me to be happy? And also I feel a little guilty for being glad that he is gone.
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Sounds like this guy was holdin you back, and subconsciously u didnt want to believe that. Now that hes gone, your startin to get motivation back, and a new self confidence he tended to sit on. Personally, I think your startin to realize this guy might not be the one--despite the love you may have had/or even still feel. If it isnt affecting you now, especially being a month of no contact--let it be, and move on. Everyone has to remember whos the true numero uno [number one], and thats always YOURSELF. He wasnt thrilled cus youve proven to contain a better atmosphere w/out him, risen your own esteem, and are seemingly better all around --w/out his help or company . You have guilt cus your a good human being, but that guilt will eventually bore a hole in your mind if u keep focused on it, its a dog eat dog world, better yourself first, and if the relationship was meant to be--it'll fix itself.
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Would you take offense if your gf/bf said that although they find you attractive, they would never want to see a "Picture" of you, or see you in your underwear? I'm sure you can guess of what nature.
My gf said this to me and I felt offended. I don't really know why. I guess it's no big deal, really. We were only kidding around and she said that. I'm pretty insecure about my looks, which doesn't help I suppose. So would you take offense, or am I making a big deal? (link)
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It depends on the mood of the convo--if it was all jokes and good times, let it slide--if there was a sence of truth in her voice, if she was really serious..any normal person would be offened by it. Being that ur insecure about your looks, she definatly shouldnt of said something like that despite the light heartedness.
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I've been trying to figure this out since I've been with my boyfriend for the past 2 months. It's a new relationship but we feel like we've known each other all our lives. He is the greatest guy I've ever met - handsome, funny, smart, sweet, loving, sexy, treats me like queen. But the thing, before we got together, I NEVER would have thought I was his type. I'm a regular girl, take care of myself, care about people, not a hot babe or anything but I'm alright. So anyhow, I feel insecure to be with him because with how hot and great he is, he's bound to find a hot and great girl. Therefore, I find myself very very skeptical about this relationship lasting. I've talked to him and believe me, he reassures me like crazy that he wants to be with me and feels like he can love me forever. He really does have a good head on his shoulders. But what does add to it, is that he has a lot of female friends as well - all are just long time friends, but these girls are great as well, and I feel like he's bound to fall for one of them soon. It's so frustrating to be with such a great guy and not feel like you're the centre of his world (even when he treats you like it). What can I do? (link)
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The story of my life. I'd met a guy from Massachusetts, who was gorgeous! Totally a bad ass with a heart screamin' nothing but love for me--I was kinda like, "Okay--whats the catch?" Just being that I wasnt even close to the cats meow. Whats worse is he had dated models and other such beauties, making me feel like I couldnt take my make up off --ever! I was crazy self critiquy, and jealous, and asked myself daily, "Is this the day hes going to dump me." Long story short--its been three years and Im still with him. If the click is there, and both of you mesh (personality-wise) well together, acting like best friends but at the same time love birds--your golden. Rest assured this guys not like the rest of 'em, and looks arent of his priority list. The more you sit and contimplate it all--the less you'll enjoy it all, run with it, or your fears could come true because youve made them a reality by pushing him away and rejecting his good intensions. And if after awhile, shit happens, it wasnt meant to be. POINT: Take a deep breath, and let cupid do the rest....
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what are some good things to ask for for christmas ecause i want some things but like my dad asks me and i dont really know what i want i want a tiffanys necklace but i dont wanna seem like a spoiled stuck up priss so im not gonna sk but i need some good things to ask for (link)
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you can ask for stuff for me--but of course I dont want to sound all stuck up (I want a pony and a...) Say "Dad, I dont need anything, I'm pretty content w/my stuff now." Then later walk by him on the phone w/a friend, not even acknoledging him, and say "OMG! Your mom got u a tiffany necklace!! I so need one, lemme borrow it?" Works everytime..swear.
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