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should i go over and give it to her?
hi, I'm a 17 year old guy. this girl (a bit older than me) across the street mentioned to my brother that she wants to borrow a game, which i happen to own. well i'm done with the game and think this might be an opportunity for me to get to know her better. would it be too weird and too forward if i went over there, and gave the game to her personally? i barely ever see her around the street, but i quite like her and thought i could strike up a conversation with her. so.. would this be too weird and intrusive to go over to her place and give it to her? shes been waiting for me to finish it for a while. just want to know what the done thing is in this kind of situation.
thanks peeps.
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No that's not weird at all!
If your brother agreed to let her borrow the game without even asking you then it makes sense that you should be the one to give it to her.
Take it over and make sure you look her in the eye when you talk to her. Tell her you're sorry it took so long to bring it over but she can borrow it now. If there's any way you can play it with more than one person, offer her help or someone to play it with sometime if she's interested. Or try offering that when she's finished with it she could borrow another if she liked.
This way you can find a good reason to start up a conversation, while staying on the topic so it doesn't sound too forward. If she then does come to you to ask you to play or to borrow another game, there's a chance she might be interested and you can progress the conversation to other things.
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this is a perfect oppurtunity to talk, go over there, deliver the game, talk about the game a little. it's not intrusive you're just delivering the game and you happen to start a conversation.
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its not intrusive if u go over and give her the game and start a convo that usually shows a girl that you liker her duh its not forward if ur just trying to get to know her dont worry about it good luck!
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go for it! let her borrow the game!
tell her you already finised it and if she needs help that your avilable! i think thats what she wants! thats why she asked your brother and not you!! she was just to like shy
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Go for it and have alittle chat. Being an older chick, and Im sure the majority of "older" chicks (whether it be a year or ten years older agree when I say this--nothing is more cute/nice/sweet/pleasant then to have a younger dude trying to pick 'em up, or even the simply "trying to get to know them". I say, go and talk to her, give her the game, attempt convo and if anything, be blunt if she seems disinterested. If you talk and she either shuns you off, or closes the door--she aint worth it anyway. If she looks you in the eye, seems interested, and it all goes smoothly--there you go! No harm is done either way, when you really break it down, and I think its definitly a nice gesture to give the game personally--so long as u dont have a history of stalking or anything....but good luck man, take the step I say!
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Go for it.
You don't know her that well so crashing and burning isn't going to be too harsh, whereas success will still be good :)
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