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I have sensative skin but I want to get tanner. I can't go to a tanning bed because I know my skin couldn't handle it and I don't want to get a fake tanner and have to deal with rubbing it in. So how long should i stay out in the sun and what should I use to tan with, like baby oil or suntan lotion. Also if you know a good self tanner that doesn't require much rubbing in, what is it? Thanks in advance!

well i got dior bronze tanning lostion, and you just apply it like you would apply regular lotion. no extra rubbing in. it worked really well for me, but if youre really pale i wouldnt suggest it.
if you want to tan naturally, wear like 50SPF and tan for like 1 hour or less everyday. develop a routine but ALWAYS wear sunscreen.
hope i helped!

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sometimes i can not tell the difference between capital and lowercase letters,and sometime i look at words and they are backwards or flipped,also i get confused with the letters "d" and "b" or "y" and "g" or "m" and "w"
Why does this happen?

you have dyslexia. dont worry its not really serious. you should just tell your parents/teachers about it, so you can get special help in reading&writing.
dyslexia is a disorder where you do what you described. all it does is slow down reading&writing speeds. sometimes its frustrating, but you can get tutors&stuff like that.
hope i helped!

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I need to be more outgoing. I really want to be able to go up to people and just talk to them. I want to have more confidence. How do i do so? I keep missing my chances to meet new guys.

you just need to face your fears and do it.

this is one of my favorite quotes and it totally motivates me to be more outgoing:
wayne gretzky-
"you miss 100% of the shots you never take"

think about it...

hope i helped you

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OK. You guys explained to me how to read guitar tabs. Now there's only one thing left to ask.

High E-3---------------
B -0---------------
G -0--------------
D -0---------------
A -2---------------
Low E -3---------------

^

the dashed representt he guitar strings, so the tab sorta looks like a guitar. where you see just dashes, thats just spaces inbetween notes.
hope i helped.

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My friends the other day were talking about bases, like " i heard __ got to 2nd base with __" what are the bases, who eva answers this will get a 5

do you know the 4 Fs? a lot of people define their bases differently. i define mine by the 4 Fs- french,feel,finger,fuck.

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Ok well i went to Florida a week ago and i got a little color and i got all these little bumps all on my shoulders and i got them last summer too i think its some kind of sun rash but im not sure...? does anyone know of anything i could use to make it clear up and go away or anything i mean i use like body wash and like noxzeama or how ever you spell it on my back and face for break outs but there not zits so idk please answer...

if it hurts like hell then its sun poisoning which is not good. it hurts and you have to take antibiotics to cure it.
i have a friend thats allergic to the sun. if she doesnt wear sunscreen she gets a sun rash. you could be allergic.
it could just be peeling. i get bumps before i peel.
when you burn you should put some sort of a cold compress on your burn. jsut soak a washcloth in cold water and put it in the fridge for 5 minutes. then put it on the burn. it feels incredibly good. it relieves pain/swelling/redness.
hope i helped!

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Hi, my mom's moving to this house, and my bedroom is really small, so I have to use a daybed. We're trying to ocean theme the room, so I need ocean bedding for a daybed, and I can't seem to find any. I've tried Google, but all that came up were things describing hotels oceanside with bedrooms. It didn't really get what I meant, I guess. So does anyone know of any websites I can go to or any links to ocean bedding for a daybed? Thanks so much.

x3 Erin

oo sounds fun! ok i have a couple ideas.
plan A- you could center your daybed on the largest wall, and paint a sunset behind it. then for your bedding you could just get reds, pinks, oranges, and purples, like a sunset.
plan B- instead of getting patterned bedding, you could just get different color blues for your sheets, pillows, blankets, etc.
hope one of those pleases you!
--cax

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ok soo there is this guy i like ALOT...okay well he is more experienced n i really want to make out with him but im nervous when we get the chance to n i ive never mad out n i think i am ready i just dont know i really want to i mean i am goin on 14 n all my other friends have...n we had a chance at the talent show we were in the bak of the school ne he was about to kiss me but i turned my head n he freaked out n got all mad i mean i was crying n everything......is this a sign of sumthing am i lesbian...ahhhhhh PLZ HELP!!! email me if ya want tickl3_m3_pink1@yahoo.com
XoOoXoOoX
TiCkL3m3PiNk!
13 f tx

ok you are so not a leasbian! if on the spur of the moment you just decided you didnt want to do it, that probly means you arent ready! even if you are ready, that doesnt mean you have to do it! im 15 and ive never made out. i think thats pathetic but then again i go to a private school and theres like 50 guys in my grade, which means only like 15 of them are hot. THATS OK! yea im ready and yea i want to, but im not freaking out. im just going to wait til the right guy comes along! you hear all these stories of peoples 1st kisses being bad because they wernt ready or it wasnt the right guy. just wait!!! and if he got mad at you for not wanting to kiss him, thats retarded and you should definately not go out/makeout with him. that just means he doesnt care about/resspect you. so just wait! theres no rush. youre a kid! enjoy life! and dont try to grow up too fast!!!
--cax

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ok i just got a horse. she is a liver chestnut mare. i want to know what colors would look good on her (like saddle pads and stuff)....i was thinkin blue but my favorite color is pink lol. and i have always had geldings and now that i finally have a girl i can actually dress her up like one! lol any suggestions? thanks!

ok.... please dont dress up your horse... i have a bay mare and i get baker blankets/sheets, black or navy turnouts and she looks very beutiful. when i take her to shows and she wears her stuff it makes her look good. pink and purple halters and crap just make horses look like they should be in a circus or at a petting zoo. would you dress up your dog with a pink outfit? (they have clothes for dogs) but trust me, if you were a horse you you like being dressed up in ridiculous looking colors that made you look like you were tacked up by a 4 year old? i dont think so... keep that in mind...

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I have a 1990 Ford Probe 4 cyl. non-turbo w\Mazda 2.2 motor. Help!!! I just paid $900.00 for valves and head job. After getting the car out of the shop it has no power (bogs and has no get up and go at all). It uses an extreme amount of fuel and it has a strong fuel smell as well as back fires. It drives like this for the most part but once in awhile it will kick in long enough ( a few short miles) to make you think it may be running better then, Wham! It goes right back to it's no power, cutting out, and runs like ---- self. Can you please point me in a direction I can maybe get this problem fixed. Being a single mother of 2 I can't continue this game of nickle and diming me to death, this car has broke me yet I can't afford to buy a different one. Please, any advise appriatiated.

Thank you,
Shelly Wilkins

why did you buy this car? oo but my dad used to have a 1990 ford probe!!!!!!!!! it was red but the muffler fell out and it was really crappy so we got rid of it. maybe you should check the oil or something. i dont know much about cars, but i like them and i used to have a probe so im answering this. random... you dont have to leave me any feedback...

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Im doing a study on rabbits and i would like to know how their faeces are formed.

feces(shit) or faces? learn to spell

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hey what is a machine like thing to make you get abs...

ablounge?

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Ok, I want to try to start wearing makeup, all my firneds do and im feeling kinda left out!
Any ideas on what to do, what brands, saftey tip,
Also I live with my dad so i could ask him
Help!


hey you dont wanna start out with a lot of makeup, so i suggest you get a liquid foundation to match your skin. i use maybellene. like dream matte mousse or wondermatch. those work really well. then you could get some soft black or brown mascara and just apply lightely. its hard to find a good mascara and the one i have now isnt great so i cant help you with that. you can also get like a sheer lipgloss i use covergirl wetslicks.
^^those types of makeup will give you a natural look and it wont be all dramatic n stuff. i suggest that for someone who just started!
hope if works out for you!
--lucky

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Okay, so I'm 14 f. About a year ago my breasts had a growth spurt and now I have stretch marks! I can't wear anything slightly low cut or you see ugly red lines. I'm not a slut or anything, but going to the beach I need to show a little... anybody know what to do?

cocoa butter! it works really well! you can get it at like bath&body works or something like that... it works well just like put it on everyday after you shower! hope i works for you!
--lucky

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Man's oldest question is still without answers: How can we become a 9 foot lumbering green monster of Doom and Discomfort?

We could go the comic book route, using a fully charged gamma bomb and, through nothing short of a miracle, become the Hulk. This method, however, seems a bit impractical as a large dose of Gamma particles would likely melt away any semblence of living matter.

So, my esteemed advicenator patrons, how do we simple creatures achieve the ultimate awesomeness? (Because throwing around oil tankers seems like fun right now)

hey that does sound fun. maybe when you die you will be reincarnated as the hulk. for faster results, kill yourself. i dont suggest that method tho it could be painful and depressing to family and friends (assuming you have family and friends) if you want to be the hulk right now then i suggest you use excessive amounts of steroids and then jump in a large pool of green dye/ink. i hope you enjoy destroying the world!

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okay to start off i know i am not FAT. but i am 4 foot 11 inches and weight about 105. and i dont care what the scale says i care about the way i look. being so short for my age and having a regular appetite for my age doesnt help. i play 2-3 sports but i know i dont eat very healthy. i just dont like the way my stomach looks...my friends all say i am fine but really they are my friends what are they going to say?....

please tell me if you think i am just exaggerating or i should eat healthier/exercise more but PLEASE do it nicely...(i.e: dont swear and call me an idiot)

dont worry... you are getting a great amount of excercise with 3 sports! 4'11" and 105 is great but if you still feel unhappy with yourself then just try to eat healthier. like set limits for yourself. say youre only allowed to have like 1 snack a day and you have to have at least like 1 fruit or something like that. hope i helped!
--lucky

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so a few weeks ago i started a new diet. i'm just eating healthier; more fruit, vegetables and healthier alternatives to food i used to eat. but ever since i started i've been having to go to the bathroom alot more. is this normal? will my body eventually get used to this new food?

well its probly because the foods youre eating now contain a lot more water (thats good) so you just have to pee more. like fruits and vegges contain a lot of water so thats why! hope i helped!
--lucky

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i like to wear my hair up in a bun or pony tail but my mom is soooo annoying about it. she says that i hav beautiful hair and i should wear it down. i keep telling her wen i wear my hair down i get really hot (like today i got out of the shower and i felt sick i was so hot). any suggetions?

please help. i rate!

well maybe you could cut your hair shorter... idk how long it is now but if its really long get some long layers and some length off to lighten it up... or oyu could do styles like a half pony
hope i helped!
--lucky

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ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby?

omg you need to call the police... thats illegal and he should be arrested for that... go to your doctor and have him check to make sure the baby is ok... but you need to call the police! i hope youre ok!!!
--lucky

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I i got the dancing game i wanted (DDR). I cant stop playing it. My mom says i acn lose a lot of weight playing it. Is losing a lot of weight good or bad? I need help.

its good because you are losing fat and gaining muscle... DDR is an extremely good workout so keep doing it!!! personally i love that game lol
--lucky

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