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Ok so i'mkinda on a diet or as i like to consider it a lifestyle choice so anywho i power walk an hour aday after school but then wehn i get home i'm always so tempted to eat cause i'm so hungry and i'm retty sure it's only cause i dont eat anything all day until i get home so i want to start eating breakfast and just little healthy snakcs during the day but i never have time how can i make time and stay motivated also by not eating junk food or any sweets and drinking only water milk and some juices and powerwalking an hour a day and yeah how much weight do you think i can lose in one week
What you're doing sounds really, really unhealthy. Yes, exercising is good, but it's beyond important to be eating. It's actually really bad for you to not eat for long stretches of time, because before you lose weight, everything you DO eat - and you have to eat something in order to stay alive - your body will store as fat because it doesn't know when it will get nutrients next. But I think your best bet about breakfast and snacks is to first - get up earlier [I know that probably will suck, but that's the only way] and second, pack some healthy snacks to take with you to school to eat during the day. And please, please eat - it's really dangerous not to. I hope this helped.
There's this guy in my Spanish class who I really want to talk to. I'm a freshman and he's a sophomore. He's really smart, funny, good at guitar, and cute. I can't say I'm in love because I've never talked to him, but it's like a little crush. I've been dying to talk to him since September and I still haven't said anything. I'm so scared that he'll think I'm a stupid freshman and he'll think I'm weird. A lot of people say he's nice though. What should I do? Please don't say, "Just go up and say hi." I can't do that. I guess I need some sort of an excuse.
Do you sit near him in Spanish? Maybe you could use the class as an excuse to talk to him - ask him if he understands whatever you're doing, and maybe make a joke, and then go from there. It's easier, though, if you have common ground to speak about at first. If you really need an excuse to talk to him - and I understand, I'm the EXACT same way - then definitely use something you're doing in Spanish as a starter. If he's a nice guy, he won't think you're a stupid freshman just because you said something to him. Take a chance, and maybe things could go really well!! Good luck!
okay so i really like this guym but he sort of (please dont judge me as a labeler becuz im not) emo. But im going on a class trip with him and we r the only freshman going. so ill figure out some way to talk to him, but my friend thinks if we bond enough that i should kiss him.
HELP i hav no idea wat to do
First of all, don't kiss him before you really get to know him. And definitely don't kiss him on a school trip the first time you've talked to him. Just talk to him, try to become friends, because it is always good to be friends first, so that you have a foundation and background with the person to rely on even if things don't work as planned. But I wouldn't recommend kissing him on your field trip... that might give him the wrong impression of you, anyway. Good luck!
16/f
Hi. I only like guys who don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, and are nice, smart, and a virgin... but it seems like there are no guys out there at all who fit my description. So I'm just wondering, are there any many guys who are like that? Or are my standards too high?
I ask myself the same question every day. Honestly, it's very, very difficult to find a boy like that - especially a boy who's willing to admit that he's all of those things. There are a few I know - the best place to find them is probably at a church. I know that sounds cliche, but it probably is. The only boys I know like that are very religious. But I think your standards - and mine as well - are probably a little on the high side for this generation... but not so much that you should settle for less. I think, though, that you might want to get to know them before judging them because of things like that - you never know, he might just be a great guy, even if he's done or does one or two of those things. Try to keep an open mind, and maybe you can convince him to stop :).
I have overplucked my eyebrows. Will they ever grow back to normal or would I have to shave it all off?
I want this http://www.netpakistani.com/media/artimages/eyebrows.jpg
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The starting of the brow looks good. Mine is way off.
Mine KINDA looks like these:
http://x59.xanga.com/7a8a90f7c463277638304/z52618941.jpg
http://www.andreaharner.com/archives/AndreaandJerriBlankforweb.jpg
[The woman on the left. Hah look, it's jerri. :x ]
One of my eyebrows looks kinda good and the other just looks really small.
Yes, they will grow back. For a while, you might want to pencil them in. It's really a fine line between perfect and overplucked eyebrows, and it's probably best to get them professionally done. However, that can be expensive, and if you don't want to, then I suggest going really, really slowly, and pulling back away from the mirror every couple of times you pluck to make sure they still look okay.
I hope that helped a little =].
i made a facebook, but i realized it gives out waaay too much personal info! HOW DO I CANCEL IT, OR ATLEAST DELETE ALL MY INFORMATION? Help me pleassee
Do you see the part of your page, it should be a left hand column, that says "Profile" at the top? Next to that there is a little button that says edit. Go there and you will be able to delete any bit of information you have posted.
Hope that helped =]
i think i might be bipolar i have been researching it and i have been displaying all the classic symtoms of someone who might have the disorder i have talked to my mom about it but she won't take me seriously she thinks that i just am joking but i am not i'm scared does anyone know anywhere i can call that will just offer support that i can call without my mom knowing about it?
There are lots of helplines you can call to just talk about it. If you really are bipolar, I understand how you feel. I also understand how your mom feels; bipolar disorder is a HUGE deal, a HUGE mental disorder - I can't express that enough. If you have it, it's nothing you'll ever be able to "get over" and you'll have to be medicated for the rest of your life. Next time you go to the doctor, talk to him/her about how you're feeling. The only way you can really get help is to talk to a licensed professional.
The person who gave you advice before me left you all the hotlines I would have suggested, so I won't leave them again.
Hi, I'm 13/f and i weigh 136.5 lbs. I kno im overweight and i need 2 kno what i can do 2 help me loose weight. I cant really run a far distance without my knee or mi ankle starting 2 hurt.. So, is there any way I can loose weight without running??? Pleeze help!
You could swim or do yoga or pilates, dance, or sit ups and push ups and stuff. And eat healthy. Hope I helped.
wat does masterbate mean? I have seen it in tons of advice columns and I don't know what it means!
i dont need to no but i am curious
Basically..... pleasuring yourself. Jacking off. Umm.. touching yourself?
f/14
so the guy i like, likes someone else. he asks me advice like how to ask her out and stuff like that. he obiously doesn't realize i like him. so yep, he likes this girl( who has bigger boobs than me and is probably 8 pound lighter than me, but diefidentally not as pretty)
how do i get him to forget about her and focus on me. in other owrds how do i get him to like me?
i rate hight!
You could flirt with him, but ultimately who he likes is not really in your control. Just flirt and be nice and hope sometime he'll see you the way he sees her.
is that a good age to babysit? Because I have had like 2 years of experiance with my 2year old nephew!
Yeah, it's fine to babysit then. Some parents would like someone older, like if they have an infant, though. Really, it just depends on the parents of the children you're sitting for and their preferences.
hey! i'm on a healthier diet because i know i have been eating too much crap! i had a good dinner around 8 oclock and haven't ate anything since, since i know it's bad for you! and it's now around midnight, and my stomach hurts really bad! why does it hurt?
Are you hungry?
im going into my freshman yr & ive known this girl for about 7 yrs..shes changed alot and shes going thru so much...she trys to get noticed by doing stuff with guys..it disgusts me but i still want to know im always here for her & at the same time tell that whats shes doing isnt ne good
please help my friend and i stay close!
Find a time when you two can be alone, and have a serious conversation with her. Don't tell her what to do, but tell her that you're concerned and that you'll always be there for her, no matter what. She may not appreciate it now, but I guarantee she will later.
I'm a LONER,a LOSER,a complete chatter box, and people think I'm anoing,I don't have any cool clothes either,Ialso don't stick to anything a start for exsample:baseketball,music lessons...! How do I make friends or even have them to want to be friends with me and maybe get a guy too like to go out with me? P.S. I'm 13 years old, Female,and super shy.
A shy chatterbox. That's new. But...... You just have to do things, talk to people, but keep the talking down to... well, not rambling. And you have to find things you really enjoy, and you'll stick with them. Hope I helped some.
im tryin out for freshman girls basketball---i cant do pushups to save my life!! what can i do to work out the "push ups" muscles???
rate 5 for good answers!
Well, you can use weights to get the same effect, but the only real way to get better at pushups is to do them. Sorry.
Does anybody know if Laney was adopted like you know in eminems songs. i know that halyey is his real kid but what about laney? i know its kind of a dumb question but i dont need to know that thank you! peace.xox
She's his niece, I'm pretty sure.
I've always used a note to break up with someone because I'm shy and when I break up with my boyfriends, I wouldn't be able to look them in their face or be able to talk because I'd be so nervous. So my question is: What's the best way to break up with a guy? You know, like note, phone, in person, online?
In person. It hurts so much more when the person isn't even brave enough to face you when they do it. :(
ok see im 14 and 4 tha past 14 years my dad hasnt been n my life n if he has it was a phone call every couple of years and yest was my birthday and he called me told me happy birthday said he wished he was here i wanna believe him and actually have a dad for once but i dont want him 2 do what hes done before should i trust him or not??????
HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Be guarded, but try. Talk to him, try to hopefully make it through some issues that you must have, with him being gone for your entire life. Try not to get your hopes up too high, though, because it's always so much worse when you get your hopes shot down. But anyway, talk to him, try to form a relationship with him, because if you don't try, you'll end up regretting it. Hope I helped:-).
I have really curly hair. I want to be a straightening iron around $100 since the last straightening iron I got (wet2set $30) leaves my hair looking really dried out & fried. Does anyone know of a flat iron around my price range that we'll leave my hair looking healthier than the cheap one? Thanks!
Try a Chi - they work really well.
Hi, I'm going to the Vans Warped Tour with some friends for the first time this summer. What are some good things to wear/bring? What should I expect? Can you buy CDs there?
Thanks!
Umm wear something comfortable since its an all day thing.. i would say don't really bring anything except money, thats all you really need, and you can buy lots of band merch. there. hope i helped:-)