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heyhey im a 14 year old very very bored person lol um i thought i wud rather waste my time giving advice to ppl but dont get me wrong if u mess with me in anyway tht will tick me of piss me off i will serious make your life miserable...ahh i hate ppl who are useless seriously all they have to talk bout or complain about is how thei cell phone color doesnt match their outfits...now questions like those i will give adive to but it wont be a very happy comment...ok now im goin
peace~
oh and yes tht is my pic...my friend made it black and white for me
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Member Since: July 9, 2006
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Last Update: May 26, 2007
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hey!!
so i just herd this sing in the radio, but i didnt hear who the artist or the song was.. it sounds kinda like rihanna?? so i remembered some of the lyrics soo if you could help that would be great..

now that its raining more than ever
we will still have each other so..
under my arm forever..

im pretty sure that those are almost word for wods lyrics.. sorry but thats all i can remember.. it sounds kinda like rihanna??

thx sooo much in advance!!

~abbey (link)
its called "umbrella" by rihannah hott song lol


I was babysitting this ten year old... he was bein a brat and wouldnt go to sleep... my girlfriend was there and we couldnt have any time alone... so we had coke n we did it cause we were gonna have to stay up to watch him... he said he wanted to try so we let him... he started running around and actin like an indian... we got a pipe and some pot and smoked... he wanted to try but when he did he coughed n said he didnt want to do it... i told him if he didnt he would die... so we smoked 3 bowls with him and he got sleepy and went to bed... I feel bad that i gave this kid drugs... His parents never found out... what should i do??? (link)
u gave him coke!?!?! what the hell is wrong with you!!!!! what ever happen to reading him a bed time story or giving him warm milk or rubbing his back until he falls asleep has society gone mad!!!! i think so you should never ever babysit ever again lets jus pray you dont have any little brothers or sisters or will have any time soon


hello. i am 11 years old and i live in rancho cucamonga CA. The only thing i wear is abercrombie, louis vuitton, hollister, and juicy couture. i am also a girl. i need advice. i am the populaar girl in school. and i would be more popular if i was an ebercrombie model. everyone says i am georgeos and beautiful. and skinny. i have brown hair and brown eyes. and my question to you is what modeling agency i should go to. I REALLY WANT TO BE AND ABERCROMBIE model!
sicerely-
marissa in L.A (link)
well im not sure really but i was signed up with this thing called talent6 its all over the states go on the website www.talent6.com but it cost like 2 dollars


Where could I buy a black or pink hoodie that has black and pink stripes on the inside? (link)
gap or old navy


Since school started ive become friends with a guy, and i think i like him more than that. The other day after realizing my feelings for him were real..i finally admitted it...before id joke aroudn with my friends about how he was cute and things..and one of my friends willa agreed..i asked her if she liked him, but she said, not if you do. i thought that was really nice of her. Yestedday she wrote me a letter sayign she really likes him too. i felt like my stomach dried up. I find it odd how after i say i like him, she does too... she went to one of our mutual friends about it and this girl said id acted like a bitch about the whole thing. Should i continue to like him? afterall..i am the one that did all along...and me and this girl arent like..BEST friends.., everyone says theyd see me and him together more than her and him, and we have more inc ommon...what should i do? how do i show him i like him without beign too pushy before she ..throws herself at him? im not that kind of girl..i barely flirt..what do i do? (link)
you shudnt stop liking him i mean you liked him first if you liked him after then that is another story , i guess maybe you should tell him striaght up how you feel who knows maybe he feels the same or ask him out


I have a bad vaginal odor ..i've already been to a doctor and they said I do not have any infections, and to just continue to wash properly and yada yada yada...however, I wash myself daily and have no idea what is causing this. Does anyone know of any way to get rid of this horrible odor??? (link)
a douche i think tht might solve ur probs i think u can get those at a pharmacy


Okay,
So, my boyfriend, Craig, enrolled in the army about 6 months ago, and left right away for Iraq. Well, a month after he left, I went to a party with a couple of girlfriends. Some man put a drug in my drink, and I passed out on the couch. The man picked me up and took me to a back room and raped me. I ended up getting pregnant, and sine i am pro-life I did not and will not abort the baby. After 5 months of pregnancy, my boyfriend came home and rang my doorbell. When I answered, he saw that I was pregnant and took off.
Now, he won't talk to me, answer any messages on myspace, answer my phone calls or anything!!

what do i do? (link)
you poor thing alright you have to be strong about this all the way if you cant get a hold of him atall i mean even going to his house then get one of his friends or one of your friends to tell him everything and if he is still giving you the childish cold shoulder then confront him for the last time and tell him tht he is a child and that he isnt a man atall and if he really loved you he wud stick by you through the whole way and he didnt so you dont need or want him nemore thats what you do and if you cant confront him forget him you dont need someone holdin you down makin u feel awful about sumthin you didnt do or wasnt your fault you dont need a guy like him if he denies you


ok well to start off im a guy and i've just started working out.i do sit ups, push ups, lift weights and all that other stuff. but what i need help on is with the sit ups. the problem is that i do the situps and i only think that it works in the lower abdominal area and i want it to work on my abdominal sides and upper abdominal too. is there any way that i can do something to work the sidesand upper part that actually works?also i have a flabby chest and i was wondering how i can get rid of it.oh yea and is it normal to feel soar in the muscle area of your arms,legs,and stomache the next day after working out. (link)
yea its very normal to feel pain after working out in like all of your body especially the first day it lets u feel how much work youve done anyways for your side try doing cruches its like sit up but when u go up you move side to side then back down do about a hundred a day until you get used to it then do like 200 for a week then 300 for a week as for your cheast lift alot of weights and sooner or latter it will all be muscle just dont stop working out or you will gain alot to weight and lose muscles and dont work out to hard or you will hurt yourself


hey..

I'm a freshmen 15/f

The other day my friend said I was kinda prepy but I don't see myself as prepy at all and I hate that I was called prepy. I see myself as more athletic than prep but I mean I get almost all my clothes from ae so I guess I kinda am prepy but I just hate the fact that I was called prep. And ever since I was recely in h.s I've been so worried about my looks, hair, weight, etc. and I'm kinda confused who I am right now cause I never thought I'd be called prepy or worry about my appreace soo much. So is this normal for me to worry about my appreance and like how can I figure out who I am and what I wanna be? (link)
ya its very normal but maybe you should worry about if you like how you look and if you are comforatble thats why nobody should label anybody they either like what they were called or hate it so much they just want to completely change becus of one word...emo goth punk prep alternative i just dont understand people should just wear what they want to wear and if someone tells you that you look like a prep tell them you dont care and that you arent any kind of label and you like how you dress and wont change becus of it be proud to be you and dont let anyone crush or change that


I'm having some irritation in my vag and anus, like they are both REALLY itchy all of the time and sometimes after I wipe (when going to the bathroom) there is a little bit of blood. I don't think it's a yeast infection because I'm not seeing any yeast. If it helps I'm 13, have my period, and not sexually active. Thanks!
-Lexi (link)
ok well its either a sign of you get your period....yes i know you already have your period....or you wipe a lil to hard with causes sensitive skin to peal a bit and let out some blood...or if you itch down there (which i recomend you dont) you its to much or to hard be aware that down there is the most sensitive part of your body....so i think when you go to the bathroom you should always wet the toilet paper with water not just a drop get it all wet and wipe yourself lightly and gentally it might stink at first but you will feel better later...if nothing else works and itstill hurts get a small bucket is fill it up (not all the way like 75% of it) with warm water not hot make sure u feel the water and then fill the rest of the bucket with vinager and then pour all of it over your vagina ...do that one a day and after a few days if it still hurts i reccomend you go to a doctor alright i really hope you feel better good luck


WELL heres the thiing

theres this guy he gets mad easily like i say somwething and he tells me off he says im childisha dn i doitn say anything bad like i act normal he gets mad really easily ill ask one thiing and he gets into a bad mood i have tried talking to him but he turns it into a fight please help what can i do or what conversation can i start with him not to annoy hiim (link)
maybe you shouldnt just talk to him atall i mean if everytime you say something to him he is going to yell them why the hell bother yourself with talking to him atall let him eat himself alive with his anger problem you shouldnt be a part of it....and if you seriously want to stay friends (i dont know why) then just dont say anything to him let him start the conversation but i seriously think he isnt worth talking to if hes going to scream at you everytime


17/M

so yeah, this os probably going to end up being really long so you can just leave now if you want...so yeah, some little background.

...so up untill like the beginning of this year (senior year of highschool) i have always been reeeaalllly shy. i only had a few best friends (granted, they were mostly girls) but no one that ever LIKED me. then, as soon as i hit senior year, i changed, a LOT. its like my whole outlook on life changed completely, i figured that this is my last year in highschool so i might as well go all out. ive gotten really involved in school clubs and all that, im a LOT more confident, ican actually talk to my peers without being too shy...and i think people are starting to notice it...so far this year ive had three girlfriends, and ive flirted (which i NEVER did before) with tons of other girls...so now i have my girlfriend of three months nd i KNOW im not gonna leave her, i love her to death....but at my work (i work for a city park so i only have 7 coworkers, including my boss) but yeah, at my work theres these two girls that i talk to more than any others, and i flirt with them like crazy....their both kinda cute, but i couldnt really see myself going out with one of them...but the other one...thats where the confusion starts. so yeah, me and this girl flirt more than anyone else, including my girlfriend...it gets really bad. i know im not going to leave my girlfriend for this girl, but id still like to get to know this girl better and see what happens with that...is that normal? i mean me and this girl really kinda just "clicked" nd it seems to me that she really likes me. she knows that i have a gf, but shes always sayin that that doesnt matter. so the question i pose to anyone willing to answer...is it incredibly wrong to flirt with this girl? i KNOW that theyll never meet eachother because the ONLY way theyd meet eachother is through me, and im not about to let that happen...so is it okay that i keep flirting with the other girl? what should i do? keep in mind id like to hear arguments for both sides, to keep flirting with and to stop....so yeah, thank you sooo much in advance... (link)
alrigh first off...if you seriously loved your girlfriend to death you wouldnt look at any other girl so much as flirt with another girl......or even leave her for another girl so you prolly love her but as a friend....and it was wrong for you to flirt with a girl besides your girlfriend....it lets the other girls see how much you really care for your girlfriend which right now to them...its not that much... but if you get with the other girl emagine she is going to remeber how you flirted with other girls while you had a girlfriend and left your girlfriend for another girl she is going to think well if he did that with his ex girlfriend then he can do it to me...so theres one of two things she might do she might just say hey if he is flirting and crap then i should to ...or she will feel your unfaithful and hard to trust and leave you....and if this girl seriously said that it doesnt matter that you have a girlfriend and she still flirts with you it will show that when you get together with she will flirt with guys and say to herself...wait i have a boyfriend...it doesnt matter....and if you seriously dont care for your girlfriend like this leave her before you hurt her...but dont tell her becus of another girl...that is just a slap in the face and it will make her feel like she wasnt good enough of a girlfriend


anyone know some good
techno/rap music
thats kinda like dj fast
but like good
like remix's of songs
if you do
tell me some!!!
thanxxx! (link)
ok there is skatman and satisfaction and dj sammy has alot of good techno songs also...and for remix's of songs dont cha by the pussy cat dolls has a really nice remix but make sure its the remix and oh the song everytime by britney spears get the remix for that its really hot


My family and i had 2 dogs. my mom found a cute puppy and asked us [my sister and me] if we wanted one. i said no because the 2 dogs that we already have get no attention and are always chained up outside [my mom makes them, so don't point fingers at me] and i said that the puppy would end up exactly like the other dogs: with no attention and always chained up. we got another dog anyways. and what i said is what happened. what do i do? i feel bad but i never wanted that puppy because i knew what would happen (link)
well i guess you can try to spil the puppy a little bit like tickle it or scratch its belly every once in a while and give it extra treats you can also give it walks maybe you can do that for all the dolls every once in a while or you could either just sell or give away the puppy


Hey i am a 15 year old girl!
Well on our school camp i told this guy that i liked him and then found out he likes my best mate. on top of this my other mate now likes him to....so there are 3 girls that all love the same guy! it is just so hard coz i want him so bad i have liked him for a year now and the other 2 have only just started liking him! i also found out he liked me 2 years ago for ages! I need help......how can i make him like me but not hurt my friends? (link)
well you really cant make anyone like you..they have to like you by their self i think the best way to get him is to act as if you dont care...let the other two girls go after him and when he see's that your he only one not all over him he is going to get attracted to you and flirt with him but not to much just a little and when he starts to flirt back talk to someone else or act as if you have to go somewhere or d something...but no touch severe flirt...that just shows your trying to hard


well me and my friend

we arnt sure if we are going out anymore
well his name is eric
and he isnt a virgin but i am and i feel like i am ready to you know...with him
but i am 14 and i dont know i like him a lot an u know he os cool but i think whenever i am with him all we do is kiss or makeout we dont ever get to talk only on the phone and myspace. buti am gonna go see him on sunday and i think that is when we are gonna do it help me an I making the right decision?!?! (link)
wow your only fourteen and you want to lose your virginity to some guy that you barely know and think he is soo cool (you know he can kiss)but that isnt good enough plus your still very young i think you should seriously think this over listen if your not convinced to wait them atleast have an extrenly looong talk with him dont even bring up you know ...so he wont fake nething just talk to him get to really know him (and through this whole conversation no kissing or anything like that) and if you ohnestly truthfully really enojy him and his company and he feels the same for you then ok but dont do it if he doesnt feel the same for you...alright good luck


I know this guy and we knew each other but we never really talked talked. And recently we started "talking" well. He blocks his emotions out so he wont get hurt. And i am trying to make him trust me and show his feelings. But, he says he doesnt cry or get sad. He says his mind is blank and He blocks out things so he wont get hurt. I have NO idea how i can get around this, like to show him something he has never felt before. He hasnt even been tickled in a long time he said. I asked him if he liked romance he said Yeah, and i said like what. Hes like when a girl is sad or crying i like holding her. I said well, what about the other way around. He said like the girl holding me? I said yes. Hes liike well its never really happend to me. I wanna like ... i cant even explain it. Make him happy? he says nothing makes him happy, so i feel like i need to do something. I am not gunna just sit back and watch him sufer like this. He is 17 btw

Thanks so much! It means a lot (link)
um maybe you should tell him that you want to try something new and that you what to hold him and make him feel better and try it even if you dont like him in a romantic way just hold him as a friend....i hope that works


Is it appropriate for my 12 year old 7th grade sister to wear a little makeup for when she cheerleads at football games. If so, what kind? (link)
ya sure no problem as long as like she doesnt over do it like madonna or something...lipgloss or a light pretty shade of lipstick bluch is ok two if her uniform is red its ok to let her wear rep lipstick if she likes and maybe maybe a lil but of eye shadow..dont let her go crazy its ok to wear make up its for a good occasion


okay well im in a bit of a BIG pickle. i have this guy friend and ive been friends with him ever since i was 3 years old. ive liked him on and off when i was younger but not anymore. the other day i was at his house for a party and my mom was talking to his mom and shes like well u no who he likes.
my mom - who?
his mom - guess.
then my mom guessed some of my friends and then his mom told her me!! im like WHAT!!!!!! when my mom told me. and his mom told my mom that he was going to take me to all of the dances.

im so confused because i dont know if she heard him wrong or if its true. help what do you think? its just i cant really believe it since no one ver really has crushes on me and i dont no why. but yeah HELp
sorry its long , ill give 5s for good answers (link)
well i guess its kind of cute i mean you said it yourself you used to like him on and off at times...theres two things you can do you can contront him and make him feel like an idiot or you can forget about it and wait for him to ask you to the dances and if you like him by then go on ahed with him and later u can tell him about this whole thing or if you dont have any feelings for him just tell him thathes your best friend and you dont want to ruin your great friendship and you like things the way they are alright well good luck


okay so in 5th grade, i was the girl that had boobs. but now like 4 years later, i haven't really grown a whole lot. & i'm just wondering like what the deal is? is there something wrong or anything i can do to make them grow? thanks (link)
ur only in the nine grade you shouldnt worry your body is still yet to change and become differnt you neednt to worry




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