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He doesnt let anyone in...emoitionless
I know this guy and we knew each other but we never really talked talked. And recently we started "talking" well. He blocks his emotions out so he wont get hurt. And i am trying to make him trust me and show his feelings. But, he says he doesnt cry or get sad. He says his mind is blank and He blocks out things so he wont get hurt. I have NO idea how i can get around this, like to show him something he has never felt before. He hasnt even been tickled in a long time he said. I asked him if he liked romance he said Yeah, and i said like what. Hes like when a girl is sad or crying i like holding her. I said well, what about the other way around. He said like the girl holding me? I said yes. Hes liike well its never really happend to me. I wanna like ... i cant even explain it. Make him happy? he says nothing makes him happy, so i feel like i need to do something. I am not gunna just sit back and watch him sufer like this. He is 17 btw
Thanks so much! It means a lot
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well your a great friend for wanting your friand to be happy but sometimes you just gotta be there for them. he's already started to open up to you if he told you all that so...just be there for him. people don't want to get hurt so doing that actually isn't that unusual. really, i know it takes alot of parience and you don't think it will help but...just be there for him and let him talk to you. who knows, maybe you'll be the girl who holds him. but for now i'd just keep talking to him.
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maybe, just maybe he sold his soul to someone... never know
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um maybe you should tell him that you want to try something new and that you what to hold him and make him feel better and try it even if you dont like him in a romantic way just hold him as a friend....i hope that works
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