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Q: I'm not sure where to turn. I feel like I have run out of options and I just can't cope.
I've seen a pyschiatrist, physchologist, hypnotherapist and counseller- none helped. I recently went to my head of year when things were really too much- to the extent when it was either help or die- and she, although she said she wouldn't since she saw it wouldnt help, has just asked a counseller to speak to me. I need real help. I know it can help to talk through fears and everything but it hasn't helped me in the past and I cannot put myself through the pain of living for the date where I saw a therapist and begging them to help me. It was hell and it never really helped anything.
I need SOMETHING more now. Things are really bad at the moment. It's hard to explain but basically I have complete phobias of lots of things (certain films, accents, places, anything) that I can relate to a certain person who hurt me. I don't want to go into this since it's not overly relevent to this question.
I just want to know if there is ANYTHING else out there. I really don't know what to do. I want to die. I feel like everything is helpless and no one can help me. I'm not allowed medication as the pyschiatrist felt I was too dependant on things. I don't know where else to turn. My parents don't either.
The reason I went to my head of year was for this reason- I am totally stuck. I can't handle it. I feel like I am falling and no one can stop me. I need help so badly- I just can't see anything out there.
Please reply if you can; thankyou xxxx
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ok, you need Jesus. it's as simple as that. ask Him into your heart. read the Bible. pray. ask God for help. He'll help you. I promise. don't give up. i'm praying for you.
xoxo
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Q: I'm 14 and I already lost my virginity... Is that normal?
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it's not biblical, but in todays society totally normal. but i do not encourage it.
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Q: my father abuses me what should i do
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call the police, tell an adult
xoxo
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Q: What do you do if you find yourself more and more each day, liking a guy who does not believe in God? I am a christian and I have my morals, standards and beliefs and he doesn't meet my number one standard which is believeing in God and having a relationship with him but, on the other hand, I am so drawn to him I can't help it.He's a really great guy but should we just stay friends and nothing more?
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you should become pretty good friends with him. then gradually start telling him about God. if converts to Christianity, date him and thank God! if not, ya'll should just remain friends. it is sinful to date a non-christian
xoxo
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Q: Are girls scared of erections? I mean if you're making out and they feel one, would they be freaked out?
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i would be surprised... not disgusted or freaked out... most girls would ignore it, i mean it's completely natural.
xoxo
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Q: Hey gals,
to any of you who arent very close to your moms, how did you tell her when you started your period and how did she react?
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ok my mom wakes up at 5:30 every morning and i wake up at 6:30. so at 6:30 in the morning i just went up to my mom and said i started my period. she was like REALLY????? but now we're alot more open and closer ever since.
sooo... yea. i don't know if that helped or not. but i hope i did help!
xoxo
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Q: My periods are very irregular, even though i've had them for almost 4 years now, my hair is falling out, im always tired, i get contipated and my nails are really weak. Does anyone what these symptoms could mean? my mum has a thyroid robleem and thinks i could have it also, i want to go to the docters but im terrified of needles, and they'll want a blood sample.
Please help
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those are symptons of anorexia or bulimia, but if you don't have either one of those, then you really should tell your mom.
xoxo
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Q: im 13 and ive never had my period but ive ad the white stuff that comes before it for like 2 years. is this normal? and how long after the white stuff does your period come? thanks a lot.
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ya i had the exact same thing. i started with the white stuff at like late 12 early 13. and i got my period early 14. sooooo ya, completely normal!
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Q: Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this?
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i'm a Christian, and i do believe the world is going to end. i just don't know when. and it won't be because of crime or w/e. it'll be because of all the signs in revelation. one of the sign is jerusalem will be rebuilt. and they already have the design. sooo yea. thats what i believe.
xoxo
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Q: Teen christianity is becoming an enormous problem. In hordes normal children are being brainwashed into believing their elders that the world will end within their lifetimes.
As a result kids aren't just kids anymore. Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." We're busy thinking about heaven and our church before we hardly even had a chance to see the world, and we're waiting for the "world to end."
What a crock of sh**. I personally don't even want to go with Jesus if there is an apocolypse. I never was attracted to Christianity. Your parents shove it down your throats before you even have a chance to thin for yourselves. It's a religion created by old men, for old men, and against personal gain or women in general. Well, being an AMBITIOUS woman and a FEMINIST I want nothing to do with this faith. I know I'll be getting some violent attacks from all of you brainwashed little turds about how right you are and wrong I am, and I'll sit here and sigh and understand because you're in a box that you didn't necessarily put yourself in.
So here is my question- what makes you believe anyway?
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dude... that was mean. God loves you soooo much. He sent His son to die for YOU. because He loves YOU that much. you should be on your knees thanking Him, not insulting him. you said, "Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." no it's not! fun: hanging with friends, playing outside, playing with pets, hanging with family.
not fun: sex before marriag, stealing, hurting others (physically and emotionally), drugs, drinking under age. that's just a few examples. Christianity doesn't teach the world will end in your life time. the bible does give signs as to when the rapture will happen. some of the signs have already happened. so i do think that there is a chance the rapture could happen in my life time. why would you choose hell over Heaven? i really feel sorry for you. i hope to see you in heaven with me. i really do. oh yeaand what makes me believe? faith.
xoxo
i'll pray for you, and for all non-Christians
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Q: okay my mom is going to dallas for the night till tomorrow at lunch, and my sister is watching us. ahe cant drive though, i need some good ideas of things to occupy me, that dont involve tv, books, or hanging out with my siblings
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Q: all my friends are really pretty. they are all blonde and skinny and rich. im the opposite. im ugly, not good clothes, overweight. everytime i go somewhere like the movies with my friends the guys all want to make out with them and sit with them when they just ignore me. when my friends suggest they makeout with me they pretend to gag and say ewww. it makes me really sad. help! how can i make myself prettier or find a guy who appreciates me? sometimes it feels like i deserve a boy more than the other girls. im a good person and friendly.
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hey! don't talk about yourself like that! you are beautiful! God formed you, and He does not make mistakes! you'll find that one perfect guy soon enough!!!
xoxo
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Q: ok..is it possible for someone to only have their period every other month??...i rate
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yup!!! my friend has hers eve y other month!!!!
xoxo
Kristen
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Q: hi me!!! ha ha!
ok i have an announcement!!! ok, Lauren, Danielle, Sarah, Caroline, Colleen, Hannah, Allie, and Tally are trying out for cheerleading right now!!!!!! i'm soooo proud of ya'll!!! good luck!!! remember God's plan!!! i'm prayin!!!!
xoxo
Kristen
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go warriors! navy pride! #1! yea! GO CHEERLEADERS!!!!!
wooooooo!!!!!!
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Q: is it true that you cant use tampons until you had your period for a year?
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no way!!!!! my friend started using tampons on her second cycle!!!
hope i helped!!!
xoxo
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Q: My BFF told me that when you feel someone in watching you (you know that feeling??) it means demons are in the room with you. I'm so scared now!! Whenever I get that feeling I scream and get really scared
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i seriously doubt it. God is always in the room with you though!!!!
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Q: Ok well here's my problem, my mom is like super christian and I think I wanna follow by the rules of buddah and I want to be boodist! but I still belive in god! I dunno what one to choose. And plus if I do decide to become budist I dont wanna tell my mom! I dont know what to Do! arg! help!
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i think being a christian is the greatest thing ever!!!!
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Q: how do i make my day more stress free
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pray!! have quiet times!!! God will help you!!!
xoxo
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Q: Im doing a study on rabbits and i would like to know how their faeces are formed.
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God formed their faces. He formed everything!!!
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Q: im petrified of dying,evry time i think about it i have butterflys in my stomach and i feel sick. i usally think about it wen im about to go to bed then i carnt sleep.how can i stop feeling so scared of dying?i dont wana see a therepyst.is this normal?
16/f
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if you are a christian you have nothing to worry about!!! if you're not.... then i strongly advice you to go to church. Jesus died for you. believe and love him. without God you will go to hell with satan. and who wants that?
if you need anymore advise one the whole God thing, feel free to ask!!!!
hope i helped!!
xoxo
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hey ya'll!!
i LOVE to help people! ask me anything, i've probably been there! i've been through alot!!
alot of my advice will probably contain some refrence to God! i'm a strong christian! God is awesome!! can't wait to hear from you!!
love always!!
xoxo
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Gender: Female Location: Texas Occupation: volleyball player Age: 14 Member Since: March 15, 2005 Answers: 57 Last Update: April 18, 2005 Visitors: 5366
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