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Gender: Female
Location: London, England
Occupation: Psychology Student
Age: 19
Member Since: March 16, 2005
Answers: 3
Last Update: March 16, 2005
Visitors: 792
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me and my da havent spoke for about a yr since i got caught smokin weed... my dad completely turned his back on me while my mom was there with me the whole time and i love her i miss the relationship witt my dad but at the same time im so mad at him (even though i was the one that screwed up) for turnin his bak on me i have two sides about this and its gettin mixed and i dunno wut i shud do... hes not the type of dad u cud sit down and have a conversation about this with... plz help (link)
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Even though you were in the wrong in the first place your dad is also in the wrong. As a father he can't have expected for your whole life to be smooth sailing all parents have to go through some rough times with their kids. I bet he wasn't perfect. If you feel you can't talk to him write a letter explaining everything, why you decided to smoke weed in the first place and that you want a relationship with him. Your dad may feel very let down so maybe you could apologise to him. I commend your mum for supporting you and hope that you and your dad can make up.
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is it wrong to lose your virginity at 14? whats so wrong about it and will it hurt? im scared to do it cuz i think it will hurt but i really really want to...so will it hurt for my first time?? (link)
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At 14 you may think your grown but believe me your not. Most people that lose their virginity at an early age regret it and you don't want to be left in that situation. If somebody is pressuring you into having sex this is wrong. There are other sexual things that you could do without having sex (use your imagination) but at 14 I don't know why your not happy with holding hands and kissing, but you seem to be quite curious about having sex. At your age their are more cons than pros and sex is something very intimate that should be caried out between two responsible consenting people that can handle the consequences (pregnancy, sexual disease) and they shold be in Love.
I hope you make the right decision.
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My cousin's name is Nicole-she's on the left of the picture on my site. Don't get me wrong, I love her and I even wish I was like her at times. But everytime I'm around her, I feel like she's better than me and that I can't even compare to her. We always get annoyed of eachother after about one hour. I don't know what I'm doing wrong to annoy her. Everytime we get in an argument, I'm the one that always gets hurt. I think it's mainly because I'm younger and she always has better comebacks. What should I do when this happens? What can I do to prevent the arguments. (link)
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Invite Nicole around, go to hers or go out to dinner where it's only you and her. Then talk to her she may not see a problem but you do. Tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels about the situation then together see if you can come up with a solution. If you spend alot of time with each other maybe you should cut back on the amount of time you spend with each other. Remember your family so you'll always have a connection and you will always get a bit irritated with eachother i'm sure at times it's her that annoys you! But talk to her and see if the situation can be resolved if you leave it it may get worse.
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