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ok heres the issue-
theres this guy at my school(lets call him josh) and me and josh always hang out at school. about the second day after we started hanging out, josh started to flirt with me. ALOT. the problem is hes a senior, and i think he has a girlfriend, but she doenst go to our school. should i flirt back???
thanks
only flirt back with him if you reely like him and you think he likes you. but if you reely suspect he has a girlfriend, then dont flirt with him. he'd be cheating on his grl and you wouldnt be getting the best you deserve. hope this helps!
Ok well Ive had this good friend for awhile (not too long) and before everything was fine... But she has been getting on my nerves like crazy for the past months. I'm having this party with only girls and it should be really fun.. but I dont want her to come.. I'm afriad she's going to find out and feel hurt. All i want is someway for her to get plans so she wont be able to come! But i know that I cant set that up! I need advice and not something like "tell her how you feel" BECAUSE THATS NOT AN OPTION
if its a small party- then dont invite her if you dont want to, and if she finds out, tell her that your parents would only allow a certain number of people whos parents they are familiar with. if its like a big party, and you dont want to invite her, either tell her that shes annoyin you or try to make her bust that day by settin her up on a date with one of your guy friends. im sure you can find plenty of stuff to keep er busy. hope this helps!
i liked this guy and all of my friends knew about it. i was talking to my friend one day and she said that he had a girlfriend and today i was asking my friend who she liked and she said that she was going out with the guy that i like. i'm really mad but i dont know if i should tell her.
you should definetly tell her. she knew you liked hi mand she still went out with him. a good friend would have not done so or at least tell you about it before you asked. straigten it out with her. hope this helps!
i am fat, not to just myself but other ppl have clled me fat. any way ive tried diets and excersize, nothing works! i need to become anorexic. i just cant stop eating the foods i like! any ppl have some advice besides pills for me to stop eating? thanks appriciate it.
have your mom not buy you anymore junk food when they go to the grocery- that way- u wont need to be worryin about eating wrong. then exercise about ever day. do stuff like curl ups ( to work out your stomach) squats( to work out your legs), and push ups ( to work out your arms. hope this helps!
ok hi. im a 13/f and ive been dating my bf for like idk 5 months and were really close.and well his ex girlfriend and me have became really good friends (they went out for like 10 months) and my bf always tells me about how he wants to be friends with her again (they got into some huge fight over nothing) and so i hooked them up to be friends again. so today at lunch when they saw eachother they gave eachother a look that waslike " i still love you" right in front of me i didnt kknow what to do so i just walked away.. i talked to her about it but she says nothing will happen and she'de never do it that to me... also my bf is knda known for cheating on his gf's.. so far he hasnt though...
WHAT DO I DO??????
luv...jealous and confused
confront your friend and your bf. tell them that its reeall buggin u. try to observe if they do stuff like that again- if they do -break up with your bf and try to stiil be friends with him and his ex -grl. hope this helps!
Well i have been talking to this kid off and on and it seems like he likes me when we hang out but then when i talk to him online or on the phone he acts different and i don't like it but I dont know what to do because when i hang out with him hes like all over me and is different it seems like he cares but then when im not with him it seems like he dosnt what should i do?
just try to be friends with him and nothing more. he wouldnt be a good boyfriend if he keeps on acting the way you described. hope this helps!
what does IM mean??? i've been told to IM someone... i'm confused!!! lol. is it some american thingy??? coz i'm australian.
im means you go on Aol Instant Messenger (AIM) and you talk to your friends online. to get aim, go to aim.com and sign up and get a user name (which is your id.)then add your freind's user names to your buddy list and you can talk to them whenever they are on. hope this helps!
ok theres this guy at my school whos a junior and im a sophmore and hes soo sweet..hes not really that HOTT but hes not ugly..and he has the BIGGEST crush on me ever...we hang out everyday and stuff and we went to a bonfire together and we held hands and kissed...the thing is...i have a boyfriend of 6 months who i really do love....and ive never cheated on him til now...i totally regret it..and wil never do it again but i feel so bad and now ryan (the guy i kissed) is all upset because i told him i cant cheat on my boyfriend no more and stuff and hes all hurt...but some of my friends knew about what happened and they want me to tell my boyfriend soo bad but i dont want to..i just want to let it go and never do it again :( and ryan calls me 24/7 even when im w/my boyfriend!! idk what to do please help me... :(
i know its hard, but you should tell your boyfriend. wouldn't you want to kno if he cheated on you? and tell ryan not to call you anymore, and that you dont like him in that way- tell him that you just want to be friends. (and dont spend so much time with him like how you used to)...hope this helps!
What Should I get My Boyfriend For Valentines Day??....He's 14 and He Has Just About Every Cologne Made!...Because thats what I was going to get him..He is a Skateboarder...umm..thats about it...What Should I Get Him??
get him a cd that he likes and some chocolate. perfect gift-always. hope this helps!
im tryin 2 put on a few pounds. wat r sum ways to gain some healthy weight without having to eat an excessive amount of food. my goal is to get in 3200 cals a day(i no, thats a lot!) PLZ HELP me find some ways i can get these calories in! its hard to eat that much but i REALLY wanna be a few lbs heavier thanx!
IF YA WANT ILL RATE U A 5!!
one way to gain pounds without eating unhealthy is by working on your muscles. this way, you dont have to overeat or eat 3200 calories a day- you can just go on how you usually do. work on your muscles- the stronger they are, the more they weigh, increasing your weight. you can do stuff like squats, curl-ups, push-ups, and other stuff l9ke that to work out your muscles. hope this helps!
ok well im bulimic..im trying to deal with my problem but i haven't been doing it for that long but like everytime i stick my fingers down my throat it like feels like i scratch something in the same spot everytime and then it starts bleeding..is that the reason its bleeding?
xO thanks
its cause youre doin it in the same spot and its gettin sore- also cause the acid and all the wierd chemicals in your stomach. you should reely work on fixing this problem- its bad for you and your health. go to your mom. she'll probably take you to a center where they work on fixing problems like that. (you could also go to a school counselor) hope this helps!
ok well me and my boyfriend are 13..and i heard from like a bunch of people that hes getting me a necklace and flowers but i have no clue what to get him..like i was at the mall yesterday and i went into like every store and i couldn't find anything..i dont want to get him something to expensive cause i really dont have that much money..but like can anyone give me any ideas and like the price they might be? thanks
buy him a cd or burn one for him (one that he likes) and some chocolate. you could also buy a giftcard (like $10?) at a store he likes to go to.
For v - day... if i got my boyfriend two little teddy bears... (ones a girl and ones a boy)... that have magnetic noses so its like they are kissing... would that be too girly like giving him teddy bears and stuff?
its a cute idea but it depends on your guy- does he think its sweet if you do something like that? its kind of sort of reely girly, but the idea is still sweet and cute.
My fourteen year old daughter has been going out with this nineteen year old boy since the beginning of January, first of all she lied to me saying that he was sixteen. I am quite worried about this. Can somebody help me and tell me what I should be doing. She is my only daughter, in fact my only child. I am worried. Help.
break them up- hes 2 old for her! ground her or somethin, just make sure she doesnt leave the house to go meet him. and make sure shes not seeing him no more. if you have to , try 2 fix her up with someone else.
Well, to make a long story short.. I like this guy. He has just recently broke up with his girlfriend but they are always on and off and he said this is the last time hes going back to her. And he says its over. This time he said serisouly that he isnt going back to her, and i really belive it. I don't know how to tell him that I like him and were doing this thing together with alot of other people like a play thing. I'm really not sure how to bring this up .. help please, and thanks in advance.
-inlovex3
just tell him how you feel and if he doesnt feel the same way, get out of there and on to your regular life. but if he still likes you and hes still going back to the other grl, then break it off with him. he aint worth it if hes gonna play you.
respected advicenators,
well i am from india, and currently doing my master of science in life sciences- biotechnology.
but after completing the course this year i would like to for mba. well how is my decision? secondly, should i do a job first gain an experience and then go for an mba or just start preparing for mba entrance without and job experience.
i have taken this decision since i am not interested in research jobs. please to provide me a proper advice. i am really very confused.
thanking you.
i think you should go for your mba and you reely dont need to do a job experrience if you dont want to.
Hi...um i like this one guy and i think he likes me, but everytime i get one of my friends to ask him if he likes me, he says that he doesn't. He always is staring @ me in the halway and he smiles @ me and stuff! he's really cute and really nice and i really like him! HELP! i rate high!
14/f
I dont nkow but maybe he does like you and doesnt kno if you like him or not. If thats the case, then of course he aint gonna tell your friends that he likes you. I think you should ttly ask him out!
does anybody know how hard it is to get into princeton b/c i am freaking out about getting into it. i am a straight A student but will it be enough?
you ahve to have good grades, extra curricular stuff like a sport, some type of language, and volunteering services. And to get into princeton, you hav to hav a lot of this stuff.
In my school should I do lacrosse or track? I like them both but I'm not sure which to try out for. Can someone give me their opionon? Please don't say one is better than the other give me reasons why. Thank you!
i think you should go out for track. its more running and physical fitness. it will definitely keep you in shape.
okay, i have this great guy friend he would do anything for me and if someone would bug me he'd get rid of them and i've liked him for a real long time and all and i would do anything for him too but i dont want to risk our relationship if he doesnt like me but he has been dropping little hints like lots of smiling hugs and when he gives me a high five i holds my hand for quit a while but i dont know if i should risk it or not cuz i have liked him for more then 5 months so plz help me on this one *i rate high*
u cshould definetly ask him out. form wat you said, it seems that he really likes you!