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okay, i have this great guy friend he would do anything for me and if someone would bug me he'd get rid of them and i've liked him for a real long time and all and i would do anything for him too but i dont want to risk our relationship if he doesnt like me but he has been dropping little hints like lots of smiling hugs and when he gives me a high five i holds my hand for quit a while but i dont know if i should risk it or not cuz i have liked him for more then 5 months so plz help me on this one *i rate high*
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u cshould definetly ask him out. form wat you said, it seems that he really likes you!
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Well, this is tricky. What you can do is get a friend to ask him who he likes, or ask his best friend who he likes. I gave this advice to my friend, it works. If he likes you, take the liberty of asking him to a school dance or to the movies. Be sure to say that it will be a date. If he doesn't like you then just be his friend, he might relize that he wants to go out with you, it will take time though.
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It can't hurt to ask, if you really like him tell him, don't be afraid that he won't have the same feelings back. I think he likes you. If he doesn't like you, then you can still be friends and even if it is a little awkward just be yourself and everything will be fine. Go for it, it's ok to take risks.
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Well my best advice on this one comes from my own personal experience. I had a best guy friend who was like a brother to me, we were so close that our parents even trusted us to spend the night at each others houses, and mind you i'm 18 at the time i was 14-17 and my parents wouldn't even let me have a guy in my basement with the lights off lol. Well anyways, we never messed around nothign we were strictling friends, however i was like in love with this boy. And he always told me how much he liked me but i wouldn't risk our friendship cause it was way to valuable to me. Well he finally tlaked me into trying something and we tried for like 2 weeks and then it just wasn't working and now our friendship is really messed up. We barely even talk anymore and i stil can't figure out why. We always promised each other if it didn't work we would still be best friends but it didn't work that way and it kills me inside and i still cry over it because i really did love this kid like he was my own brother.I kinda depends on how big of a risk taker you are and if you are willing to lose his friendship over this, if you really value his friendship more then anything then i would advise not to risk it, but if you are willing to go for it then you never know, somethign good may come out of it! but if you don't think its worth the fact that you could lose your friendship then don't. Friends are way more valuable then a boyfriend! Your friends will be there for you forever and boyfriends will just come and go!!
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