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Hey, I'm almost 14, and I look young for my age, my friends say I look 11 or 12. I'm Asian and really skinny and a bit shorter than average(163 cm), I know it's embarrassing, but my boobs are small, I mean, I'm almost an A, and what I'm really worried about is that they develop really slow while my friends started off the same as me but are already B's and C's. My birthday is in 3 months and I'm feeling insecure about this. Advice appreciated thank you so much!!! (link)
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hey,
this is something you need not to worry about everyone grows at their own rate. when i was your age i was no bigger then an A cup till i was 16/17 then my breasts started to grow and i now out do all my friend at 24.
be happy with the size you have as you don't have to worry about the expense of have to buy bras for big boobs (let me tell you the bigger the boobs the higher the cost of the bra and less options in style), you also haven't got to worry about your boobs bouncing too much in sports class etc just be patient they will grow when they are ready
this is something you don't really have much control over unfortunately.
hope this helps to give you the confidence you need to move forward
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im girl 17,i told my classmate(boy) who is also my crush in the concrete i gave him a note, saying i like him..two days later, i asked him to talk about it bc he didnt give any respond and i wanted to how he feels ,during school,i asked him if we could go and talk somewhere private , he said it is nice that i told him about my feelings for him,he also told me that he know how hard it must´ve been for me to hide my feelings from him.then he said he doesnt have time for relationship bc he has activites besides school (he plays guitar, he dances)and also he told me he firstly wants to develop more spiritually..(if that makes sense) bc we go to catholic church ,and then he hugged me saying that we should continue to be friends and then i deleted him from my friends on fb during summer holidays bc i was always checking if he is online.now is new school year and he found out i removed him from my friends on fb, and he texted me why i did that, and if he did something wrong he is sorry , i told him i did it bc it hurts me and that i dont want to be friends, and he said it´s ok, i thought it would hurt less, but it hurts me more ,now i ignore him bc i dont know how to act to him..he sent me friend request on fb but i didnt accept it yet..he was good friend to me before i told him about my feelings..please help me should i be his friend again or not? if yes what should i tell him,why i suddenly accepted his friend request on fb,and also today is his birthday, should i wish him happy birthday even i removed him from my friends??..thanks for help :) (link)
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hi if i am to be completely honest with you only you can answer this question.
but i know from previous experience yes it hard to tell a friend you have strong feelings for them.
deleting him from facebook would have been a short term solution but if it stopped you from checking his facebook every 5 mins then well done for finding away to prevent you from doing so.
the real question you need to ask yourself is do you want to be friends with hims still? if yes what you waiting for? go get your friend back, and apologise for being odd you just need to get your head around things. if you don't want to be friends with him then you need to cut contact with him.
it sounds like you do want to be friends with this guy so i would put whats happened in the past and go get your friend back.
i hope this has helped you
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I'm doing a project for my Music History class, and I have to do the history of punk and pick a few artists and songs to feature. Any suggestions? I'm trying to encompass the whole of punk, but for a genre that started as a subgenre itself, it has a lot of variety. There's the obvious classic punk stuff that has to be included, and the history I can do pretty much just from memory (of what I've read over time), but to have to eliminate songs and bands from my list! (link)
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start off by writing up what you know. then look at the bands you like and see how it fits into the information you have that way you will have a way to eliminate the bands and songs you have
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Hii.. :) I have problem with myself.I dont love myself.I have lowsel estem.I wouldnt say im fat and i wouldnr say im think i would say im chubby(actually im 157cm and i have 50 kg). There are days when i think i look so good but then they are days when i dont even want to look at the mirror.Everybody expects from you to be perfect all the time any time.Its not imposible.I love fashion and dressing up and its my passion and i love reading..So i read a lot about that you cant love anyone else if you first dont love yourself and stuff like that.But then when i get my confidence there's society.Looking at girls who are famous and have money just by being pretty while i study all day and am still affraid about my future. Sometimes i want just to stop with everything,i want to seee how it feels to be famous,popular or being in centar of attention.I want to rest a littlebit from my rough days.I look at some girls in my school going around and comenting about who's what wearing and their hair. Why is that so much importat look at youself.Why gosssiping? Why? Mind your own buissnes...So in this world i feel like just one not important stranger. I feel like ill never find someone who trully loves me because who am i andnot because of my looks.Ofcours you first see look but i rather be with someone who is not that pretty but you can talk to..I am going from one thing to another. But my main goal is to get confidence and i dont know how.There is always something bringing me down,some voice telling me im not good enough.I ahte my height i may grown more bc im in my teenage years but i wouldnt be that much of a change. I may grow 3/4 cm and nothing more(Im now higher that my mum so i dont think ill grow more) and i hate my body. I have lots of pimples while my friends still dont have or have but just a little.everytime i try to lose weight nothing happend and i find myself always quiting after failures and failures..while other girls which are just bones and skin are like im too fat look at me and blah blah blah and then eveyone is like no you are perfect and blah blah blah.. I dont know what to do? Do you have any advice? :) ♥
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right lets break this down.
your still in your teens which means that your body is maturing and your body in is the middle of a transition period of child to adult.
you say yuoir dieting...STOP!... you need to have the right frame of mind before you can even think about dieting. From the details above you don't need to diet your weight is good for your height and your age.
don't focus on your peers with how clear their skin is everyone is different.
you spoke bout loving someone. ignore the saying of 'you cant love someone without loving yourself' some people learn to love them self when they find that someone that makes them happy.
stop looking at famous people for inspiration on their looks. if you are going to use famous people as your role model go for how they are with their confidence and etc (for me Sharon osbourne is my role model - she is a confident woman who isn't afraid to fight for what/who she believes in, she has had to fight so hard to be where she is today after loosin her whole family becase she fell in love with ozzy.) your fashion sense needs to be what makes you feel comfortable not what you think everyone else will like. if they comment on what you wear then just respond with at least its my own style im not trying to be someone im not.
everyone is important hunny.
you will find your confidence when you find yourself. follow your heart with what you want. if you don't want to look in the mirror on a daily basis they don't worry about it everyone has them days its apart of being human hunny.
if you have anymore questions or you are unsure on what I have said please feel free to private message me. I will be happy to help you x
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I want sex with my boyfriend but I'm lucky if I get a kiss of him. Im a girl and I only got my first bra today and I'm not finished with puberty I've snogged and my ex showed me how to have sex but he left my school my other ex dumped me for two girls in my class. My boyfriend isn't that serious and I want more but the ex that is still in school won't go back out with me. (link)
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wow...i think that you need to take a step back and think what you are doing it....at 13 you may think your ready for sex but that is just because your just going through puberty. You have the rest of your live to live yet and as someone who lost their virginity at an age not much older then you and regretting it.
The lads are also going through puberty and finding themselves....
I advise that you wait until your body is completely ready before you decide being your body to any lad...if your boyfriend wont even kiss you...maybe you should talk to him and ask him why
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Should I stay with my boyfriend? I'm 13 and he's 16 but he lives all the way in London. I know some of his friends and that's how I met him. We started back talking a few days ago. I found out that he signed up for the army and he has three years of training. He did it so he wouldn't have to be with me anymore but he wont break up with me and he says that he wants to be with me.
I'm so confused and I need to know if I should break up with him. (link)
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it sounds like he is confused, the fact that he lives some distance from you and your only 13 and unable to see him on a regular basis tells me that although you are committed to the relationship he is not. you say he has signed up for the army because he didn't want to be with you but he refuses to break up with you, it sounds like he scared to be single.
i advise you talk to him about what he really wants and if that's the army then let him focus on doing that (because at 16 he wont have signed up because he dont want to be with someone it will be because he wants to or his family have made him) and if you destined to be together it will happen when your both ready and able to fully commit to the relatonship
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so this girl i met , starting kissing me violently and after 1 day my upper lip is getting bigger and their is a pimple in it. whenever i press it , blood comes out and sometimes white fluid. I got a cream from a pharmacy , i put it 5 times a day but (today is day 1 ) im not seeing any results ??!!
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if it is day one of using the cream you wont see any changes as of yet. if it has not changed in next few days i advise that you see the doctor and in the mean time make a note of any changes since going to the pharmacy
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Long story short, I have recently recieved word on kik messenger that someone had gotten my ip adress and knows what city I live in. Ive been so paranoid about it for the last week or so, but felt better when he stoped messaging me after informing me he knew my city. Just today, I received an unknown text message with a link to a picture and the words "It Exists" with a happy face, a fucking happy face. Is it possible that my ip address gave him my cell phone number?? I didnt click on the link, nor open the text, as Ive been told that people can send you a link that will give them your personal inormation. Im teriffied to open it. Should I open it, and what are the possibilities of it being the same man?
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DO NOT OPEN IT! i can not stress enough that if your feeling this paranoid after a week and then you get this message you need to go to the police and let them trace who sent it to you. I do not want to panic you but please go to the police for your own safety and for your families protection.
Hope it gets sorted
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Okay. So I've had a relationship with my boyfriend for about A year and 8 months. It's been pretty good. I feel like this summer we became, a little unattached. I don't feel like he cares enough about me anymore. We barely text. It's almost like were married. I really like talking to people so I became good friends with this guy in a couple of my classes. At the time, I thought I'd be good for homework purposes. Because i actually got attention from someone. Now we talk a lot. And I tell him everything, and the other night he said "well maybe he's not right for you" and kinda left It at that. I thought that meant something. But you'd tbink if he liked me then he'd text me a lot right? But I see where he'll text my friend back but not me. I'm confused. (link)
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it sounds like your relationship is either coming to the end of the road or its becoming settled. sit down with your bf and explain how your feeling bout what is happening with the relationship, maybe twice a month go out on a date with either other even if its just to a hotel for the night turn phones off and talk get to know each other more...With your new homework buddy keep him close but at arms length away (but don't get your messages crossed) keep it this way till you know whats happening with you and your current boyfriend. once you know this find out why he is being hot and cold, that can also be away for a lad to say i like you but im keep my distance while you are taken.
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So I masturbate by just watching videos and squeezing my legs together and I told myself it would be the last time I do it. So after I went to the bathroom and when I wiped there was blood on the toilet paper! I am 12 and I have never got my period. Is this my period? (link)
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it could very well be the start of your periods, the fact that you haven't entered anything like Sex toys or your fingers into your vagina, i am happy to say that it is your period. Perhaps talking to a Female role model who is around you on a day to day basis who you trust will be more of an ideal person to talk to (leave out any embarrassing thing you do not want them to be aware off like masturbating). hope this helps.
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I have really bad anxiety. Like REALLY bad. I came across something that was like "If you're reading this, you've been in a coma for 20 years. Please wake up." Or something and it's scaring me. I'm beginning to feel like my life is a dream or something. Please how do I get this feeling to stop? I'm less than 20 years old and I keep telling myself that but it's scaring me. What do I do?! (link)
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hey,
'if you are reading this, you've been in a coma for 20 years' thing has been reported as a hoax, there is nothing for you to worry about with this if you are under 20 then it would be impossible for this to happy.
i know its easier said then done but focus on other things e.g. if your taking exams focus on them if you have a job you love focus on that or your family if all else fails go to your doctor tell him/her what is going on and they can go through your medical records with you to reassure you that nothing like that has ever happened to you
I hope this has helped somewhat
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Hey there Boobydoo..
This is about the question I had asked earlier, you know, about the baby mama..
I feel so angry at being betrayed, that's why my anger is leading me to want to cut things short without even considering anything else.
It was hard talking to her and listening to the conflicting stories we had, which just shows that he lied to us both.
I go back to the days when he fed me lies and I believed it because he is so good at it.
It rings in my head that his baby mama was actually telling him to come clean to me, because she was considerate towards me. so why not him? why did he lead me on this whole time?why did he wait until i found out eventually?
I'm so conflicted and I just want your advice on really, what is the way forward? he says he loves me and I do too, but I don't think that matters at this point. (link)
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hey
the questions you want to know (that you have put on here)ask him yes it may hurt knowing the answers but would you rather walk away knowing the truth (if he tells u straight) or walking away not knowing?
i agree with you yes that his child's mother is considerate towards you i would be the same way.
it sounds like he isn't ready to commit to settling into a steady and stable relationship, yes he loves you and you love him but you also need trust and loyalty to carry on in a healthy relationship are you going to be able to trust him? i wouldn't be able to.
i guess what you need to answer for your self is are you willing to stay with someone how keeps lying to you and no trust? or be single have some time to find yourself again and be happy?
you say you want to cut contact but honestly i think you both need to sit down and talk this through calm down before you make any rational decisions but again if you think cutting contact is best then go for it hun you need to follow your heart to happiness thats all that matters hun
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I thought I was in a good relationship with a guy I really believed to be my soul mate.. We have dated for one and a half years now.
I just came off the phone with his baby's mum. She felt that because he wasn't going to own up to it,then she should tell me other than me finding out from other random people. I was just in shock. He denied responsibility for the pregnancy and it turns out that he was with her the same time he was with me,and he lied to me alot of those times. The child is now one year old and he has never mentioned it to me. She broke the news to his mum because he also wasn't going to tell her.
I am a person who is slow to anger,and so it really hasn't dawned on me yet. But the more I think of it,the more I'm conflicted. I just want to shut him off completely from my life and have nothing to do with him. It's just so hard for me to believe that someone I love could do that to someone else.
I need your help on having those difficult conversations. As it is I just want to shut him off. I've found out about it less than an hour ago and I'm slowly coming to terms with it. (link)
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hey, i understand your anger, have you considered the reasons as to why he hasn't said anything to you? maybe he is scared to be a father, maybe he is scared to be judged about being a good or bad father, maybe he was ashamed to tell you and his mother incase you thought any different of him. im not sticking up for him im just saying take those into consideration.
talk to him about it all first let him tell you whats gone on and you can tell him how it has made you feel and then you need to decide on what you are going to do split or stay together?
if you stay together are you going to support him with seeing his child?
like i said before i understand your angry i would be to but as a step mom who has full custody of my ex's kid think bout if you was a mom to kid and he was in that situation how would you want the situation to be dealt with, how would you feel?
if you have any specific questions you would like to ask private message me on here i will be happy to help
and i hope this has helped you somewhat
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I am a girl,age 23. my father has died in 2009, my mom is alive but she never take care of me. i live with my elder sister,she has 3 kids. she always quarreled with me. if i don't do any household work, she got angry with me. i have boyfriend,who never let me cry,he love me so much.i didn't meet with him for last 3month because my sister never allowed me to meet with him. i stay my room whole day lonely.nobody of my family call me or ask me anything. my study is also hampering day by day. for my condition my boy friend also feeling very bad for me and his study also destroying day by day.i cant tolerate this anymore.it is seem to me that my death is the nice solution for all.my family will get rid of me and my boyfriend will get a better life.i have no way to live.what should i do beyond this?
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hey, killing your self wont solve anything hun, it sounds like your mum and sister have took your dads death badly, can i suggest you find a friend or another relative you can stay with? get some space from the situation you are in. when this was happening to me with my little brother i suggested that every year on the same date or either his birthday or date he passed away, we have a day dedicated to him, we talk bout it and how it makes us feel and we let of balloons at a certain time of day with a message attached this has helped my family deal with this. I just hope this has helped somewhat for you
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I'm 19 and he's 27. We've been dating for 4 months, we're in love and I can't picture my future without him. Though, I'm afraid problems will occur regarding our age difference. Not so much what people think and say, more of me worrying if it will cause problems between us.
Whenever we go grocery shopping, he can't buy alcohol with me. I can't go with him to any event that is serving alcohol. It makes me feel utterly indifferent, I have 3 more years until I can drink. That's just one problem that has occurred regarding the age difference.
I would just like know, do any of you fellow Yahoo users know of any cliche and or very real situations that can occur because of a vast age difference in a relationship? I'm not looking for relief, I would just like to know of what could come and prepare for it. (link)
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age is just a number that is how you should view it.
yes there is the issue where you can not drink but there are ways around that you both need to sit down and chat about it! I have been there done that the only issues i had was the maturity levels will be different the fact that you are seeking advice and shows that you are mature enough to cope with whatever situation that may come up. Dont worry your self over your age difference its just a number
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I've been talking to this guy. I met him one time then out of the blue, I found him on twitter and followed him, he followed me back and we've been direct messaging for a while on twitter before I finally got the nerve to send him my number. He texted me and we have been talking non-stop since. We are the kinds of texters that text all day and when one of us falls asleep, we just wake up and answer the text and continue talking to whole rest of the day. We met through a mutual friend and since she found out we started talking, she's been upset and yelling at him a lot for it saying that I'm replacing her and that she hates us talking and he just puts up with her yelling at him all the time and fighting with her. He asks me to hang out quite a bit and when I can't, he always asks for a time when I am free so we can. We've talked for about eight days and this past Tuesday was his friend's 21st, so he took him to the bar and he texted me before they left and asked if I could pick them up so I said most definitely, he texted me when they were ready to leave and I went to get them. He asked me if he could spend the night at my place in my dorm with me that night so I let him do that. We cuddled and talked all night. The next night, he asked if I wanted to hang out and when I told him I was free, he asked if I would like to spend the night at his place to which I happily agreed. He picked me up and we went to his place, we got in his bed and I laid on his chest and it was a nice silence for a little before he started asking me deep questions like my plans for the future and my biggest fears, biggest accomplishments. We fell asleep and when we woke up that morning, he had to go take an exam so he let me stay there until he came back so I fell back asleep. He came back after his exam and stripped down to his boxers and got back into bed with me and we talked. He had class at 11 but he skipped it so the friend that yelled at him about us, texted him to get lunch and he told me she thinks he's in class so he won't text her back for a little and as soon as he said that, he grabbed my face and started to kiss me. We hooked up but he didn't have a condom so we didn't have sex. After that, we had to head to the book store to go return our books because it was the last day of class. We walked there, did it, he finished before me so he waited even though he made plans to have lunch with that friend.
Now, you're probably wondering where the issue falls.. he's been weird since it happened. We still text all the time, he isn't ignoring me or anything but he's just been different. Before, he used to be super flirty and send me a lot of emojis but now he doesn't. Like I said, we still talk but his texts aren't as flirty and he doesn't laugh in his texts as much anymore. So, he said something stupid that I called him out on and it opened a whole can of worms so I called him out on being weird too. He said he didn't mean to be weird and that he definitely still wants to keep talking because he likes talking to me. He said if all he wanted was a hook up then he wouldn't have slept at my place and hung out with me all that next day, he wouldn't have invited me to his place to hang out and he wouldn't have skipped his class just to be with me.
However, it still seems weird to me. Why do you think his texts aren't the same? We're both home for the summer and we live kinda far from each other. However, I can tell that his texts are weird. Our conversations used to flow so easily but now I have to think before i text him back because conversation isn't so easy. (link)
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From what I have read your mutual friend is jelous and perhaps need to talk it out with this friend, maybe he feelds a bit un comfortable flirting on the phone around his parents perhaps the distance between the two of you is affecting you more then you think. Ask to meet up somewhere and get it out in the open face to face and take it from there
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Before you read this… please know that my boyfriend and I have a very strong and healthy relationship. And just like every couple, we have our own personal ways of how we do our sex life. We do things that may be a little intense for some people but that’s just us… its nothing thats too abnormal and its nothing disgusting either. But anyway… I also want to say sorry for the language :p please no judging, I just need some assistance.
So I recently found out that my boyfriend has a "Christian Grey" side to him. Referencing the book 50 shades of Grey. He SOMETIMES gets in a mood where he just wants to... well, basically use me as a sex object... be kinky, talk dirty, choke me, spank me, handcuff me, pull my hair, be extremely rough and he just wants me to take it and just do what he says without saying or doing anything unless he tells me to... For those of you who have read 50 shades... its very similar to Christians "angry sex." YOU may not be into this but I TOTALLY am!!!! I have a "safeword" in case it gets too intense for me but that's not really the point. This is just a part of our sex life because it works for us.
He gave me a preview the other day to see how I would react and it was amazing... best sex I've ever had!! I loved it! and I can take it and handle it. I cant wait to see what its like when its not a preview. But we were talking about it and he said that when he talks dirty to me, he would sometimes like me to respond... he gave me a couple of examples... if he says something like "you're such a slut" a good response would be "Yeah I'm a dirty slut" or if he called me a bitch I could say "I'm your fucking bitch." He told me that just responding "yeah" or "mmm" is good enough but sometimes its nice to hear more. He did however say that if he didn't want a response he would tell me to shut up... This all sounds SO mean but honestly... its really not. Its just how we like to do it sometimes and I seriously love it... when its over we are back to being in love and being sweet and all that. So please don't say anything like he is being abusive or I shouldn’t have to deal with that cuz its not like that.
My problem is that I have never really been good at dirty talk. So maybe some suggestions or any advice you can give, maybe examples of more responses I could give to phrases he may use… thanks in advance
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I agree will yh the first answer that you received when I asked to talk dirtier I pictured it in my head 1before saying it or if it was during sex I didnt know what to say if you have a kindle there are some free books you can get that are sexually erotic whiched helped alot hope it helps you too
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I have registered for my 5th year for college and it seems as though I am not getting any financial aid money this year. What is going on? I filed my fafsa a month ahead of time. There was a verfication worksheet I had to do (which is suppose to be random, but I have done this for the 3rd time in a row) and I did it late, but that was after I found out that I can print my IRS transcript online, so I had to wait four weeks. 2 weeks because I accidently ordered the wrong one and another 2 weeks because I had them mail it to me. Still, that is not a good reason for me to NOT get financial aid because most of them are student loans. (link)
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For my four years at college I never had any help financially however if they have a department chase it up and keep asking till you get an answer you are happy with
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my heart has been doing weird stuff so i was looking what can be wrong with the heart and it said "coronary artery disease" but i don't know what that means. can some one please explain so a 16 year old can understand? (link)
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Unless u have been told by the doctor what it is you shouldn\'t look it up as you will just get too worried about it and believe it....its basically a very bad infection (but past the point of infection) in the main artery going away from your heart but again I must stress that unless you have been told about what it is don\'t assume it\'s that as there are many heart conditions that the public are unaware off until told by medical professionals
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I mean is it all like "unholy"? I know that black magic is like witchcraft but whats white magic? Will it get you sent to hell? I have been thinking about this since I read "Jays Journal". Also are spells considered witchcraft? (link)
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Black magic is bad using it for bad things white magic is using it for good things. If you believe in it you won\'t go to hell but remember for every thing you do in magic there is a consquense there are many websites that can help you with white magic spell they also tell you what you need in oder to perform it.
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