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it hurts so bad..
Hey there Boobydoo..
This is about the question I had asked earlier, you know, about the baby mama..
I feel so angry at being betrayed, that's why my anger is leading me to want to cut things short without even considering anything else.
It was hard talking to her and listening to the conflicting stories we had, which just shows that he lied to us both.
I go back to the days when he fed me lies and I believed it because he is so good at it.
It rings in my head that his baby mama was actually telling him to come clean to me, because she was considerate towards me. so why not him? why did he lead me on this whole time?why did he wait until i found out eventually?
I'm so conflicted and I just want your advice on really, what is the way forward? he says he loves me and I do too, but I don't think that matters at this point.
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the questions you want to know (that you have put on here)ask him yes it may hurt knowing the answers but would you rather walk away knowing the truth (if he tells u straight) or walking away not knowing?
i agree with you yes that his child's mother is considerate towards you i would be the same way.
it sounds like he isn't ready to commit to settling into a steady and stable relationship, yes he loves you and you love him but you also need trust and loyalty to carry on in a healthy relationship are you going to be able to trust him? i wouldn't be able to.
i guess what you need to answer for your self is are you willing to stay with someone how keeps lying to you and no trust? or be single have some time to find yourself again and be happy?
you say you want to cut contact but honestly i think you both need to sit down and talk this through calm down before you make any rational decisions but again if you think cutting contact is best then go for it hun you need to follow your heart to happiness thats all that matters hun
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