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He's been different since we hooked up.
I've been talking to this guy. I met him one time then out of the blue, I found him on twitter and followed him, he followed me back and we've been direct messaging for a while on twitter before I finally got the nerve to send him my number. He texted me and we have been talking non-stop since. We are the kinds of texters that text all day and when one of us falls asleep, we just wake up and answer the text and continue talking to whole rest of the day. We met through a mutual friend and since she found out we started talking, she's been upset and yelling at him a lot for it saying that I'm replacing her and that she hates us talking and he just puts up with her yelling at him all the time and fighting with her. He asks me to hang out quite a bit and when I can't, he always asks for a time when I am free so we can. We've talked for about eight days and this past Tuesday was his friend's 21st, so he took him to the bar and he texted me before they left and asked if I could pick them up so I said most definitely, he texted me when they were ready to leave and I went to get them. He asked me if he could spend the night at my place in my dorm with me that night so I let him do that. We cuddled and talked all night. The next night, he asked if I wanted to hang out and when I told him I was free, he asked if I would like to spend the night at his place to which I happily agreed. He picked me up and we went to his place, we got in his bed and I laid on his chest and it was a nice silence for a little before he started asking me deep questions like my plans for the future and my biggest fears, biggest accomplishments. We fell asleep and when we woke up that morning, he had to go take an exam so he let me stay there until he came back so I fell back asleep. He came back after his exam and stripped down to his boxers and got back into bed with me and we talked. He had class at 11 but he skipped it so the friend that yelled at him about us, texted him to get lunch and he told me she thinks he's in class so he won't text her back for a little and as soon as he said that, he grabbed my face and started to kiss me. We hooked up but he didn't have a condom so we didn't have sex. After that, we had to head to the book store to go return our books because it was the last day of class. We walked there, did it, he finished before me so he waited even though he made plans to have lunch with that friend.
Now, you're probably wondering where the issue falls.. he's been weird since it happened. We still text all the time, he isn't ignoring me or anything but he's just been different. Before, he used to be super flirty and send me a lot of emojis but now he doesn't. Like I said, we still talk but his texts aren't as flirty and he doesn't laugh in his texts as much anymore. So, he said something stupid that I called him out on and it opened a whole can of worms so I called him out on being weird too. He said he didn't mean to be weird and that he definitely still wants to keep talking because he likes talking to me. He said if all he wanted was a hook up then he wouldn't have slept at my place and hung out with me all that next day, he wouldn't have invited me to his place to hang out and he wouldn't have skipped his class just to be with me.
However, it still seems weird to me. Why do you think his texts aren't the same? We're both home for the summer and we live kinda far from each other. However, I can tell that his texts are weird. Our conversations used to flow so easily but now I have to think before i text him back because conversation isn't so easy.
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There is only one question: has he dumped your mutual friend? Because he is being unfaithful to her if he hasn't.
You already know everything you need to know. But he's attractive and you want to find an excuse.
It's an old story.
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From what I have read your mutual friend is jelous and perhaps need to talk it out with this friend, maybe he feelds a bit un comfortable flirting on the phone around his parents perhaps the distance between the two of you is affecting you more then you think. Ask to meet up somewhere and get it out in the open face to face and take it from there
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