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Okay. So I've had a relationship with my boyfriend for about A year and 8 months. It's been pretty good. I feel like this summer we became, a little unattached. I don't feel like he cares enough about me anymore. We barely text. It's almost like were married. I really like talking to people so I became good friends with this guy in a couple of my classes. At the time, I thought I'd be good for homework purposes. Because i actually got attention from someone. Now we talk a lot. And I tell him everything, and the other night he said "well maybe he's not right for you" and kinda left It at that. I thought that meant something. But you'd tbink if he liked me then he'd text me a lot right? But I see where he'll text my friend back but not me. I'm confused.
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I'll start with your boyfriend. It wouldn't be smart to make any decisions without talking to him first. You need to have an open conversation with him about how you're feeling. Don't argue with him or fight about it, or even point fingers blaming him for anything. Just let him know that you've been feeling like he doesn't care very much anymore and you'd like to know why he doesn't text you like he used to.
If he's willing to work on it, then there you go. If you see progress, then continue working on your relationship. If it's not changing, then you know the relationship is coming to an end.
So as for this friend of yours, I'd set boundaries and watch how you're feeling. You don't want to get all these feelings for someone while you're in a relationship. Once you're single, go for it. But as for now, it doesn't matter how he feels for you, just watch how you feel for him.
Obviously feelings are natural but you don't want to get carried away. So even though you consider him a good friend, keep your distance until you figure everything out.
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it sounds like your relationship is either coming to the end of the road or its becoming settled. sit down with your bf and explain how your feeling bout what is happening with the relationship, maybe twice a month go out on a date with either other even if its just to a hotel for the night turn phones off and talk get to know each other more...With your new homework buddy keep him close but at arms length away (but don't get your messages crossed) keep it this way till you know whats happening with you and your current boyfriend. once you know this find out why he is being hot and cold, that can also be away for a lad to say i like you but im keep my distance while you are taken.
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