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I never got my period, I masturbated then I saw blood
So I masturbate by just watching videos and squeezing my legs together and I told myself it would be the last time I do it. So after I went to the bathroom and when I wiped there was blood on the toilet paper! I am 12 and I have never got my period. Is this my period?
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It could be you are just about the right age to be entering puberty. If you continue to see blood on the toilet paper or in your panties it probably is your period starting, since you did not say anything about putting fingers in your vagina while masturbating.
There are two other things I would like to discuss with you based on what you wrote.
You wrote; "I told myself it would be the last time I do it." There is nothing wrong with masturbation or masturbating. It is entirely normal for a normal healthy teenager to do to relieve the sexual tension brought on by puberty. As long as masturbating does not became an all-encompassing object of your time it is perfectly normal to do in the privacy of your bedroom.
Contrary to what you may have been told or believe masturbation is not a Mortal Sin. Most all religions do not condone it as they believe it will lead to wanting full sexual relations before marriage, though it is not sinful according to any of the religious texts. This is the same reasons your parents tell you not to masturbate which is hypocritical of them for according to surveys done 85% of the population masturbates. Mutual masturbation is part of foreplay prior to sex. Many healthy parent still have active healthy sex lives which include oral sex, fingering and hand jobs. All of this comes under the heading of Mutual Masturbation. Many parents even indulge in singular masturbation especially those whose partners travel for work a lot.
While masturbation is not something you would probably want to discus with mom unless you have a really good open relationship with her. You do not need a geed open relationship with mom to discuss this net item.
You really should tell mom about the blood you are seeing. Mom knows you better than any of us and would know if this is your period. Your period has nothing to do with sex; it is a normal bodily function of a mature or maturing woman. Just the same as urinating is. If you were sick with the flu or had a bad cold you would go to mom for help. Your period is no different other than it is a new bodily function that you need to get use too.
Mom can help you with the selection of proper sanitary products as well as answer any questions you might have. Remember you and mom are built exactly alike in this way. She will remember what it was like for her when her period first arrived and how scared she may have been. Mom is waiting for you to come to her so she can help you with the right information. This is not sex. Picking the right products is just as important as picking the right bra so please go talk to mom. Getting your period is nothing to be embarrassed about.
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it could very well be the start of your periods, the fact that you haven't entered anything like Sex toys or your fingers into your vagina, i am happy to say that it is your period. Perhaps talking to a Female role model who is around you on a day to day basis who you trust will be more of an ideal person to talk to (leave out any embarrassing thing you do not want them to be aware off like masturbating). hope this helps.
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