ok, my really good friend cuts herself and she takes pills that she don't know what are. She only does it for attention...but EVERYBODY tells her to stop. The only way she is going to stop is if somebody tells someone....I want to tell but I don't want everybody to be like "ohhhh, Tia Told. She's a tattletale.." but I want to tell..I KNOW it's the RIGHT thing to do...she's going to wind up killing herself...WHAT SHOULD I DO???
think about this... would you rather have your alive and mad at you .... or dead. thats harsh but true. let her know you care and please for the good of your friend.... GET HER SOME HELP!
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alright well theres this boy named ted..I've been going out with him sence august 6th and like in october he broke up with me and I brok eup with him altogether around 3 or 4 times and all those times we'ver gotten back together..but wednesday he broke up with me because he liked two other people..alina and tara..well alina has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is teds best friend..so he wouldn't get her.. tara is one of my best friends so she wont go out with him because she thinks hes a horrible boyfriend from what he did to me..and becasue she doesn't like him like that and also because hes the kind of boy that likes to be really close with there girlfriends and like make-out and stuff like that and she doesn't like that..so neither alina or tara like him..my friend britney was talking to him today and last night we had a schol dance and he was like staring at me and stuff..and she asked him if he still liked me and he said i dunno and stuff like that and then he asked me to call this girl taylor for him and I think it was so he could ask her out but I'm not sure..it might be that or it might be because she brok eup with her boyfriend yesterday and ted adn her ex are good friends so it might be for him..but I'm just not ready to let go..I'm scared that would be our last time going out..I like him soo much..like I would do anything for him..I know I sound pathitic but its true..I'm scared that if I dont get him back I might do something to myself because he was like my life..so my question is how to get him back..I dont wanna hurt myself because I've done it before but not for that reason...and I really need him back but I dunno how to .. please help..I'll rate high
Wow. i went thru almost the exact same thing as you! i know what its like. All i can say is please dont make the same mistake i did and hurt urself. no guy is worth that! no matter how much you love him!! its okay that ur not ready to give him up. But also dont think about this too much. relax. go out with some girlfriends. have a good time. and you dont NEED him back. I know it may seem like that at first. but from what you were saying. it sounds like you can do much better than this boy. jus think about things, gather ur thoughts... and when you ready go out and have a good time!!! but please dont hurt urslef!!! please!!
*hope i helped*
*no guy is worth ur tears and the one that is wont make you cry!!*
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i hope you can help because everythings really weird and i cant figure out what to do. ok there's this guy and i met him about to years ago over the summer. we went out for about a year all together (it was an off and on relationship & he had other girls and i dated other guys) but i cant shake the fact that im in love with this kid... even though its been about 3 months since the last break-up and hes had 3 other girls. i like too other guys and the both like me. ones older ones my age (im 15 - if it helps any) the older one i like more ... alot more and hes always there but he wants sex. the one my age we hang out and always have fun but im not quite sure if hes on the same page as me... please help!! soon
i've said this many of times and I'll say it again... ALL GUYZ WANT IT SEX!! its frustrating. if ur lookin for a guy that will treat you right and if you dont wanna screw up the rest of you life then WAIT to have sex!! 1 in every 3 people have a STD!!! plus did you know that if he has had sex with 6 other people and then has sex with you its like you having sex with 7 people?? isnt that sick!?!? but yeah. its up to you. if you wanna take those chances then i obviously cant stop you. but if ur gunna be smart and think this over... dont do it!!
*sorry if thats harsh. but i would hate to see another girl be used for sex*
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hey well start it off im 13-m. ok well about how hard would it be to find a girl that is like only interested in sex after marriage for dating material? because seems like everywhere i look on here, theirs a pregnant girl or one worried about it. i'm just talking about like later in my life, in my twenties right out of college. just to be prepared. also, i was reading a book, and a guy asked the girl if she was a virgin, and she said that she wasnt even embarrased. so are you like supposed to be embarrassed if your a virgin?
(deeply confused in matters i shouldn't have my paws in)
bein a virgin is NOTHING and i mean NOTHING to be embarassed about!! and finding a girl who will wait is hard these dayz but there are a lot of them out there. in fact im one of them!! jus look hard and i gaurentee you will find one. and yes that is the probblem with society today... to many whores! well i think that made sence and i hope it helped! and once again bein a virgin is PERFECTLY okay! hehe.
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Um...there's this guy at me school who I like. He's really popular, but he's SOO nice. Everybody likes him, I think. Anyway, I can really see us together, and I can really see us falling in love, you know? But the thing is I know he likes this other girl (which I'm fine with, despite a small twinge of jealousy) and I'm afraid he wouldn't like me because I'm not really in his group. I'm kind of a loner, but all my friends are his friends too (heck, everybody is his friend lol) and I was just wondering...how do I make him notice me? Not that he doesn't now...but, you know, I want him to get to know me. Know who I am. How should I go by this, without truly flirting? I don't want to make him uncomfortable.
13/F
talk to the boy!! get to know him! everybody flirts!! have a lil fun with this all!! getting to know sumone can totally change all your veiws on people!!and if he is as nice as you say he is im sure he wont make a big deal out of flirting.
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i told my boyfriend i was holding this guys hand as a friend and he said he dont get how you can hold someones hand as a friends..does anyone else kno a way of explaining that??
you were holding the guyz hand not making out with him!! I can defanintly be the jealous type myself. Watch what you do with you guy friends. You may think its jus friend stuff but to others it may look like more then friends! holding hands is nothin big but jus watch urself! and jus explain to ur boyfriend that you didnt mean to get him upset. and you wouldnt hurt him like that. i hope that made sence and helped!
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ok so me and my ex-boyfriend broke up after about 3 months of seeing eachother...he said that he found someone new. Well we didn't talk for about a month and now about a week ago he IM's me online and was like hey whats up and i was very hesitant to talk to him bc he really really hurt me bad and i loved him and all and i thought he loved me (he told me he did but i didn't think it was true). Well he asked me if we could talk. So i went to meet him at our usual spot that we used to chill and he was like how have you been and everything. I asked him why he started talking to me again and he said bc he felt bad about everything and said that he acted like an A**hole. which is true. Well then i asked him how him and the other person he met was doing and he told me that it didn't work out between them. I was like oh okay. We hooked up and i knew i shouldnt of an now i like him ALOT again. I dont know if he only is talking to me bc it didn't work out with the other girl or what! can someone please help!! sorry its so long ill rate u high if u answer! thanx!!
Love like you've never been hurt... Love is crazy! its misleading its passoinate and all those other things. I know what your goin through in fact i couldnt relate more! I got dumped for another girl. then my X- asked me back out. I set my hopes too high and after 3 dayz we broke up... i still to this day dont understand why! we're still friends now. but if i were you i would jus remeber to keep my feet on the ground. You never know unless you try. remeber not to fall too deep for him. i know thats hard. maybe also casually ask what happened? and why he came back to you. but please dont get hurt again! i would hate to hear of that happening so jus be careful of what you decide to do! good luck!
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Ok. Well ive gone out with this guy right? Lets call him James. But that was two years ago when me and james were in the 8th grade and he didnt take relationships seriously therefore never kept a girlfriend for more than 3 weeks. So anyways now me and James are best friends, but we like each other again. I dont know if I should go out with him though because I do not want to ruin our friendship. My question is for all you guys who went through this and did go out after being best friends, when/if you guys broke up, did you stay friends? or did it change?
I have a VERY VERY close guy friend named ryan! me and him went out then broke up and we stayed close and even got closer! friendly flirt turned to "friendlier flirt" and we decided to go back out again. It didnt last very long because things got weird because we were really good friends. But after we broke up things went back to b4 and we are still EXTREMELY tight! im not sayin you 2 will only go out for 3 dayz like i did, but if u have a good friendship, then it should outlast a break-up!! :)
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i am 17 and i have known this lad for 2 years now and i am falling in love with him i know he likes me but i am too shy to tell him how i feel as i do not want to get hurt i was seeing him before but it didnt work out and if i give it another try it will not work please give advice
GO FOR IT! tell him how you feel! if somethin bad happened to one of you guyz the next day and you never told him how u felt... wouldnt that jus suck!?!? tell him. i think he derves another shot! plus its better to love and hurt then to never love at all! :)
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ok well theres this guy that i kinda like n well i wanna know if he likes me wut do u think?:
he smiles n talks to me all da time he blows off other grls for me n he says stuff realli sweet n he winks at me from across tha room...wut do u think? ill rate!~
TO ME: it sounds like he likes you. but i dono. A LOT and i mean A LOT of guyz are big flirts like that! so dont get fooled by it! but have a friend go up and ask or sumthin but make sure your friend isnt too pushy! that creeps guyz out!
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My Ex is one of my best friends now and I have a new Boyfriend and He has a new Girlfriend... But today at lunch he pulled me aside and said this:
"If we were together again, like we were at one time, would you try harder to make it workout?" Now This has me seriously confused and I dont know how to take it So I just replied "I dunno" Wat did he mean?
hmmmm!!! it sounds to me like he had been thinkin about you lately. He probably wants to know if you would give him a second shot. do you still like this guy at all? If you do then it sounds like he likes you too! and do some serious thinking about what happened in ur last relationship and if u really think you can make things work better then go for it. and if you dont still have feeling fer your friend. Then jus tell him you have a b.f. that you like and you dont feel comfertable answering that question!! hope i helped!
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OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!!
HELL NO!!!!!! hunnay! u arent crazy im 14 too and i have many grlz in my skewl that arent virgins no more either! you are sooooo totally right! and ur not crazy chances are if ur friends have already been having sex that most of them probably already have an std!!! ((SICK))!! but n e wayz! ur not crazy and no its not right to have sex at this age. its jus sick and wrong and their setting themselves up for a well regretted life!!
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I luve my boyfriend Jason and I know he is the one for me we have been together for 1 year and 2 months and we have been talking about having sex but my parents are very strict and I can't talk to them about it so I need some help pleaze help luve ya!
well i know this isnt what we like to hear. and i would for sure know that. But ever stop and listen to your parent's reason for waiting to have sex?? I know you love your b.f. but until you get the wedding bands, he can leave you at anytime he wants! and that would leave you totally heart broken. Sex is very emotional and all that shyt. also. think of all the consequences before doing so. and let me remind you 10-30% of condoms dont work and 1 in ever 3 people have an STD. so think about that before making any crutial discision. :)
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Well i broke up with tthe guy i have been going out with and now he is making my life miserable! he is spreading rumnors about me and telling my secrets to everyoine and its pissing me off!!!! how do i get him to stop???
dam! whattan ass! if i were you i would jus confront him. and if what he is sayin is really bad then dont confront him nicely! show him up. let him know thats really low and you cant believe he is the same person you used to go out with. give him a MAJOR HARSH guilt trip and if that doesnt work then...... what goes around comes around!!!! ;)
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I'm 14/f. Whenever I see one of the many guys that I like I start to get really, er, sexually excited if you know what I mean. I just want to throw them down and kiss them and even have sex with them. I kind of a goody-two shoes, I get good grades and have never done anything really wrong. I'm longing to let my wild side out but I don't want anybody to know about it. What should I do about this? Plus I feel like I'm so much more horny than anyone else I know. Am I?
haha. chances are ur not hornier then the rest of us! maybe the good-two-shoes stuff has been gettin to you and you jus wanna let out ur wild side!! dont go to wild and become some hoe. but expierence life a little break a few rules. and kiss a few guyz! it should work!
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I had a boyfriend named Patrick and the whole time we were goin out, which was about 3 months, he would always ignore my friends because they are country. He would also holla at other girls. When i asked him one night who it was, he told me it was none of my buisness. So we broke up, and he told me he couldnt hang out with me and my hicks. But see, the thing is from Adamsville, Tennessee and i am from Henderson, Tennessee (about 20 mins away) but now he is always at the Finger Square Dance (about 5 mins away from Henderson) and now he is trying to get back with me. did he really love me and whats up with that?
If YOU and i mean YOU really think he deserves another chance that go for it. but to me it sounds like he's a jerk. a grl is like her friends. that is why they all get along! and if he wont give your grlies a chance then why guve him one! and also if the boy is holla-ing at other chicks that tells ya somethin right there! you deserve better!! but if he really seems worth all that then... power to ya! :)
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ok, i love my boyfriend(lets call him peter) with all my heart, body and soul, but before i got with peter, like 3-4 months before i was with his best friend(lets call him danny).
originally i met peter, then his introduced me to danny, my b/f awhile ago always flirted but he never made a move or anything so things just happen with danny, after me and danny were together peter backed off, then we broke up, and i was single for awhile then me and peter get together and we have been happy, it seems like whenever danny gets brought up(they are still friends btw) he gets all emo and talks about how i broke his heart, i love him but i dont wanna have to be the cause hes so sad sometimes, im supposed to be his girlfriend, making him smile.. but instead it feels like the past with danny only makes him sad..
i dont know what to do. i wanna be with him but i dont know how to handle knowing i make him sad ='(
help. what should i do?
okay.... chances are this isnt the worst thing that happened or is gunna happen to him so dont feel bad!!! and second, maybe you should jus kinda hit to "peter" that it bothers you how he brings that up. say it playfully or sumthin like im really sorry i hurt you but, i realized that i really did like you.... ect. and jus make him feel better about himslef!!
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haha NO WAY!!!!! i have that probblem too. and who knows this new guy might take over the old ones spot! hehe ya never know! ;)
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hey i have this problem.. there is this guy in my grade who used to like me but i always thought he was kind of a dork so i didn't talk to him that much and when i did i would just kind of joke around with him. anyway i figured out that i have really liked him all this time and what made me figure it out was that i found out that he is moving to Hong Kong in January! If i tell him that i like him now then im worried that he might not still like me and he might tell everyone that i like him. i was thinking that maybe i would tell him on his last day but then we'd never have a relationship...please help me because i need to know what to do!
~Jen
think about this..... if you found out by some horibbly tragic unfortunanate (excuse my spelling!) event that he died. would you regret never have telling him how you feel?? live evry day like its your last. the few but smartest words i've ever known. Who cares if he tells other people!! i know thats easier for me to say. but it wont matter when your older. and if you really like this kid then why pass up the perfect oppertunity for a relationship!?!?
"good guyz come along almost never so try a few and see which ones are sweet and which ones are sour!"
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Okay, I'm a girl show I should know, But what exactly does PMS stand for, I know pretty much what happens when your PMSing, but what does it mean?
Oh boy do I feel stupid lol.
haha its alright hunnay happens to the best of us! PRE-menstraul- syndrome.
or what us girls like to say when a boy acts like a moody girl..... Pissy Men Syndrome! hehe! ;)
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