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i hope you can help because everythings really weird and i cant figure out what to do. ok there's this guy and i met him about to years ago over the summer. we went out for about a year all together (it was an off and on relationship & he had other girls and i dated other guys) but i cant shake the fact that im in love with this kid... even though its been about 3 months since the last break-up and hes had 3 other girls. i like too other guys and the both like me. ones older ones my age (im 15 - if it helps any) the older one i like more ... alot more and hes always there but he wants sex. the one my age we hang out and always have fun but im not quite sure if hes on the same page as me... please help!! soon
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I think you should totally go for the younger guy. The older guy seems like an ass, no offense of course. But if all he wants is sex, do you really want a guy like that. The younger seems like he can be a boyfriend and a best friend at the same time, which is a great, great , great thing. AMazing combination. And if it works outs, and it's a healthy relashinship, you'll get to the sex part, and i think it's totally better to have fun and have a relashinship before the sex, becofe jumping right in.
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i've said this many of times and I'll say it again... ALL GUYZ WANT IT SEX!! its frustrating. if ur lookin for a guy that will treat you right and if you dont wanna screw up the rest of you life then WAIT to have sex!! 1 in every 3 people have a STD!!! plus did you know that if he has had sex with 6 other people and then has sex with you its like you having sex with 7 people?? isnt that sick!?!? but yeah. its up to you. if you wanna take those chances then i obviously cant stop you. but if ur gunna be smart and think this over... dont do it!!
*sorry if thats harsh. but i would hate to see another girl be used for sex*
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well im a guy personally n i know alot of guys go for sex...so if u like him or not he may only be using u for sex....in which case i think u shud stay with whoever u have more fun with (which sounds like the younger one) not whoever wants to fuck u more
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well u got to talk to him about how u fell and if u are a vigin than tell him that u wanna stay that way orwhatever just tell that u want to wait and how ever u feel and if he acts like a dick u didn't need him it seems like u are a beautiful young girl who can date other ppl who will understand
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well.. i'll just tell u this.. ur not "in love" with the guy u meant 2 years ago over the summer.. if u were.. u wouldn't be considering any other guys.. sorry to sound kind of harsh... but its not love.. u should just decide of which of the guys treats u better.. and hate to break it to u but EVERY guy wants SEX!.. thats just how they work.. but the right guy will respect your feelings on it and not try anything until u are ready to
xoXo-*Katie
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ditch the older one, he's using you.
the one your age seems sweet, at least try it. try an move on from your ex, it's better for your sanity and self-esteem.
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Ok first you need to make it clear to this older guy that you don't want to have sex. If he really does like you for who you are he will understand, if he doesn't understand then you can do SO much better. If that doesn't work out then you need to really be sure that you like this guy who is your age. It doesn't seem like you care too much for him and you need to be sure so you don't end up miserable. As for your ex, I think you should date other guys for a while and see what's out there instead of insisting that you are in love with this guy. If it was meant to be, he'll come back to you... in other words, time will only tell what will happen with you two. So that's all the advice I can give you and I hope it helps. Good luck!
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