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plz help me!!
hey i have this problem.. there is this guy in my grade who used to like me but i always thought he was kind of a dork so i didn't talk to him that much and when i did i would just kind of joke around with him. anyway i figured out that i have really liked him all this time and what made me figure it out was that i found out that he is moving to Hong Kong in January! If i tell him that i like him now then im worried that he might not still like me and he might tell everyone that i like him. i was thinking that maybe i would tell him on his last day but then we'd never have a relationship...please help me because i need to know what to do!
~Jen
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wel i say go for it anyway if yah really like him every1 else dont matter and you never know he may still like yah and you two might just work it out and mabe even go out you never know just try it!...it never hurts to try
-xO Jessie
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I know exactly what to do. Tell him now but tell him to keep it a secret if you want to. This way you can get his email adress and telephone # So you can always reach him- Ryan
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think about this..... if you found out by some horibbly tragic unfortunanate (excuse my spelling!) event that he died. would you regret never have telling him how you feel?? live evry day like its your last. the few but smartest words i've ever known. Who cares if he tells other people!! i know thats easier for me to say. but it wont matter when your older. and if you really like this kid then why pass up the perfect oppertunity for a relationship!?!?
"good guyz come along almost never so try a few and see which ones are sweet and which ones are sour!"
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"You never realize what you have untilits gone" Unfourtunatly that is a true statement. If hes mature enough he`ll handle the fact that you really like him and wont go telling everyone. But even if he does tell everyone, no ones going to do anything about it. But this might be a little hard on him if he`s moving. But if i were you i`d tell him, and not on the last day. Even if you were to tell him now you would never have a relationship unless it was long distance. But i think you should stay in contact with him. Like having a long distance "best friendship" and maybe in a few years when hes older he will move back for you. You never know. Good luck!!
xO.Carrie
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U CAN STILL HAVE A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP I DO AND THEY SOMETIMES WORK OUT
PLUS IT WILL SAVE U SOME EMBARASSMENT
HAPPY HALLOWEEN
ASHLEY
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You have to tell him sooner or later because you are going to regret it when you tell him before he leaves. You never know, he might like you! Anyways, he's not gonna tell everyone because why would anyone tell everyone that someone likes them? Hun, just go for it and tell him how you feel!! Hope I helped and good luck with everything sweetie :)
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well just tell him before he moves.. or else you might regret it.
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Jen,
I'm the kind of girl that always says what's on her mind. If you like the guy, I think you should tell him.
Weigh the issues:
If you tell him, you might be humiliated. Or, (and this is what I think will more likely happen) you could end up with a great boyfriend. Sometimes dorks are great. Lol.
Is this guy really the kind of guy that would go around screaming to the whole school "HEY EVERYONE, JEN HAS A CRUSH ON ME!!"? If not, GO FOR IT!
If you don't tell him, you could end up missing out on a possibly great relationship with a guy you like...or your feelings could remain a total mystery to everyone except you, and eventually fade...OR you could end up majorly regretting it. (that's probably what would happen to me, which is why I always say what's on my mind, lol)
It depends entirely on what you're more comfy doing.
If you wanna risk possible humiliation (doubtful?) and/or get a relationship out of it, open your mouth and let your feelings come out.
If not, don't. The decision is yours. You've just gotta weigh your choices and your issues, then decide what you wanna do.
I hope this helped - let me know what you decided/what happens! If not on here, IM me (SirenCytherea)
-Siren =)
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