I'm a cool chico, and I try to help others to love themselves. It's a rough world out there, but grawr, I can handle it.
Since this comes up so often, let's make this very clear: You can not pick and choose where you want to lose fat. Exercising your abs will make your abs strong - but losing tummy fat is dependent on your body fat percentage and genetics.
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So, I'm a 15 year old girl, i've recently started daiting a new boy. We get along great and he always complements me, he comes over alot(5/6 days weve been together) But almost everytime he comes over, things get a little, intence. i started my period a few days ago, so thats kinda saved me. i'm usually not sexually active much at all. but i really like this guy alot.
1. does that kinda sound like hes just sexually into me?
2. if not, what would indecate that he was? (link)
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Sexual interest is normal. Generally in the beginning of relationships there's a heightened level of sexual activity. I'd be worried of a girl wasn't trying to nail me.
The question is whether you're comfortable with being sexual. It's okay if you're not. Just recognize it and discuss this with him.
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what are some songs that represent self-worth, breaking gender stereotypes, or progression in american media? i need some songs like this for a school project, but i cant think of any. thanks! (link)
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Hrm. For some reason, the only song I can think of is "Civil War", Guns`n`Roses
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Whats a boner? (link)
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erection
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months. We're really close and I trust him with my life. I think we're ready to take our relationship farther, on a physical scale. But whenever we talk about sex we're just kidding I guess. And he seems really timid to talk to me about it. He's not a virgin, so he's been in the "wanting to have sex" position before. But I'm wondering, am I doing the right thing by talking to him about it, or should I just leave it up to him or go for it in the heat of the moment? (link)
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Communication is always a good idea. Know where he stands, and make sure he knows where you stand.
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Is it normal to start your period in gr.6? another question. If your start having periods in gr.6 and don't have one till gr.8 is the normal? (link)
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Yes. This is normal. You can get your period at a large range, these days. It may also take a while for your period to normalize, or even show up again for a long time.
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So I don't usually get bad cramps, but yesterday and today I feel like someone it stabbing me in the uterus. Mydol doesn't work. Anything I can do? I already know the whole exersizing helps, I did last night and it didnt help. THANK YOU! (link)
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Exercise is supposed to help because it increases blood flow throughout the body, specifically to your uterus.
Tamponize yourself and consider masturbating. No, seriously. Guaranteed to increase blood flow to the area.
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someone asked me, "are you a liberal?"
what does liberal mean?
the dictionary's definition doesn't make sense to me. (link)
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Liberal means being open-minded and progressive, as opposed to clinging to old (usually flawed) ideas and refusing to accept societal changes.
For example, if you think gays are cool, then you're a liberal. If you don't, then you're a dumbass, a homophobe, and a conservative.
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whenever i run i get out of breath real easily so what can i do so i can run longer without getting so tired ? (link)
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Don't run until you're out of breath. Run at a moderate pace that your body can handle. If you run out of breath, then slow down a little bit and catch it.
Run regularly, and your heart will get stronger.
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Ok. So when I write
Favourite
And
colour.
And I spell check the things I wrote. The spell check says it’s
favorite
And
Color
Now I was wondering, what’s up with that?! Cause- according to my dictionary, my way is the good way,
PLEASE HELP I RATE (link)
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Difference between traditional british spelling, and americanized spellings. Both are technically correct, as long as you're consistent about it in a piece of prose. (That is, doesn't matter in casual speech, but if you're using favorite and favourite interchangably in an essay, it's probably not a good thing.)
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I love the games on pogo.com but my mom says I can't play because you can win actual money but if your under 18 you don't win the money. What I want is to play those games and chat with my own account on a site like it but without winning real money. (link)
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Odd. I floated around that site and never played anything that would have gotten me actual money. I scratch my head. How is winning money a bad thing? You can't lose anything unless you put something on the table.
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Ok, so I masturbate on school nights out of fear that I won't be too horny the next day and look at one of my friends the wrong way, ya know? But lately it hasn't been working so well, I still feel horny sometimes when I am at school. Don't suggest doing it in the morning because I barely have enough time for breakfast as it is, add that and well, it'd get messy. And also I have enough morals not to do it at school. So, if anyone knows the cure to unrelenting horniness please tell me.
15/m (link)
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*shrugs*
I never had that problem as I never associated my sexuality with other people - unless they liked me and were physically near me.
Unless you're admiring girls and popping wood on the spot, I bet this has nothing to do with your sexual appetite. As males, we are told, "If you look at girls, YOU'RE A PERVERT." Understand the context of your admiration. You're attracted to females. Admiring them does not degrade them. It has nothing to do with how often you masturbate. You're better off understanding the context with which you're admiring them, and just accepting that you're admiring them. That is, just be glad you're in a setting where you can admire them and don't feel guilty about it.
At least, that's my hunch.
Otherwise, when I was in high school, I masturbated before going to bed so I'd sleep faster. It was a useful technique.
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Is it common for girls to not be attracted to guys (age 14)? They all seem too immature in school and I'm not like those other girls that think every dude is "hot". I'm not concerned about this, I don't care If I have a bf or not but I was just wondering if this is common (and I'm not gay, I know that). It's a bit hard to explain in detail but in short, guys aren't intresting... At least not yet. (link)
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If you're feeling it, it's normal.
I didn't get my first crush until I was 15. After my first girlfriend when I was 16 and consequently a rush of emotions and my first kiss, I had a string of shallow crushes afterwards.
Enjoy your innocence, it's all downhill from there. ; )
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when is it ok to kiss your girlfriend? like, what times/how long you've been dating/age?
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When there is a mutual comfort which causes your lips to gravitate towards each other. You you can just lay a big one on her, it's not a big deal.
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So, basically I have these problem areas that I've been working on for atleast the past year. I guess you could call them "love handles", my abs, and my inner thighs. I do curl ups (like 100 a night), these one leg things like 25 a night, and i dont know what to do about myl ove handles. Oh, sometimes I run about a mile.
I don't know what to do anymore.
Nothing helps.
Pleaseeee help. =)
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What WiseAl said, as you can not target fat loss, only build muscle in the area you're working. Lower total body fat and you may see a difference.
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I need a bigger butt. Any food, exersize, or clothing ideas? Please no exersize tips that make your butt tighter or perkier. Just bigger. I know pulling your shirt down makes your butt look bigger, and I know grains might help a bit. Any ideas? (link)
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Only way to increase the size of your rear end is to increase overall body fat, which I doubt is something you're interested in. I'm glad you have pride in your bum, though.
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I am a male, 15, and lately I've been wondering about something. There are many girls in our school and grade. I am a gentleman and open doors, get chairs, etc. for the girls. It is pretty much the same way with my friends, we are all like that. But the girls in our school keep saying they like "skaters" or "skaters are soo hot" and we really are wondering what is wrong with us. Not to boast, but all of us are good looking. The girls just keep talking about "skaters." So why is it like this, and do girls not like gentlemen or something? (link)
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Like others have said, it is just a trend. Not all girls are like this.
Don't change. Instead, find girls that really do appreciate you. You may have to reset your sights.
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My cheast is different sizes,my right breast is bigger then my left and that makes me self-cautious, i cant wear low cut shirts, or a swimming suit without putting a pading in my left breast wich makes it uncomftreble and doesnt look right.I wanna be confident about my body. I saw a doctor and she said u cant do anything about it, only plastic surgery.But i wanna change my chest somehow, is there any lotion that i can rub on it, or any pills that can help me?I dont know what to do.Please help.
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Most girls have different size breasts. You are normal.
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16/f My dad won't let me get my license until I turn 17. I don't think this is fair. I've been driving (with a learners permit) for a year now. I'm like the perfect daughter, and I make mostly A's in school. I've never gotten in any serious trouble. And I really need my license because my parents hate driving me everywhere, and so I'm always stuck at home and I feel so..restrained? I don't know if thats the right word. But it's been really depressing me, seeing as ALL my friends are or have gotten their license when they turn(ed) 16. But I'm the only one who won't be getting mine. I cry all the time when I think about it, I want my license soo badly. How can I talk my dad into letting me get my license? I need some good, real answers. Thanks. (link)
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I didn't get my license until I was seventeen, because I live in Jersey.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but just how can your dad STOP you from getting your advice? Obviously there's the problem of a car, but the actual license, I don't think you need anything from your parents.
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If I'm a female in my 20's, have never been sexually active, and don't plan to start for a while (just not interested right now and too many other things going on in my life), and haven't had any problems with my health or menstruation, do I need to see a ob-gyn? I'm busy with graduate school, so I'd like to just put it off, but I'm hearing more and more women my age talk about their ob-gyn appointments. I'm confused about whether ob-gyn care is necessary for women who aren't sexually active and have never been. I made a resolution to take care of my health this year and get to a physician for a physical, along with other doctor's appointments, but I don't know if a ob-gyn visit should also be on my list. (link)
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If you go now when you KNOW you're working properly, it'll be less intimidating when you actually have questions.
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I have some weight on my hips I want to get rid of. What are the best excercises to do to get rid of it?
Thanks.
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There is no such thing as spot reduction. Doing hip exercises will strengthen your hips. Cool beans for you. But fat is not dictated by muscle. Fat distribution is dictated by total body fat percentage. Do a full-body workout on a regular basis, in companion with a regular diet, and you'll be in better shape and have a lower body fat percentage.
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