|
| |
|
I just recentely got out of a 10 month relationship, (Three weeks ago) but also just found somebody new. This new guy I'm pretty sure might ask me out soon, but the problem is he's a grade older than me. I know that's not much older at all, but my parents are very protective. I know that if he were to ask me out I'd say yes, but I don't know how to break it to my parents. I don't have the closest relationship with them when it comes to boys. Also, when my sister was a freshman like I am she dated a senior and they let her go out with him all the time. Don't you think it would be unfair if they didn't do the same for me? So how do you think I should break it to my parents? (link)
|
If he's only a grade older, then isn't there a chance you could technically be the same age? Also girls are a lot more mature and develop in all ways earlier than guyz, so you two will probs be on the same maturity level.
Yeah it is really unfair if your parents let your sister date somebody older than her; and they don't let you.
You really need to sit down with them, or even just the one parent you get along with better and have a calm discussion about it. It will mean a lot to them that you value their opinion, and that you're asking their permission before anything happens between you and this guy.
hope ur ok, and hope this has helped
feel free to get in touch
XxXxX
|
|
I'm a LONER,a LOSER,a complete chatter box, and people think I'm anoing,I don't have any cool clothes either,Ialso don't stick to anything a start for exsample:baseketball,music lessons...! How do I make friends or even have them to want to be friends with me and maybe get a guy too like to go out with me? P.S. I'm 13 years old, Female,and super shy. (link)
|
heya,
well first of all have some confidence in yourself as this will really help you make friends; and make them want to talk to you.
You need to join in with conversations... and make the effort to get to know new people, they'll appreciate it and it's a great way to make friends.
If you have confidence in yourself and are proud of whatever clothes you have; you can make them be cool! You never know, you might even start a new trend :-)
Try and talk to the guy you like, casually drop comments into a conversation, smile and just be friendly towards him.
hope ur ok, and that this has helped.
feel free to get in touch!
XxXxX
|
|
how do you get people to subscribe to you and leave you comments on your site? for xanga.. (link)
|
Hey,
just look round and comment on any sites you like the look of; if the person is nice then they will comment you back :-)
whats your xanga? cause I have one :-)
feel free to get in touch
XxXxX
|
|
ok i've never been felt up before so i dont exactly know what the guy does up there anyways. when i feel my boobs i can barely feel the nipple unless its cold. is this normal because i always hear the guys saying oh she had such big nipples and im wondering what they'll think if i get felt up! sorry this is the stupidest question ever! (link)
|
hey,
I agree with the other advice given; but honestly you don't need to worry, nipple size and shape vary from woman to woman.
And the guy won't mind whatever the size is!
hope ur ok,
feel free to get in touch
XxXxX
|
|
Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide. (link)
|
Hey,
It was probs just your period, or maybe he was too rough, but I honestly don't believe it's an STD so don't worry about that.
If the bleeding continues; and it isn't your period then you should go to a doctor and get checked out.
I'm sure that your boyfriend would stick by you, whatever the cause is, so try to relax and dont worry abut it,
hope your ok,
feel free to get in touch
XxXxX
|
|
can you run with ur ipod on? (link)
|
yup, definatly :-) I do every day lol just make sure it's secure!
XxXxX
|
|
my mom is gay and now im startign to tell my friends and they like me for who i am not what my mom is or isnt but now there is a nasty girl across the street and i guess she saw my mom and her girlfriend kissing and now shes telling everyone and its not sucha great way to start off my summer.should i really care what other people are going to say do you think its gonna ruin my years coming in school if i admit to everyoner that my mother is a lesbian? (link)
|
The simple answer is no, you shouldn't care about what other people think, and everyone, including you, should be happy for your mom.
But honestly, we both know that some people can be really cruel, and so you might get teased and people may say some stupid, mean things to you... but people willing to do that, aren't worth your time.
just stick with your friends, and be proud that your mom is happy :-)
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need anymore advice :-)
XxXxX
|
my best friend and i are goin to different high schools next year. i had the choice to go to her high school, but i decided not to because i didn't want to be unhappy at that high school. a month ago she left to go to another country with her family and she's comin home soon. while she was on vacation she called everyone else, but me. durin the school year we only saw each other 3 times and we haven't seen since. she only calls me when she has no one to talk to. we call each other wifey because that was how tight we were b4. she's changed a lot and i just dont know if i want to be her friend anymore. i've been through everything with her and now she's kinda leavin me for her little slutty friends. she's always sayin how she's goin to make it all up. when she makes plans she'll tell me about it, but wont invite me. i just feel like we aren't friends anymore and i've talked to her about this already, but i guess she doesnt get it. what do you guys think i should do?
sorry that this is sooo long, but its just killin me to keep thinkin about this inside. i'm givin advice to other people and i can't help myself (link)
|
well done... that was brave making the decision to go to a different high school; it should show you that maybe you're ready for a fresh start, away from your old friend.
I'm not saying that you could end all contact with the girl... try and rebuild your friendship if it used to be really strong... but start to make new friends and enjoy yourself at high school.
I think you should try and talk it out with her once more, but if it doesn't work... then you have to decide if the situation is worth trying to save your friendship.. or if you should just let it go.
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need any more advice :-)
XxXxX
|
|
I don't have many friends because I'm reserved and not really social. I am way outgoing when people get to know me though. But because I am not outgoing around strangers, it's rare for people to notice and talk to me. I was wondering how you met some of your best friends? Any other suggestions on how I can make new friends besides joining clubs? (link)
|
just go out more, to an arcade or the movies, even the mall... if your shy then take a confident friend with you and just smile and go up to people and say something as simple as "hey". The fact that you've made the effort will help to break the ice.
Also, when you're around your friends, and perhaps in a conversation with people you don't really know... just try and add to their conversation by sayign comments, laughing along and most importantly smiling... give people the impression that you're open and up for talking :-)
and finally... try and become more confident in yourself, don't worry about what you're going to say, just try to relax.
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need any more advice :-)
XxXxX
|
|
high school starts soon whats the best way to get a good reputation with people? im really nervous please help me out!!! (link)
|
The best way to get a good reputation with people at high school is to get to know a variety of people, be friendly and open to everybody; and try to help each other, as starting high school can be quite scary!
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else :-)
XxXxX
|
|
my friends and i are really close in lik two weeks we're going to b freshmen im so nervous we'll fall apart anyways to prevent this even if are schedules are totally different?? (link)
|
don't worry about it... friendships can last even during hard times; for example my best friend moved to the other side of the country last summer and we're still just as close now as we were then.
even if your schedules are different, you can still help each other study, eat together, hang out inbetween and after classes and support each other...
just think of it this way... if you have a different schedule, you can meet other people while staying close to your friend... and just think about how much you will have to talk about! lol
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else :-)
XxXxX
|
im going into my freshman yr & ive known this girl for about 7 yrs..shes changed alot and shes going thru so much...she trys to get noticed by doing stuff with guys..it disgusts me but i still want to know im always here for her & at the same time tell that whats shes doing isnt ne good
please help my friend and i stay close! (link)
|
have a proper talk with her; she's your friend, so she will appreicate your opinion. explain that you're always there for her, but you don't agree with some of the things she's doing right now, especially with guys... try and get across the point that you're not calling her a slut... but that maybe she should think about what sort of reputation she wants... and the sort that she's going to get if she carries on doing this stuff.
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else :-)
XxXxX
|
|
Okay so i have been talking to this girl for a really long time and she wanted to hangout really bad so she came over one night. I flirted with her a lot and we had sex. And i know this girl likes me A LOTT. but the thing is i dont like her at all and i tottaly led her on by having sex with her so how do i make it as easy as i can on her without dating her? (link)
|
lol you've been getting some harsh advice dude :-p
i know you're not going to like it... but you need to be sensitive, and have a deep conversationg with her... explain that the situation got out of hand, and you didn't plan on having sex, it was happened.
it was a spur of the moment... it felt right at the time, but right now you can't commit to anything, as you're not ready. tell her that you do like her, but nothing else can happen at this point in time.
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else :-)
XxXxX
|
|
LONG BUT i'LL LOVE YOU FOREVER=/. i'm not a total idiot, and i usually don't need advice i just give it. me and my ex- [we will call danny] were going out since Nov. 7, 2004, yeah but broke up 4 times. the second to last time it was for a month because i liked another boy [we will call him cody] and i wanted to give him a 2nd chance, yes... i already had gone out with him. so it ended and with a little struggle started going back out, everything back to normal... felt good. i was always comfortable with being with danny. last friday, i'm dissapointed to admit, i cheated on him with cody. danny hadn't been calling me, and when he did VERY RARELY. so i called him yesterday, he doesn't know i cheated, and we argued & he said he didn't know if he wanted to go out with me. so i just said it's over & he said he wasn`t happy but was going to go. i haven't talked to danny since. cody REALLY likes me and everything and he's a really good boyfriend, but i always end up just wanting danny. please just give me .. SOMETHING, anything. my friends are too dumb for this stuff. (link)
|
heya,
woah that's a tricky situation.
if you still have strong feelings for danny, then you shouldn't be with cody, until you're positive you're over danny as it's unfair.
and if you're finding it difficult to decide which guy you have real feelings for, then I suggest you "take a break" with cody whilst you sort your emotions out.
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else :-)
XxXxX
|
|
when you run, where do you loose weight? just all over your body or is it in specific areas? i've heard you loose weight in your stomach, thihgs, butt, and love handles! is that right? (link)
|
running is a good cardio exercise, and will work your heart more than anything. but yes, the more noticeable changes will be in toning your legs, butt and your stomach.
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else
XxXxX
|
|
i was wondering is there anyway u can get a size or 2 smaller in jeans in a week or sooner?? (link)
|
not in a week not, at least not if you're going to go about it the right way.
you can see a noticeable difference though if you start to eat right... more heathily and get the right balance of each food group in your diet.
this alongside exercise every day such as running will definatly help get you to that smaller size, though it will take a little longer than a week.
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else
XxXxX
|
13/m
ok. ive been goin out with this girl for 2 months and i wanna kiss her bu ti dont know what to do to get to that point. we hang out everyday at this place that alot of our friends go to. should i kiss her there?. or there but somewhere private. what should i doo?? (link)
|
you should most likely kiss her in private, as it can be a little embarassing and awkward when infront of your friends...
and just relax, put your arms round her, gently pull her in and kiss her...
good luck dude :-)
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else
XxXxX
|
|
well my boyfriends coming to visit me here in pa and i really want to get in shape for him. the rest of my body is fine but my tummy is a problem lol i need a flat tummy! well i wanted to know if there was a way that i didnt have to sacrafice my eating habits and lose this tummy in three weeks! please help thnx! (link)
|
heya,
sit-ups are the easiest option though not the most effective on their own.
add in some running, as this tones your legs and stomach.
and i know you said you didn't want to sacrifice your eating habits... but you could try just drinking more water and having a healthier meal each day and it would really help to get a flat tummy, especially when you only have three weeks!
hope it helps,
feel free to get in touch if you need anymore advice
XxXxX
|
|
alright i just want to know if there is ne way for me to lose weight and gain more muscle ik im a bit on the chubby side and i just want to know any ways to lose weight and gain muscle w/out actually lifting weights b/c i have no way to get access to weights (link)
|
Take it slow at first, just start with eating more healthily... less junk food and soda... more water and fruit, veg and the right balance of protein and carbs in your diet.
Alongside this, start doing some exercise, jogging/running will help you become fitter, lose weight and tone your legs and stomach. sit-ups will work your abs; push-ups and variations will tone your arms and build up muscle.
hope this helps
feel free to get in touch if you need any more help :-)
XxXxX
|
there is a girl. she doesnt know how i feel about her, i think. she's been helping me boost my self confidence. i want to show her i appreciate it. i just dont know what to do.
help. (link)
|
Get her a small but meaningful gift; something personally to you two or even just a single flower and give it to her and tell her that it's to show how much you've appreciated her help... even offer to take her to a movie or something as a "thank you" and then see how things go
good luck hun
XxXxX
|
|
