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staying friends


Question Posted Thursday July 28 2005, 2:57 am

my friends and i are really close in lik two weeks we're going to b freshmen im so nervous we'll fall apart anyways to prevent this even if are schedules are totally different??

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rikatree2375 answered Saturday July 30 2005, 1:05 am:
If y'all are already really good friends, it would take a lot to break that up. Just talk on aim and call each other a lot. Go to the movies together. Just keep in contact so things stay the same. Don't worry, i'm sure she's thinking of ways to keep things as they are too!!!

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maria2653 answered Friday July 29 2005, 9:25 pm:
call her every day or almost every day to see if she wants to hang out. hope i helped!

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Nevaeh314 answered Friday July 29 2005, 7:34 pm:
I know where you're coming from here, next year I'll be going off to college and I don't think that the boy I love more than anything will be going to the same one, and it will be really hard...but...
True friends will always stay together, don't worry about falling apart. You'll always have after school and during lunch to chat and share stories, and you'll still be in the same high school. Chances are, if you're both freshman and neither of you is in very accelerated classes, you're going to end up in some classes together, even if it's not all of them. Everyone makes out freshman year to be a huge change and a really big deal, but trust me, it's not. It's just like middle school, except bigger lockers and a bit harder classes. You'll have some great times with your friend, going to football games, dances and the like.
Oh, and by the way, use your school's system to your advantage. I always went in to see the counselor to change around my schedule if I didn't like it, that's one of the great things about being able to pick your classes and the times that you want to have them. Sometimes you can't, because some classes are only offered at a few times per day, but you should be able to get a few classes with your friend.
Hope this helps, have fun in high school!
Love,
Nevaeh

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xdesireex0 answered Thursday July 28 2005, 9:13 am:
Don't worry...i was extremley worried about this when i was entering high school..now i'm a sophmore and most of my friends i grew apart from, that doesn't mean that i don't talk to them it's just that they perfer to do somethings that i don't agree with..it's only a part of life..you can't prevent it unless you have a fabulous relationship with your friends..as long as you still say hi to them and talk to them you shouldn't fall apart...i hope i helped!
~Linda

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MissAverageGirl answered Thursday July 28 2005, 8:22 am:
don't worry about it... friendships can last even during hard times; for example my best friend moved to the other side of the country last summer and we're still just as close now as we were then.
even if your schedules are different, you can still help each other study, eat together, hang out inbetween and after classes and support each other...
just think of it this way... if you have a different schedule, you can meet other people while staying close to your friend... and just think about how much you will have to talk about! lol
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else :-)
XxXxX

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